Cara: Recreation and Education

Fatal attraction

Cara’s work ethic: I started this entry as a reply to a comment by a long time friend and reader, Eric, about my December 10, 2009 post, Cara; new chick on the block. Eric asked about her pointe skill level. As I was writing my reply I thought it brought up a series of important points that deserved expansion into a blog entry rather than just a reply to a comment. What I wrote in the comment was:

“I’m going to be watching Cara’s stamina and speed in pointe class. She’s enrolled in a school that has several levels for recreational, semi-pro and professional dancers. At the moment they have her slotted in the top advanced recreational class until they see what she can do. I’m not going to push her about pointe because ballet isn’t her career path and she needs to keep thinking of pointe as recreation and fun. Keep in mind that she is going for her Ph D in Psychology. She will be a Psychologist so I’m going to concentrate on getting her escort education on track which is what she needs to blend in with and be respected by the women she wants to interview if she is going to immerse herself in the trade for a few months. She has a very dry sense of humor so she is already calling our escort training facility ‘Fuck-U’.”

“As much as I would like to have her take my company class I teach Balanchine (very fast) footwork and I don’t want to have anyone in class who can’t keep up. If that were to happen with Cara I’d have to ask her not to participate in company class so I want to be sure she is up to it and it wouldn’t be at the expense of her school work. Even my professionals are panting at the end of my classes so the way I teach class isn’t for sissies. Right now I’m more interested in her spending her time doing Kegels and building up her pelvic and diving stamina which is what she will need for competing with other candidates in her escort class. I’m going to expand on this in a blog entry because I think it’s important to follow how she will navigate the dual and sometimes competing physical requirements of ballet and escort training.”

Expanding on the above, everyone has a finite amount of energy and if a person’s life is filled with physical and mental exertion there are times when energy demands are so high that needs must come before pleasure. Cara’s work ethic is exemplary. There is no other way she could have graduated from Harvard with honors and be doing very well in her doctorial program. Her Doctorial advisor says she is an excellent student. So far she is making the choices that need to be made, concentrating on getting in shape as an escort which takes strengthening some muscle groups that aren’t generally used by classical dancers. It’s imperative that the other escort candidates in her class see her as giving escort training her full attention. That’s because they already know she is studying to be a Psychologist and has taken a seat in the class where competition for seats is strong. There has already been some mumbling about Cara taking a slot from someone who deserved it more because she was going into the profession full time. So Cara is going to have to be as good as or better than the best professional in class just to retain her credibility and validity to hold the seat and make friends with the other girls which is what she will need to do for her study. It could get pretty rough, but then the life of an escort isn’t all being arm-candy for rich and beautiful men.

That may be where Cara’s extensive ballet training will help because ballet is key to teaching discipline, fluid movement, grace and line in class and none of the other students in her class have the intensive training in ballet that Cara does. So she may be able to use that strength to her advantage by tutoring other girls in her class and show them she’s not just another pretty face with connections on the faculty. Actually, we are going to be harder on Cara than the other students so there will be no doubt about her not receiving preferential treatment. None of the others in her class have had a great deal of sexual experience, if what they told us is true, so Cara’s lack of pelvic skills isn’t a disadvantage and with Robin and me tutoring her she should do well there.

Lesson one: The first thing I need to be sure Cara understands is that being an escort is a commercial transaction and should have almost nothing to do with personal romance on the part of the escort. She shouldn’t be lulled into a ‘fatal attraction’ to the physicality of the man or the pleasure which he gives her. That sort of thing clouding an escort’s mind has been the cause of more than a few of their deaths. On an intellectual level I’m certain she know that, but newly involved in intimate encounters with rich handsome men can skew the most levelheaded woman’s perspective. And, if the client becomes romantically involved with his escort that’s usually trouble as well. It’s not that she shouldn’t enjoy herself, she should because the experienced client can tell if she isn’t, she won’t be aroused and the guys can tell when a girl is faking. Faking an orgasm at the level Cara will be entering the trade is a bad career move. If he isn’t good in the saddle she may have to develop a mental image of being screwed by Brad Pitt or Ben Affleck to help him get herself off because an escort has to deliver an orgasm, unless the client just wants to talk or is there to hurt her with brutal sex which in itself can be a huge turn-on for a surprising number of chicks. So while she is letting him do his thing and take her on a magic carpet ride she needs to be aware of her surroundings, especially with a new client. With a client she has been with successfully before an escort may be able to drop her guard to some extent but with a new man you never know exactly what will happen.

