Xmas dive-sex and the net GropeSuit

A model in a generic GropeSuit clearing her mask

My Cycle and my protection: I’m CD2 today, bleeding heavily and at my secondary libidinal peak during menses. I’m wearing a hyper-vacuumed (pumped down) Reflexions for menstrual flow control and as a gas guard. For more about increasing the vacuum in the dome of a latex diaphragm see my entry for January 6, 2011 ‘Increasing the effectiveness of vaginal latex’. I’m going diving in a few minutes and the flat spring rim will not distort and cause leakage - as other rim styles will – below 30 feet. And with a stronger vacuum in the dome – I can feel the rubber stretched tightly over my cervix – I’m confident I won’t have any accidents while wearing a net GropeSuit in the casino or restaurants since you can’t wear a menstrual pad with a net GropeSuit because the outline of the pad would be obvious.

The net GropeSuit: Escorts offering dive-sex encounters want to appear infinitely desirable while at the same time seemingly unattainable, just like ballerinas on stage. To accomplish this in the intimacy of an encounter pool the girls often wear neck entry net GropeSuits to heighten a client’s desire and anticipation by appearing totally incased in a GropeSuit of tough silicone rubber netting that is almost entirely revealing while encasing her body. The crotch of the Groper is open, but initially hidden by the girl’s thong. Wearing this sort of suit has been known to cause young males to lose control and spontaneously ejaculate while just looking at a girl encased in a net Groper. In our resort/casino since she is technically covered, a wearer is not confined to the pool area. We can wear the suits into the casino with a pareo around our hips and into the up-market restaurant by putting a pashmina over our shoulders and breasts. When I wear a net GropeSuit into our five-star restaurant a hush comes over the diners as they watch me pass by in matching pointes.

Net GropeSuits and BDSM: Net GropeSuits are also worn by female Subs to some Masters in the BDSM community for underwater bondage with restraints fastened to the netting rather than the Subs body to hold the wearer in position against a wall, mounted on penetrative machinery or just below the surface of a pool while wearing scuba with very limited air for breath training. Attaching the restraints to the netting prevents marking the body of a woman who is struggling to breathe.

Custom GropeSuits from Labia Labs: The GropeSuits my dancers and I and the casinos escorts wear are custom made by Labia Labs with smaller neck and crotch openings for a custom fit rather than like the one shown in the photo accompanying this entry. The silicon rubber in an LL custom GropeSuit is very tough and stretchy, much better than the cheaper mass produced ones that Adolph has gotten from on-line rubberwear makers, but I don’t think he wants to put that much money in what will probably be a disposable single use, garment for a snuff video. Another thing I like about wearing a Labia Labs net Groper is that I can breast feed right through the openings in the netting. There is no need to unfasten a cup or partially undress to let a lover breastfeed which is very convenient and leaves me in far more control of the situation should we suddenly find ourselves being observed. Another nice thing about a net suit is that pool chemicals or salt water can be easily rinsed off and afterward it dries very quickly.

Diaphragms as Christmas gifts: Some of my friends from the casino got gas guards for Christmas. Some to replace older latex versions with silicone ones and some got a gas guard for the first time. Most were sort of self-gifts in anticipation of dive-sex with male friends. Except for the moms who had their daughters fitted for their first diaphragms because they were being given SCUBA lessons for Christmas. Most got diaphragms (instead of FemCaps) so they can be used when the wearer is menstrual and diaphragms are usually easier to insert correctly too, especially the All-Flex arcing spring. Returning readers will remember that an All-Flex is only effective as a dive-sex gas guard down to 30 feet, but for most women that is not a limitation since very few of them have access to anything deeper than a 20 ft deep training pool and around here open water is too cold for underwater intercourse even in the summer.

Foam spermicide: Recently, as the number of diaphragm users increases, there has been some interest among users to simplify the application of spermicide in the dome and a few have tried spermicidal foam. Delfen vaginal contraceptive foam and VCF Foam are two widely distributed brands. The foam is not formulated for use with a cervical barrier. Most contraceptive foam has 12.5% of the spermicidal active ingredient Nonoxynol-9 in it. That is a much higher concentration than the typical 2% - 4% N9 in spermicidal gels formulated for and typically used with diaphragms. And with that large an amount of N9 several have gotten painful allergic reactions. Another problem is that by volume it takes a lot more foam to be effective even with 12.5% N9 and that much can’t be contained in the dome of a diaphragm.

What that has resulted in is at least two pregnancies so far from Christmas gifts of diaphragms while using foam in the dome. Both girls were told that using foam was not a good idea and used it anyway. Both were from one of the high schools in town (not from St Lucy’s – our girls know better) and came to the clinic on their own for Mifeprex. So, we are trying to spread the word – through the fitters at our clinic and student health at the schools - to all the women who have been fitted for diaphragms recently to avoid using vaginal contraceptive foam and to switch to a gel or cream spermicide in the domes of their diaphragms.