Pussy pads and plugs

The shaved mons veneris showing the pudendal cleft

Camel toe: “A slang term that refers to the outline of a human female's labia majora, as seen through tightly fitting clothes. Due to a combination of anatomical factors and the snugness of the fabric covering it, the crotch and pudendal cleft may take on a resemblance to the forefoot of a camel.”

Depending on the pressure material and the construction of the garment being worn camel toe can be anywhere from a turn-on to torture not to mention often highly visible while in swimsuits, tights or leggings, which often results in results in embarrassment for the woman and arousal of nearby males.

Pelvic cleavage, a plus or minus for this swim suit contestant?

The Cleft Cup: For those women not wanting to display camel toe there are soft shield products on the market to wear in the cup of a panty or swimsuit such as; the Cuchini-camel-toe-pad (“Our lips are sealed”) and Camelflage panties are two of the designs. The Cuchini requires double sided fashion tape and Camelflage comes with its own panty. What Labia Labs has come up with is a reusable soft transparent silicone shield, the Cleft Cup, which fits over and adheres to the waxed mons veneris. The silicone is air permeable (like the Lily Padz nursing pads I wear while performing so as not to stain my costumes from leaky nipples) to allows ventilation of the vulva while masking its contours. Our waitstaff in short shorts wear cleft cups and are far more comfortable and far less distracting to male customers w/o the thick seam of their shorts disappearing between their labia.

Of course Cleft Cups while excellent for concealing pelvic contours provide no protection from being groped. The waitstaff at Naughty Pleasures all work barelegged in long sleeve turtleneck leotards with thong backs and serve customers while on their toes in Gaynor Minden pointes and all need grope protection. So, each of the girls wears a Penetrator Plug, to prevent a guy with barbecue sauce on his fingers from slipping his hand under her thong and inserting them between her labia.

Naughty’s and Penetrator plugs: The need for all Naughty’s servers to wear Penetrator plugs was a decision by our casino’s medical and legal departments. We had instances of female servers getting pelvic infections from customers inserting their fingers in their vaginas and perhaps worse a loss of revenue from sexual encounters not recorded on the customer’s tab, thus leaving the casino uncompensated. So while many of the girls were already wearing Penetrators the more entrepreneurial girls had to be ‘encouraged’ to start wearing them during their shifts or start recording and charging every time they were finger-fucked. The casino isn’t opposed to casual sex with a server they just want to get their cut of her price if it occurs while she’s on the casino’s clock and using their premises. The requirement for all Naughty’s servers to be fitted with Penetrators had additional repercussions because some servers didn’t have the proper pelvic anatomy to wear one correctly and several had to be placed elsewhere in the casinos bars and restaurants. A change that didn’t go over well with the servers involved because the tips at Naughty’s are better that almost anywhere else in the casino.

A very pronounced, deep post-pubic vault is required because the locking ridge should be three-quarters of the depth of the vault (so it won’t press on the urethra and is thin enough so it won’t interfere with the thin rim of a Reflexions if the wearer has a diaphragm inserted) and fit snugly against the back of the pubic bone at the symphysis when the external cup of the plug is tight over the mons pubis.

The cam-ram: In the newer version of the Penetrator inserting a plug fitting that snugly is made far easier by a spring loaded ‘inserter’ a shaft/plunger, which the girls call a ‘cam-ram’, built into the plug. Depressing a lightly textured mound on the head of the plug pushes the cam-ram which lengthens the portion of the plug passing under the pubic bone and tilts the locking ridge so it can slip easily behind it. Releasing the plunger allows the plug to grip the wearer’s pelvis between the locking ridge behind the pubic bone and the external cup covering the mons veneris. With a properly fitted Penetrator this is a comfortable but very strong grip. To ease placement and strengthen the seal the inside of the head that cups the mons veneris is coated with DiveGel+. To remove the plug there is the same pull tab that lies flat against the perineum. The wearer depresses the cam-ram loosening the plugs grip while pulling down and forward on the removal tab and the plug should slide out. There is a distinctive wet sucking sound, ‘Thuck’, when the vacuum seal of a Penetrator is broken during withdrawal.

Since the Penetrator is made of impermeable silicone and is often worn for long intervals no air can circulate around the vulva, which can increase the likelihood of a yeast infection. Using DiveGel+, which has a biocide in it, as a sealant reduces the likelihood of getting a YI from wearing a Penetrator for extended intervals.

Business casual: I wear a Penetrator to business meetings. The business men I deal with are all at least somewhat misogynistic and most think any woman is little more than a walking cunt and a great many of them will try to finger-fuck a female colleague during business meetings. To prevent that I wear a Penetrator. I get groped and let his fingers roam, but when the man feels the head of my plug for the first time the look on his face is priceless! His eyes go wide and he whispers,“OMG! You’re wearing a plug!” After that he knows when I said no I meant it and we can get down to business. Not that I haven’t let a business colleague pull out my plug and take me after I got the contract terms I wanted. I’m not easy, but I'm a very, very good!