Fetish encounters: That’s especially true if a girl is working a fetish encounter. A fetish encounter may be as tame as wearing ballet slippers or hose and a grater belt for the customer, or it could be as edgy as being taken in a latex encasement suit, ballet boots and a gasmask with rebreather bag while bound to an altar or barre. The encasement suits and ballet boots are kinky but not dangerous. Gasmasks and rebreathers can be very dangerous especially with a new client because the woman’s vision is limited by what she can see through the lenses of her mask, which may be nothing if she is sweating and the insides of lenses have fogged. Once the escort can’t see what the client is doing with his hands he could be closing the valve on her rebreather bag or dipping the open valve into a Ziploc bag containing cotton balls saturated with chloroform. Once something like that happens she is totally helpless. I’m having Robin give her some of those scary fetish experiences sprinkled among the pleasurable ones to give her a bit of paranoia about what can happen if she isn’t careful. Only in her personal relationships with men friends can an escort totally let her guard down and enjoy the pleasures a talented man can bring to an intense sexual experience.

Dangerous insertables

Gasmask rebreather with inflatable penis-gag

Dangerous BDSM and sex toys: Maybe I shouldn’t bother about this because all the players SHOULD know that BDSM, Breath and sex play can be dangerous, but girls and young women are being introduced to the lifestyle all the time with no warning about the risks. I’m not talking about rebreather bags valves that in a panic a user may forget how to open, or poorly made ballet boots which provide no support so a novice breaks an ankle the first time s/he stands up in them. I’m talking about pneumatic toys like inflatable penis-gags or dildos, which if they burst can send bits of latex down the wearer’s throat and choke her or if a dildo bursts while inserted and the woman isn’t wearing a gas guard she is quite likely to have an embolism that will cripple or kill her. It would be bad enough if this was occurring only to men, but women are the ones primarily injured by this sort of accident because we are almost always the submissives and the ones in bondage. In the hands of an inexperienced Dom or Domme a hand pumped inflatable gag or dildo can be just as dangerous to the sub wearing it as if s/he were being held at gunpoint. The only thing lacking at gunpoint is the surprise when the inflatable toy bursts. There have been a lot of girl-girl accidents where a high school Domme doesn’t know when to stop inflating her sub’s dildo and if the sub is lucky she just tears. If she isn’t the dildo bursts and you sometimes get a dead or brain-dead 15 y/o at a slumber party. That sort of thing is really difficult to explain to her parents. One of the first things I tell my students at St Lucy’s is don’t insert inflatables into any body cavity!

It’s gotten so that hand pumped dildos are almost standard penetration devices in BDSM play here. Every woman doing BDSM solo or with another BDSM fetishist should protect herself by being fitted for and wearing a gas guard. I don’t think the on-line custom latex shops that make the custom latex enclosure suits and inflatable gags and dildos warn their customers about the dangers bursting compressed air toys represent when worn internally, down the throat or in the vagina or anus. With an experienced partner enclosure suits, rebreather masks, gags and dildos can be amazingly erotic, but use and misuse of poor quality inflatable insertables can be tragic.

