Hot-loading, a tutorial

A silicone (post 2008) All-Flex arcing spring diaphragm

This post: A reader asked me about syringe plugs and hot-loading masturbation. It’s a topic I mentioned earlier only in passing so I thought I’d give readers insight into another of the niche fetish markets that my casino serves that appeals primarily to young wealthy women fetishists who like to test the effectiveness of their contraception with high quality semen.

Hot-loading, how it works: With Hot-loading a syringe plug, a vaginal plug with a spring loaded ejaculation chamber, is used to propel potent semen against the user’s cervix. It could be a Penetrator that is held in place by a locking ridge behind the pubic bone, or a silicone G-spot dildo. The ejaculation chamber can be filled with a warming gel like K-Y Intense or - as we are discussing here - potent semen. The spring is compressed, the chamber filled and the plug or dildo is inserted. The wearer masturbates usually with her fingers or a small vibi to orgasm. At orgasm the rings of vaginal muscles spasm and the contractions squeeze the plug/dildo tripping the trigger emptying the ejaculation chamber under considerable force against her cervix.

Hot-loading at Naughty Pleasures: Our boutique pharmacy at Naughty Pleasures partners with a local sperm bank to offer our women customers a thrilling ‘hot-loading’ experience using very high potency sperm. It can be high risk for some (if the client is unprotected) or a test of the effectiveness of her method of contraception while having the experience of draining a $350 USD 6ml load of high quality semen into her panties while watching a show or at the tables in our casino. For male readers going ‘WTF!,’ or women readers going ‘Ewww!’ A hot-loader usually wears a shield in her panties or wears tights with an absorbent crotch gusset so she doesn’t soak through her skirt or slacks while sitting. If she is plugged and it is developing proper suction she shouldn’t leak, but it’s always best to have a back-up plan. Of course using a syringes dildo will leave the full load draining out quickly so even if she Kegels, which would minimize much of the sensation of semen-filled panties, a light-days pad is needed to absorb most of the discharge. As I mentioned, this is a niche fetish and an acquired taste.

The risks: While it can be a lot of fun for adventuresome women hot-loading has its risks for those of reproductive age. You’d be surprised at the number of women who don’t take their birth control pills correctly. They forget pills, or forget to start a new pack, or forget to change a patch, or to insert a new ring, or for women with any hormonal method, including implants or IUDs, taking a medication that reduces the effectiveness of her contraceptive hormones. So there have been quite a few unintended pregnancies for young women who have enough money to have hot-loaded three or more times during visits to Naughty’s. A few women using a LARC hormonal method (a Mirena or Implanon/Nexplanon) who claim to have gotten preggers while hot-loading try to blame the Club, but anyone who intentionally introduces high quality semen into her vagina can’t realistically blame the Casino for her contraceptive failure. We are aware of no instances of women with copper IUDs (ParaGard or GyneFix) who claim to have conceived from a Hot-loading experience.

A Hot-loading friend: We have a gorgeous twenty-something blond lesbian who comes in solo when her partner is traveling. She uses a syringe Penetrator plug and wears a silicone All-Flex diaphragm for contraception when she’s fertile and fucks herself with a high-test load while she watches the ballet and chorus girls in the lounge entertainment. She says it’s the safest way she’s found to experience what it’s like to have a man - and the attendant risk of pregnancy, which is her form of gambling – w/o having to put up with one. She says the certainty that she won’t get a STI from the experience is priceless.

I fitted her with both the Penetrator (hers is custom made) and All-Flex myself replacing an old Milex Omniflex coil spring that was too small as she has a diaphragm fetish. Unfortunately she has a latex allergy so she can’t wear Reflexions which provides much better under-thrust protection. However, using a Penetrator syringe plug she should be safe enough using an All-Flex since the plug doesn’t shift once properly inserted. Had she been using a dildo mounted syringe where she could accidentally under-thrust the rim of the All-Flex if she thrusts it at too great an angle into her vaginal wall I would have fitted her with a Milex arcing spring. That’s because the rim of the Milex Arcing has elbow-hinges and only folds at two spots so is somewhat less likely to be under-thrust than an All-Flex.

