The Emergency Contraceptive
Plan B One-Step
The Photo: The FDA last week
reduced that age from 17 to 15 for girls to get Plan B w/o an Rx. The request
had been placed by the maker, Teva Pharma, months ago and Plan B is the only EC
pill for which the no Rx age was reduced. Next Choice a Plan B generic (for the
original Plan B two pill regimen) wasn’t approved because it is still has a two
pill regimen and was thought too complicated for 15 y/o to use correctly in a
stressful situation and ella requires an Rx for women of any age.
A frequent reader (Master Paul) asks:
“Do you actually ever go totally bareback and unprotected? If so what CD is it,
how often and when was it last done?
…how do you feel, react when you get inseminated knowing a baby may very
well result? I am into breeding sex so I find pregnancy risk fucking to be the
ultimate in sexuality. I know how it feels from the man's perspective, but from
the woman's? I hope you can go into details on a few preg risk fucks, that is
if you have ever gotten hot enough to enjoy the ultimate in human sexuality. Lusting
to take you totally bare and unprotected.”
I’ve written previously about the male drive to impregnate during casual sex. This reader is more honest about discussing his cravings than most, but from my experience in discussing this with my partners the desire to impregnate his partner is almost certainly universal, if some times subconscious, in straight men even when the couple both use protection. I think that’s especially true for married men in adulterous relationships subconsciously wanting to ensure his genes survive through multiple women.
I’ve written previously about the male drive to impregnate during casual sex. This reader is more honest about discussing his cravings than most, but from my experience in discussing this with my partners the desire to impregnate his partner is almost certainly universal, if some times subconscious, in straight men even when the couple both use protection. I think that’s especially true for married men in adulterous relationships subconsciously wanting to ensure his genes survive through multiple women.
Pregnancy risks of unprotected sex:
If a woman has unprotected sex on her most fertile day of one cycle, her
chances of becoming pregnant are: 50% if she is 19 to 26 years old, 40% if she is 27 to 34 years of age, and 30% if she is 35 to 39 years old. So at 42 my
chances are about one in three if I’m caught unprotected on my most fertile
day.
I try never to get caught unprotected and I’m far better at
it now than I used to be. That’s one reason I wear a latex flat spring ‘death
rubber’ diaphragm, to moderate my behavior, because when I was on the pill I
found myself starting a new pack late and ovulating, in addition to the
hormones killing my libido. And after that I wasn’t consistent in using a
Prentif cap either. I’m so aroused and confident wearing a death rubber with a
good silicone based 4% O9 spermicide, DiveGel+, in the dome knowing that I’m
well protected at all times. Of course with a latex flat spring diaphragm I’m
also protected from a man under-thrusting the rim and leaving semen in the
dome. A flat spring diaphragm won’t distort due to water pressure when diving
below 30 feet so it also provides flood insurance to prevent having water
forced into my uterus during dive-sex if my vagina floods.
My replies to Master Paul’s questions:
1. Do you actually ever go totally bareback and unprotected?
If so what CD is it, how often and when was it last done?
When I was fourteen and in ballet school a sixteen year old
boy was my first lover on the roof of my dorm one summer. We were totally
unprotected and I was a day or two past my period and my cycles hadn’t
stabilized so I had no idea exactly where I was in my cycle. It turned out ok
and then we began using condoms, but condoms were problematic because they
would tear or come off inside me. At menarche the girls were all fitted with latex
All-Flex diaphragms and taught to use them for flow control during menses which
our Brit ballet teachers had been taught to use when they had been students. It
didn’t take long for us to start using them for contraception.
The last time I had totally unprotected sex was years ago
and I don’t remember the details other than afterward I worried a great deal
about if I would get my period and I’m sure that the stress was what made my
period late. The only truly safe time is after ovulation during my luteal
phase, but I don’t trust fertility computers or FAM readings to tell me when
I’m fertile because my life is so stressful. My cycles are quite regular, but I
can never be certain when I could be so stressed that it will affect when I
ovulate. As I said that hasn’t happened yet, but as I age it is becoming more
likely.
I do recall an encounter in 2008 when I was still wearing a
latex All-Flex arcing spring diaphragm. A lover intentionally under-thrust the
rim and came in the dome while I was fertile. I was using a silicone vaginal
jelly, DiveGel+ (its currently in clinical trials) that contains a spermicide
which immobilizes sperm that probably prevented me from conceiving, because
when I removed the diaphragm in addition to fertile cervical mucus there was
liquefied spermicide, natural arousal lube and semen in the dome. An All-Flex
is the easiest rim to under-thrust and a major reason I switched to a flat
spring rim which as I mentioned earlier along with being the most difficult to
under-thrust the rim will not distort when worn on dives below ten meters.
Recently, when I thought I would be asked to marry into a
dynastic family, I was asked to have my reproductive tract checked to see if I
could produce an heir. All the tests showed my hormone levels were excellent,
my tubes clear and everything seemed to be working correctly. Given the level
of my libido and the number of unprotected men I’ve known even as careful as
I’ve been I’ve also been very lucky, which is why I’m obsessive/compulsive
about consistently wearing a well fitting cervical barrier. I’d really hate to
test one morning and find I have an evaporation line on the test strip. Not
that I would keep it, but I wouldn’t want to break my record of thousands of
encounters w/o a problem and have an ‘Oops‘on my record.