Cara; new chick on the block

Suiting up in Fasteners lingerie boutique

Pirate’s Niece: Pirate’s niece, Cara, is 24 and a Ph D student in Psychology at Harvard. She has a federal grant for ‘original research’ and has come out to the valley to do a 6-month project, research concerning the mental health of women working as escorts. The girls I’ve worked with seem relatively normal (however that’s defined) but before the candidates get to me there is a very thorough screening process so I’m sure there are some with mental problems in the trade. Cara is sexually active but totally inexperienced at the professional level so Pirate wants me to act as something of a teacher and guide and see that no serious harm comes to her while letting her take some knocks if she gets in tight spots. She has recently broken up with her boyfriend and he was the only man who she has ever had as a sex partner. Her not being in a monogamous relationship now is a good thing since she needn’t worry about being faithful to a BF in a long distance relationship and it may open her up to trying new things, because God knows as an escort trainee her life is definitely in for major changes!

Originally, when Pirate first asked me about guiding her through the minefield that is the escort profession I was ambivalent about taking her under my wing thinking with her East Coast academic background she wouldn’t fit in. That was until I learned she has been keeping up with her ballet classes and has been taking pointe 5 days a week for exercise, relaxation and according to Pirate, “the physical challenge that pointe represents”. I also thought she just wanted to interview girls in the trade, see where they live and make love and get some background and individual experiences. And she does. However, she also wants to be immersed in the culture by gaining experience on her back, or knees, or incased in rubber etc so she can get an authentic feel for the variety of experiences that an escort has and the range of emotions from terror to ecstasy while with a client. So I’m enthused that Cara will be joining my circle for a few months. Anyone who takes pointe 5 days a week for relaxation and is interested enough in the high-end sex trade to want to immerse herself in the experience is my kind of girl!

Kitting Cara out: Her parents think Pirate runs a very successful model agency, which in a way he does, and that Cara is into the academics of sociology and psychology rather than the sort of field work that will have her sweating, gasping, moaning, and using her hips to parry a partner’s pelvic thrusts as he tries to ram her cervix into her lungs. And that’s on a good day. Being taken doggie style while wearing a latex encasement suit and bound to an altar can rarely be considered an educational experience from which to gain academic credit, but I think if anyone can Cara will manage it. She is staying with me until we can find her a decent apartment and one of the first things I did was to take her to the clinic and have her meet chuck (Taryn’s main squeeze) the male Gyn and primary Gyn for the escort trainees. I had her fitted with a Milex Omniflex diaphragm (she takes a 70 mm) and a 22 mm FemCap for gas guards and talked her into getting a GyneFix IUD implant so she can stop taking Yaz which she had been on since it first came out. She said she had fairly stable cycles before she went on the pill so we will see. I took her to Gepettos to be fitted for Pleasure boots and while there she picked up a pair of 4” back laced over the knee leather stiletto boots (with side zips) of soft calf to wear around town. The soles and toe boxes are heavily padded so the boots are far more comfortable than 4” stiletto pumps. We stopped by the lingerie shop at Fasteners and got her a half dozen pairs of zip crotch fishnet tights and she was fitted with the first of her steel and rubber back-laced corsets with a thong bottom to prevent her attempting to adjust it once she is laced into it. The rubber corsets are diabolical because with the steel stays they seem stretch tighter to grip the wearer in a vice-like embrace the longer they are worn. So for a novice it’s best to be laced into this sort of corset lightly at first.

Exercise regimen: I’m having her start Pilates classes and she is continuing ballet classes in one of the good off-site ballet schools until she can catch up to where she can join company class, which in 6 months probably won’t happen. I’m thinking she can drop about 5 lbs and convert some fat to muscle and she will have a lovely almost Balanchine figure with perhaps her boobs a C-cup which is a bit too large for a classical dancer, but that’s not something she has to worry about. Fortunately she doesn’t have to worry about money either. She is a trust-fund girl so she can spend her time getting in shape and studying w/o having to worry about making a living. Chuck gave her some doxycycline and ibuprofen and she felt up to having her first post boyfriend sexual encounter last night when I introduced her to Chris who can be rough, but I asked him to be gentle with her. I have asked Robin her cousin to be her regular school partner when he finishes the insemination project he’s on at the end of the week. Until then Robin needs to keep his sperm count up so he isn’t banging any boxes except the Bi-chick actress who needs to get preggie for a role in her latest film.