In the case of this customer because she is wearing a Penetrator her clitoris is under the head of her plug so she presses a small powerful vibi against the head of the plug and gets both clitoral and G-spot stimulation simultaneously. I’ve done that myself while watching one of our male acts perform and the dual stimulation is awesome! My lesbian friend says if her diaphragm leaks and she tests positive for hCG she will terminate it and wants me to do the vacuum aspiration. I hope it doesn’t come to that as she is a delightful person and a free spending repeat customer and a pregnancy might turn her off hot-loading.

Brian’s Muses – an update: The Semina girls, Anne, Bea and Jean had serum tests for hCG today and all are negative just as we expected. So far so good! Brian was very impressed with Bea and how well she accepted his thrusting root as he could batter her cervix even while wearing the cock ring. I’d be envious of Bea if Brian didn’t seem so into me!

The Aria incident Pt II: For my readers who were wondering... On Thursday Feb 28 an “LAPD-FBI task force arrested a fugitive from Las Vegas wanted by the Las Vegas Metropolitan Police Department," Los Angeles police spokesman Lieutenant Andy Neiman said. The suspect was identified as 26-year-old Ammar Harris, who has been the subject of a multi-state manhunt since the incident early on February 21. So at least the shooter is off the street and the three women in the Range Rover with him at the time were found unharmed. News reports say Harris was “involved in the sex trade”. That sort of publicity is giving sex workers here a bad name. We are doing everything possible to play down the incident and have increased the visibility of our armed security to demonstrate to casino guests our concern for their safety.

Prepping for Brian

 A latex Reflexions flat spring diaphragm and introducer

Brian and protection: Since Brian would be here for at least three days I got him to agree to teach several pointe classes at St Lucy’s, one each for second, third and forth year students each day he is here for a total of nine classes if he doesn’t extend his stay. The opportunity to have a nationally recognized teacher work with the group was just such a marvelous opportunity for the school and the students he taught. Seven in each class were selected for their physical and technical ability. If Brian’s reputation is accurate at 54 he is still shooting live loads so the student who was asked to stay after class for ‘special coaching’ had to be very confident that her method of contraception would protect her. All the third and fourth year students have stringless GyneFix IUDs implanted, but three of the second year students are so small that even a mini-GyneFix is too large.



A Semina silicone coil spring diaphragm mounted on its introducer

Semina and Reflexions diaphragms: These small students take 60mm diaphragms not available in a Reflexions so they have been training with their regular diaphragms, the transparent silicone coil spring Semina, which is available in their size. Using DiveGel+ with a 4% O9 spermicide and a biocide (our clinic is part of a clinical trial for that spermicide) they should be quite safe if Brian didn’t intentionally under-thrust the rim of the Semina. Because he has a serious diaphragm fetish each of the GyneFix girls will wear their latex Reflexions flat spring diaphragms (65mm and larger) just as though they were going to have dive-sex. Because of his length and the fact that a diaphragm provides no thrust buffering I asked Brian about his technique with very small women. He assured me that he would wear a cock ring with the smaller girls to prevent battering a second year student’s cervix too badly. The third and fourth year girls are all large enough and have all had enough experience that they should be able to accommodate him w/o too much discomfort and that’s how it turned out.

Menstrual synchrony: There are differing views about whether menstrual synchrony is an actual fact or not. I have no doubt that for women not on hormonal contraception their cycles can and do synch with one another when they are in very close contact – breathing the pheromones from each other’s sweat – in ballet studios and dorm suites for months at a time. Menstrual synchrony is certainly a fact for the women at St Lucy’s. Most of St Lucy’s ballet students are protected by A GyneFix or diaphragm or both and their cycles are very closely aligned. That has its advantages and disadvantages. When they are fertile the energy and creativity in the studio is fantastic! When they are menstrual the mood can be quite different with short tempers and arguments. Even with plenty of bathrooms they are very heavily used during that time of the month. A synchrony plus for the younger girls is that it has stabilized cycles that before had varied widely in length and bleeding duration giving them some stability to their lives.

As it happened, because of menstrual synchrony the girls who made up Brian’s classes were all fertile when Brian arrived on Tuesday, the 19th of February. They were anywhere from CD9 to CD12 and I was CD12 so he would be pumping sperm into vaginas with diaphragms inserted whose domes would be filled with fertile cervical mucus. And of course with a diaphragm the rim flexes so some of our FCM gets to his sperm. The girls wearing Semina’s were at the greatest likelihood of having sperm leak into the dome which Is why the second year girls were given the extra strength DiveGel+ with the 4% O9. As an added precaution the Semina girls were offered the prescription only EC tablet ella, a single pill containing 30 mg of ulipristal acetate, a progesterone receptor modulator. Ella delays ovulation for up to 5 days by blocking the woman’s progestin receptors. None of them took it.