2. How do you feel, react when you get inseminated knowing a
baby may very well result?
As I mentioned above at my age, statically I have less that
a 30% chance of becoming preggers if I used no protection at all on my most
fertile day. With a latex diaphragm and spermicide being 94% effective when
used correctly that 30% drops to less than 2%, a risk I’m willing to take. I do
like the adrenaline rush and tingle in my belly when a man is planting hundreds
of millions of sperm as deep in me as he can and I remember that there is even
that slight chance, I enjoy that rush
because among other things I’m an adrenaline junkie.
3. Lusting to take you totally bare and unprotected
I understand your desire and applaud your willingness to
talk openly about it. However, a totally unprotected encounter with me will
only be in your fantasies. I plan never again to be taken unprotected unless I
marry and my husband and I are trying to conceive.
What is with the great debate on morning after pills? A few decades ago, whilst at university, there was a list on our bulletin board of the birth control pills approved for emergency contraception use and what dosage of each to use. There was always a (young) woman on duty in the residence office at night who either had some made up packages in her desk or knew who was willing to share.
ReplyDeleteMost family physicians knew the same and somehow provided this emergency contraception to patients. I always had packets in my medical bag and desk drawer. Most mothers in the area knew what was available to them and during "first exams," young women were advised of this service. I did get calls at at strange hours but not often and age was never a consideration.
The greatest abuse of birth control pills of which I am aware has been in male cross-dressers who want to grow a rack. Most do not realize that the libido goes down much faster than the tits spring up.
I admire Jill's discipline and she will likely never need the abortion she alludes to. As a young woman, I was diligent and disciplined and believe that all should be. I still believe that we have all taken a risk at one time or another. In my response to Master Paul, I allude to three specific incidents when I took the risk. There were others followed by emergency contraception immediately as available (within a few hours) and those were unnecessary risks. Only once was there a "condom failure." Actually, it was too large for the partner involved and disappeared into me. I felt it happening but was unaware that it had come completely off until he withdrew. I did have vaginal jelly in me but still took emergency contraception.
Completely unprotected sex, as Jill indicates, is strictly for those trying to conceive.
>What is with the great debate on morning after pills? A few decades ago, whilst at university, there was a list on our bulletin board of the birth control pills approved for emergency contraception use and what dosage of each to use
DeleteYes, we had that at ballet school as well and now the list is on the EC website: www.not-2-late.com or http://ec.princeton.edu/index.html
The fact that in the U.S. the single dose Levonorgestrel EC, Plan B One-Step, can now be purchased by 15 y/o women has conservatives climbing the walls and of course the conservatives are also against abortion too believing that the best birth control is abstinence. This is the same group of old white men who are convinced that the woman’s reproductive tract can shut down to prevent conception in cases of rape.
>The greatest abuse of birth control pills of which I am aware has been in male cross-dressers who want to grow a rack. Most do not realize that the libido goes down much faster than the tits spring up.
I’ve had questions about that myself (on another forum) and when I explained the side effects of contraceptive hormones on males most seemed to lose interest unless they were planning to go through a complete male-to-female change.
I routinely pull condoms off escort trainees to show them that it can be done even when they are wearing properly fitting condoms. For that I wear only a tiny Oves cap screwed down tight on my cervix and use no commercial intimate lube so I can eventually grip the condom tight enough that he thrusts into the reservoir tip holding his pre-ejaculate.
Once that happens with every thrust he spreads his slippery lube inside the condom and after several more thrusts while tightly gripped he slides right out and the empty sheath is usually pushed deep into a fornix. I love a virile man spewing his seed in me splattering the thin transparent silicone dome of my Oves with millions of his sperm
My wife & I enjoy unprotected sex regularly...to her great relief, she discovered as a teenage girl that she cannot concieve. Not sure if its.one reason she was (and is) a.ferocious tomboy...but I have to say I am grateful for it. I love my crazy girl. =)
DeleteJohn
Thank you for a very nice and detailed reply to my questions. It is much appreciated and made a hot read.
ReplyDeleteI find that most women are very turned on to the thought of babymaking sex, even if they know they can't be inseminated, and a lot can be talked into pregnancy risk sex because it is just so damn hot. Of course what will be done if she does catch has been fully discussed (it is either abortion or adoption) and agreed to beforehand so the gal is fully accepting of taking a chance.
Do any women you know get off on either real preg risk sex or protected pretend preg risk sex?
Thanking you for your prompt replies,
Master Paul
Hi Master Paul,
Delete>Do any women you know get off on either real preg risk sex or protected pretend preg risk sex?
Not many. Recently when I’m at Naughty’s alone I’ll pick up a man from Circe’s Lair, our private encounter club, where members have to have a current clean STI Panel on file. Couples are welcome, but our target customers are young adventuresome women from the arts and healing professions and the men they attract.
I’ve spent enough time in the Lair that I can easily spot returning men who are players picking up different women each time. I like playing with a man with that sort of appetite, needing to pollinate as many lovely blossoms as he can. And apparently some have been successful because at least two have had abortions at our clinic.