Bi-Chick actress’s fertile days: Friday December 11th will be when Robin finishes drilling the Bi-chick actress who needs to be preggers for an abortion the character she plays has in her new film. He will have inseminated her twice a day since she became fertile and she is supposed to ovulate today, Thursday 12-10. She hasn’t been a problem at all once I made it clear that in our relationship I was dominant. She just breast feeds and is in afterglow from what Robin does to her so we just nap. I adjusted my schedule so I have one of my stallions take me while Robin is doing her so we will both be in afterglow together. It has been a lovely week holding her while we nap with us both draining fresh semen. We won’t know if she is preggers for at least another 2 weeks, which will be Christmas day! Well, it’s for certain that if she is knocked-up it won’t have been by an angel, though Robin is a delightful man!

the vaginal rubber fetish

Vaginal rubber, a latex Ortho All-Flex diaphragm

Vaginal rubber: The local rubber fetish community has finally begun to recognize latex cervical barriers as a necessary part of a woman being properly dressed in total rubber for thrust encounters in rubber clubs. That epiphany has resulted in a recent increase in the number of women coming in to the clinic to be fitted for diaphragms. I had been telling them about the need to wear a silicone caps (a strapless FemCap) as a safety precaution for at least a year after an influential Dom began using pressurized CO2 gas as punishment to keep his rubber-chicks in-line and other Doms began to follow his example. A jet of gas through a douche bag nozzle into a girl’s gasmask drinking port, down her open neck zipper into her cleavage or having her bend over to be penetrated and filling her vagina with gas can cause frostbite to sensitive tissues, or worse gassing a girl’s vagina can result in the rubber-chick dying from an embolism, unless she has an effective gas guard inserted.

Not surprisingly, my arguments about protecting the women’s safety had no effect on Doms providing their rubber-subs with gas guards. And now having the girls fitted with latex diaphragms (as they are currently still doing) offers almost no protection against CO2 gas in the vagina. That’s because if the gas gun has no warming baffle (and many don’t) and the gas is released in a sustained jet it cools the soft rubber dome to a temperature where the rubber will become brittle and shatter and pressurized gas can pass through the cervix to the uterus where it can easily enter the woman’s bloodstream. The only cervical barrier that can withstand even short duration jets of cold gas is the thicker silicone FemCap and as I mentioned FemCaps or even silicone rubber diaphragms aren’t what the Doms are having their girls fitted with. The men want the girls wearing latex diaphragms because they have found the latex transfers heat better than silicone of a similar thickness, but most of all because a latex dome is much more stretchy when rammed by a thrusting penis, which some Rubber Doms are calling ‘caressing the rubber wall’.

Velvet latex: Gepetto’s sex-device shop has been working for some time to enhance a man’s experience when he is ‘caressing the rubber wall’ by increasing the friction of the soft latex dome of a diaphragm (also known as a sports shield or gas guard) when the glans of an erect penis is rubbed against it. The shop had tried a lot of different formulations to increase the ‘tooth’ of the surface of natural rubber to simulate the short dense pile of velvet. Some formulations worked for short periods of time, but the tooth or pile was so delicate that it rubbed off after being used for a few acts of intercourse so the dome lost it’s effectiveness as a male experience enhancer. Worse however was that it left the wearer with microscopic bits of latex in her vagina which when mixed with the woman’s natural secretions over an interval of several days creates a funky vaginal odor similar to what occurs after forgetting and leaving a latex diaphragm inserted too long.