Pointe-shoes: I had the 27 girls (even the second year girls who usually wear Freed Studios for classes) train in hard shanked Gaynor Minden pointes for their classes with Brian since I thought they might not have time to change shoes before he mind-fucked and penetrates them. Even after 90 minutes of a difficult class the GMs might be soggy, but the shanks would support the student’s weight when she put her weight on her heels and enjoyed the experience as he savored her grip while exploring her depths, probing for her cervix with his massive shaft.

Vaginal training balls: I had been grooming these three groups of girls to train with male escort candidates to give the girls a chance to become experienced with adult (18 y/o and over) men. The appreciation of a man’s scent, his sweat, breath, hair and the taste of his fluids as well as his strength, personality and how he acts around her all enter into a woman’s selection of a mate. Having the students work with a select group of escort candidates gives them an opportunity to see what men are like during sexual encounters with partners free of STIs while still in a somewhat cloistered environment. One of the training aids are Ben Wa ball used to tone and tighten the students pelvic grip.

•  The second years students chosen are all proficient in wearing a set of 1 inch Pyrex glass balls each weighing .65 oz w/o expelling them during a 90 minute technique class.
•  The third years students chosen are all proficient in wearing a set of .75 inch chrome steel balls each weighing 1.0 oz w/o expelling them during a 90 minute technique class.
• The fourth years students chosen are all proficient in wearing a set of 1.00 inch surgical steel balls each weighing 2.153 oz w/o expelling them during a 90 minute technique class.

The 1.00 inch surgical steel balls each weighing 2.153 oz are the size I’m certified for and train with which I call my ‘McBalls’ because when inserted I’m gripping a quarter-pound of steel in my vagina. For everyday wear and when I’m out with friends I wear a warm up set of 1 inch Pyrex glass balls which keep me wet and with which I can orgasm if I get bored. I’m still trying to master my set of 1.25 inch chrome steel balls each weighing 4.61 oz. I haven’t been able to hold the half pound of stainless steel w/o expelling one or both during a 90 minute technique class, but I’m making progress.

STI panels: In order to set a sexual health baseline for Brian’s classes the 21 students and 6 alternates were given full STI panels one week ahead of Brian’s arrival and were tested for hCG the first of this week. All passed. I took the full panel as well and we had a certified copy of Brian’s full STI panel emailed to student health. So everyone is STI free and we only had to protect against pregnancy, which is very unlikely, but there is always that possibility.

Brian triumphs: His classes were a huge success and all the girls who participated were thrilled by the experience! They made a valuable friend in the administration of an important California college ballet department who will be useful when they graduate and apply to colleges. The 9 who he singled out for special coaching say how gentle and kind he is and how amazingly large and hard he was, and how wonderfully full and adult he made them feel thrusting into their cervix while penetrating them from behind. Each one is head-over-heels in love with him and they are still draining coitial discharge into panties which each vows never to wash.

One or two have even thanked me for insisting they wear hard shanked Gaynors to his class. Several of second year girls in his class have told me they had never had a partner wear a cock ring before and they were so glad he did, because even with being fertile and aroused and with him wearing the ring he could still reach their cervixes. Brian thoroughly enjoyed being surrounded by the beauty and talent of the St Lucy’s students and his classroom coaching seemingly had no effect on his stamina during his energetic coaching sessions with me.

The Aria incident:  Perhaps my readers have seen reports of the latest drive-by shooting incident here. About 4:30 AM Thursday morning a Range Rover with heavily tinted windows was shooting at a Maserati. Apparently an argument in the valet area of the nearby Aria hotel-casino in CityCenter spilled over into the street and the Maserati ran a red light and hit a taxi which exploded killing three people. The driver, of the Maserati, a would-be Rapper, was also killed. Brian and I were just coming out of the Bellagio when the wreck occurred at the intersection just north of the hotel.  We didn’t stop to find out what happened. I turned south got on Tropicana and then got on the 15 and went back to my place. Brian was a bit shaken by the explosion, but I got him thinking about more interesting things and his stamina and ardor were wonderful!