Jilling-off

The Mantis position using a Jilling-chain

AST: I'm starting to teach Advanced Sexual Techniques next week so I’m previewing the lessons using Cyndi and Gigi with some of the senior male escort candidates. The girls are 16 now and legal in Nevada so that makes meeting new men easier for them which is so important in broadening (and deepening) beautiful teen’s sexual experiences. In the past we had often used UNLV grad students as the girl’s partners. They were enthusiastic, but many lacked the skills to provide the sort of intense encounters we want St Lucy’s girls to experience. This will be the first time we have had escorts work exclusively with St Lucy’s students to explore the depths of their passion and if Cyndi and Gigi are any indication the joining of the groups will be a huge success. Everyone is screened and free of STIs so it’s just the hCG Fairy to be wary of and all my AST students are familiar with the needed precautions to keep her away while allowing their partners a deep finish bareback encounter.

Since our male escorts are very familiar with dive sex using the young men to train St Lucy’s girls to reach the proficiency needed to be safe and confident during underwater intercourse is a perfect fit. The students already have the guys head-shots pinned to their dorm walls and are dreaming of toe-curling sex while sucking gas twenty feet below the surface of a training pool. They will train wearing only bikinis and gas guards at first advancing through the skills needed to be penetrated comfortably while wearing latex DiveRubber. Then they will move on to masturbation in encasement suits both solo and with a partner.

Jilling off: The vibrator and female masturbation are intimately connected at St Lucy’s. We teach a multitude of ways to Jill-off and recommend using extra long life cadmium batteries in vibrators so as not to have a power failure at a critical moment. And a girl should always carry extra batteries in her dancebag or slit-kit. I covered masturbating while submerged in a drysuit in my entry ‘Drysuit masturbation’ for January 27, 2010 so I won’t go over that again here except to say that drysuit masturbation is covered for St Lucy’s girls in my AST course and comes at the end of the course when the girls are familiar with using different vibis and grope cups.

Jilling-chains: A particularly creative method of clitoral masturbation and one often used by lesbians in the BDSM community here in Vegas is by using a Jilling-chain. Regular Jilling-chains are highly polished links of stainless steel and come in all sizes. A wide selection of Jilling chains is available in the masturbation supplies aisle at Fasteners our Bondage boutique where fitters can advise women who are selecting their first Jilling chain or have problems using a Jilling chain that they would like to overcome.

St Lucy’s beginners typically start with ¾ inch links of 2/16 diameter chain. As they develop their chain skills students graduate to both larger and smaller links depending on their individual needs at the time so there is no right or wrong size. Bigger is not necessarily better. Larger links are heavier, but slide in the mons veneris pubic cleft and over the clitoris more easily than smaller links which are used when a girl wants a less granular masturbatory experience. The Jilling-chain is attached to the users slave collar and weights can be attached to the end that descends along the pubic cleft, over the clitoris and between the labia to hang between her legs. Movement of the chain in the pubic cleft, against the clit and between the labia is obtained by the woman nodding her head moving her neck which moves the slave collar fastened snugly around it (to which the Jilling chain is attached). Another method of getting movement of the chain across her pubic erogenous zone is by thrusting her hips while she has them raised off the bed – called the Mantis position - as shown in the image accompanying this entry. Using a Jilling chain in Mantis is something that takes a lot of training to accomplish successfully because the muscle toning and stamina needed for pelvic thrusts in that position are considerable.

Jilling chains in public: As tokens of lasting affection silver or gold Jilling chains are given between committed lesbian couples who are out to society and can be worm as belts or chatelaines in public. If worn in public by a couple the size of the links are representative only of the size that pleases the wearer and has nothing to do with skill level. Usually the more delicate chains are made of gold or platinum and the larger linked chains are made from silver, but not always. Lesbians who lose their partners by death are entitled to wear a Jilling chain entwined with a string of black onyx beads and when she is no longer in mourning and looking for another partner she removes her onyx widows Jilling chain. Though that is the custom you rarely see a widows chain being worn, at least around here. In lesbian circles it is a gross breach of etiquette for a young lesbian (outside a committed relationship) to wear a Jilling chain in public regardless of how skilled she is with it. Making that great a social blunder in a Sappho’s sisters club can cause an ‘enforcer’ to drive the 7 inch spike of her boot through the laces and instep of the offender’s ballet boot.

A reader’s question: “Would you ever teach ballet to students in all latex?” I do occasionally teach pointe class with a few St Lucy’s students in latex catsuits – a standard suit is the latex House of Harlot DiveRubber - as an elective in my Advanced Sexual Techniques (AST) course. It is an exhausting class because the heat generated by exertion while encased in rubber is excessive so very few students are interested in taking latex-pointe. Only ballet girls in rubber-lust apply. To prevent collapsing the studio is chilled to 65 degrees and the girls take a break every 20 minutes and drink sports drinks like Gatorade to replace electrolytes. An advantage to taking the course is the latex-points students can get modeling jobs with ancillary benefits from the local BDSM community for charity events.