Recently Gepetto has been experimenting with a new formulation of latex created by Jeff’s labs, to develop an enhanced experience diaphragm. After dipping the rim in liquid latex the finishing process subjects the outer surface of the dome to a gas which causes it to foam with a uniform surface of millions of microscopic bubbles which when dry establish a very tight molecular bond providing a strong soft surface that simulates the feel of velvet while being difficult to wear through. The latex quickly reaches body temperature so there is no decrease in heat transfer and there is no decrease in elasticity if properly cared for. The latex is still sensitive to extremes of heat and cold and easily deteriorated by oily substances, but Pirate, Robin, and the other men who have been trialing the few made for testing purposes (Anya, Taryn and I are the only women involved in testing because of the potential value of the new device) say they provide an amazing enhancement to a man’s pleasure by the way the bubbled surface of the stretchy latex caresses the heads of their penises. The working name for the project is ‘Bubble Wrap’ but marketing wants to call the line Vaginal Velvet.

Gepetto’s shop is now starting to test a similar product which is gas treated on both the inside as well as the outside of the dome. Treating the inside gives the woman the same caress enhancement sensation against her vaginal walls, especially for the erectile tissue of her G-spot. With a diaphragm inserted I can’t use the full strength of my vaginal muscles to grip my partner’s shaft because the spring rim absorbs some of it but the double velvet diaphragm I’m testing now (I’m the only woman so far) takes me to orgasm unbelievably fast (in less than 10 minutes when I’m Luteal) and that’s amazing because today I’m CD20 and in my Luteal phase. When I’m being taken bareback by a lover who knows how to light my fire it will typically take at least 15 minutes after penetration when I’m fertile and when I’m luteal (like now) 25 minutes to get me to a G-spot orgasm. I was just given the first one to test so I don’t know just yet how quickly I will orgasm with it when I’m fertile. I think Vaginal Velvet could be a huge seller if Gepetto decides to go commercial with it. Right now he sees the market for Vaginal Velvet devices as being primarily for professional escorts who want to offer their rubber-stud clients an exceptionally intense experience w/o requiring them to ingest or wear anything themselves.

Contraceptives as Fetishes: Readers of this blog know that I have a number of fetishes. The main ones are: Pointe shoes, Diaphragms and cervical caps, especially the Oves cap. People don’t usually think of women as having fetishes, they are far more likely to be a male thing, but with contraceptives: hormonal methods pills, patch, ring or shot; IUDs and cervical barriers making the hormonal method or device you are fitted with a fetish can increase a woman’s desire as well as the effectiveness of the method. That’s because a fetish object is far more likely to be used correctly and used every time than one that doesn’t have the user’s interest level that a fetish object does. I don’t specifically talk about contraceptives as fetish objects to my escort candidates or St Lucy’s students, but getting them to equate the contraceptive they are using with pleasure and safety can, over time, reinforce a fetish-like desire for disciplined use of the method.

This can be problematic when a woman is just starting on pharmaceuticals and she hasn’t found the hormone mix or delivery method right for her. For example; where the patch (Ortho Evra) can come unstuck and fall off or develop sores underneath, or pills where the type and amount of hormones will cause nausea, swollen and sore breasts, or a copper frame IUD can cause heavy bleeding and these side effects can be a huge turnoff so it is very important to find an effective method that works well for you as soon as possible before contraceptives become a turn-off. Once a woman has an effective method that fits her lifestyle then elevating it to the status of a fetish so she wants and needs to use it correctly is a very good thing.

I’ve found that focusing on the pleasure of wearing rubber inserted in the vagina is particularly effective with the women who need motivating most, the ones who are most likely to be non-compliant, not inserting correctly or using their barrier for every act of intercourse. This is especially true of divers who have a GyneFix IUD implanted so have little concern about pregnancy. Of course the problem for divers with a GyneFix inserted isn’t pregnancy but pelvic inflammatory disease (PID which can cause sterility by scaring a woman’s tubes) or an embolism from having air forced into the uterus by the hydraulics of male thrusting under water, which is why it is so important for divers interested in dive-sex to be compliant in wearing vaginal rubber.

Chastity belts at Naughty’s

A woman’s modern anti-masturbation belt

Chastity belts at Naughty’s: For the Holidays the servers at Naughty’s are wearing chastity belts! Beginning on Halloween we’ve had the shop assistants in Fasteners, our BDSM boutique, wear them, over thong-back leotards, and traffic through the shop increased dramatically. Sales immediately increased by 7 percent for women customers and by 16 percent for men! Our wait staff at Naughty’s all wear their belts over Penetrator plugs (all our Naughty’s girls are plugged because they could be kicked in the groin) and at first a unitard or leo/tights combinations so there really isn’t anything to see. The belt just focuses the eyes on the girl’s crotch and the mind on the punitive or protective aspect of the device which seems to fascinate, especially men. Because we allow touching when the girls are wearing chastity belts we changed the wait staff costumes from nylon/Lycra dancewear to really high quality tight stretchy silicone catsuits. That way when the guy gets grease or hot sauce from his order of Buffalo wings on his server’s belt and thighs it won’t deteriorate her suit as it would if she was encased in latex. Teaching the girls to wait tables in ballet boots and a rubber encasement suit takes time but for the effect we get it’s worth the effort and the pool of applicants for the jobs is enormous because the tips are so good.

Marketing psychology: Our Marketing psychologist thinks having our wait staff in chastity belts is a great idea because now a customer can interact with his or her server by having a tactile experience fondling the soft heavy rubber and steel of her protective shield while she is taking the customer’s order. Before, when the server was standing at the table presenting deep cleavage camel toe through her tights no touching was allowed, even though she was wearing a cleft-head Penetrator plug. Now the customers can fondle the belts vulvar shield and the padlocks with their fingers. Already we have had a customer who was getting head under the table accidentally ejaculate on his server’s belt as she brought the couple their drinks. His GF was so upset because she wanted to swallow his load! She forgave him a few minutes later when she took him down her throat after he recycled. The nice thing about modern belts is that they are silicone rubber and stainless steel so there is almost no maintenance unless it gets splattered, then they clean up quickly with just mild soap and warm water. The belts vulvar shield is sized to fit snugly over the head of the wearer’s Penetrator so if she is kicked her shield and plug will absorb most of the energy from the blow.

Since the first of the month when our Naughty’s servers began wearing their steel belted vulvar shields alcohol sales have increased by 18% and even in off-peak times the meat market is filled with men ogling the wait staff. It’s definitely the place for women to go if they are looking to be picked up, especially if they wear a belted design that suggests chastity w/o being effective. The introduction of chastity shielding has also increased the traffic to our less expensive escort services.

Anti-masturbation belts: The style belt we are using (similar to the one pictured at the top of this entry) was designed by Access Denied specifically for use as a female anti-masturbation belt. So the shield provides impenetrable protection w/o the need for sharp spikes and blades to repel an erect penis. However, it does have to be unlocked for bathroom functions. Already there are a few men and some women who are making a fetish object out of anti-masturbation belts. This one is a U.S. design but sells best in Europe, especially in Germany and Switzerland where several very exclusive girls’ schools have their students from the age of eleven on fitted with the belts to teach discipline and not waste the students erotic energy by pleasuring themselves, or each other. I think the Europeans have a genius for catering to school administrators with repressed sexuality which makes this sort of device extremely attractive to the management and staff of girl’s schools. Speaking from personal experience of 7 years in primarily female boarding schools masturbation and girl-girl sex was a huge part of our entertainment during long weekends when we were snowed in. So I think being around girls locked in this sort of belt, especially when they are fertile and desperately want sexual release could be very grim indeed. Nipples would almost certainly be over stimulated in that situation, which may explain why nipple discharge and induced lactation seems to be more prevalent in European up-market girl’s schools.

Menstrual sex

A submissive being trained for menstrual sex

Menstrual sex: When I’m menstrual I have my secondary libidinal peak when I enjoy menstrual sex with all its messiness and the attendant monthly scents of blood and uterine flow along with the normal scents associated with the sweaty exertion of energetic intercourse. A lot of men are turned off about having sex with a woman during her period so finding guys who enjoy ‘swimming in the Red Sea’ and who are suitable partners can sometimes be difficult. I recently had a lovely chat with a friend as we set up guidelines for a menstrual encounter when I visit him, he lives out of state, hopefully in the near future. He is so into menstrual sex! I can’t imagine why we haven’t done this before. He’s married so he’ll have to take me in my hotel room. To give readers some idea what goes into planning this sort of an encounter from a woman’s perspective here is a bit of our conversation:

A friend: What clothes would you wear for CD1? We would have menstrual sex in your hotel room, but with bed protection that is usually what I do in that situation.

Me: Around here I usually wear something red when I'm menstrual and red pointe shoes... I'm not usually too grouchy but I like to give... men especially... warning... Would you like me demure... or haughty when I’m menstrual?

A friend: Nice I like that touch. Red something in your outfit.... I would like you however you honestly feel... I mean just be yourself and I would LOVE the messy sex very, very sexy for me...

Me: Well, that's a problem with you. On one level I would love to dominate you, the great expert in your field who has thousands of women after him. On the other hand I want to feel protected, demure and submissive when under your spell...

A friend: I would provide a latex bed sheet for our menstrual sex so we can just let you flow and enjoy it .... ha ha.. ok then on CD1 you dominate and on CD2 you are submissive then...

Me: Awesome! I'll bring my whip and ballet boots with the 7 inch spike heels! And then on CD2 I wear a bondage collar and labia leash... I hate being taken in the shower! The mess washes away but the encounter is so antiseptic I think...The rubber sheet solves several problems and I get my latex fix digging the platforms of my red leather pointes into the rubber to lift my hips when you are thrusting into me in missionary.

A friend: I agree about the shower.. and I would want you on the bed missionary style and with you on top too... the menstrual blood has to be enjoyed... not washed away....

Me: I totally agree! My bloody flow is a gift and the sign of the renewal of my reproductive cycle...

A friend: I would also want to enjoy your menstrual blood when out and about with you... how do you usually like to arrange that

Me: I just empty my Milex or whatever CB I’m using before I leave home and then again when I need to... since I've been having regular MEs for more than 18 months now I haven't had to empty while away from home... what do you have in mind?

A friend: You would not have your ME till CD3 so we could enjoy CD1 and 2 to the full. I would not want you protected at all and would want full and free access to you at all times... you would control your flow with a belted pad and no panties so it could just be slid to one side when I wanted to take you and enjoy your menses on my penis... you would be allowed a male condom if you wished but that is all...

Me: I flow heavily on CD2 so if I’m not to use ANY protection ... Ohhh a pad and belt...yes, that's ok... I can do that easily! Umm... I would be allowed a male condom? LOL! What good would that do me? I wouldn't need in for contraception.

A friend: just in case you felt you wanted contraceptive cover. (not that you would need it)

Me: Ahhh... well... that's a sweet thought, but with my ME the next day and then again on CD1 of my next cycle I don't think I'd need it. And If I did... Well, wouldn't that be awesome to be carrying your baby, but it would only be for a month.. Then I’d terminate it!

A friend: no you would not need it .. just I always offer… yes that would be awesome I agree.

Me: The condom is a lovely gesture and it's appreciated too!

A friend: would you enjoy that plan for CD1/2?

Me: Wearing a belted pad, yes absolutely! It's rather like wearing an absorbent thong...

Pointe shoe Quiz 12-07-09

Who is the maker of this shoe?