Teaching pelvic skills

The City of London skyline summer 2014

The Photo: The London financial district “The City” skyline in August 2014, including Tower 42 (left), the Leadenhall Building (centre) and 20 Fenchurch Street, the “walkie-talkie”, (right) with the Thames in the foreground.

Pelvic training for elite Personal Assistant candidates: Returning readers may recall Taryn, one my former wards, who lives on an estate (that her partying friends call Cunt Castle) north east of Cambridge who has just received her MD and PhD in psychiatry. She is currently interning in a Cambridge hospital before starting her practice as a psychiatrist. In addition to her porn empire which she inherited from her parents she has recently started another business to care for a currently underserved niche market. She has identified a need - especially in the financial industry where money is no object and beautiful and talented women are rare - for an elite class of Personal Assistants for executives in the UK and U.S. business world; PAs who can provide intimate services to relieve their bosses’ stress as well as keeping an executive’s business day flowing smoothly.

The seven initial candidates all of whom are Cambridge graduates were first chosen for being sexually adventuresome. Additionally, they have been extensively screened for intelligence, beauty, personality, ballet training, and have degrees in accounting or business administration. The women who passed this initial winnowing were given extensive training in how to please even the most obsessive-compulsive and obstinate of men, which is where my skills as a ballet mistress and pelvic trainer come in.  While with me the women are still PA candidates and won’t be fully qualified until satisfactorily completing my pelvic training course.     

Pompoir training at Blackthorn Castle: I was pleased to receive Taryn’s call asking me to be ballet and pelvic training mistress for the few women who have successfully passed the screening process as I was wondering how to constructively occupy my time at the castle since with no men present I was missing the myriad of activity choices available in London and considering returning to Eaton Square. Since I was assured that all the girls who would come to me have at least six years of pointework, which I think is the minimum needed for an Elite escort, I settled on an accelerated eight week course in Pompoir and ancillary training (ballet-sex and dive-sex) and the ability to easily switch between Domme and submissive depending on what the man they work for needs at any given time.

Taryn thought the course should take only six weeks, but she was never fully trained in Pompoir and even at an accelerated pace six weeks is rarely enough time for even someone with superior pelvic muscle control because the first several weeks are consumed in identifying and slowly strengthening the proper groups w/o causing severe cramps from over working muscles. I intend to fully train the women under my tutelage and think eight weeks of intensive training should be enough for the trainees to be able to confidently and successfully perform Pompoir on even the most difficult man if they apply themselves. Of course these women will be far more than arm candy as they will be in charge of their executives’ day. Still they need the skills and wiles of an elite escort in order to keep their executive relaxed as only exquisite penile-vaginal intercourse can do so that he can be as effective in the board room as she is in the bedroom.

I had Taryn send along an experienced, uncut and very well endowed cocksman (a male escort not a porn actor) for each trainee and an additional one for Anya and another for me as I will need a partner to help demonstrate pelvic techniques and skills, and to sleep with at night since none of my current boyfriends are here. The uncut and well endowed men are better to work with since some women have never seen an uncut penis and a large penis is better for training purposes as the trainee needs to learn how to avoid injury if her partner isn’t gentle while thrusting.

The women all have current and negative full STI panels and have standard (six bead) GyneFix frameless copper IUDs implanted (with the strings trimmed off so cervical barriers can be used for ‘flood insurance’) four months ago so they are over any adjustment side effects. None have discomfort from menses that can’t be handled with 800 mg of ibuprofen while cycling naturally so they can comfortably provide menstrual sex if asked. All have been vaccinated against the full range of diseases as well as having the three shot regimen of Gardasil the HPV virus vaccine. All the men have negative STI panels and had their Gardasil shots as well.

I sent The Dragon down to London to pick up the six trainees and their partners and the other men for Anya and me. They arrived yesterday and a convoy of Land Rovers picked them up at Caersws and brought them up to the castle. The weather is forecast to be very wet with heavy rains and gusty winds for the next week with temperatures from the mid 30s to the mid 40s (F) so there should be little interest in anything but training, the care of sore muscles and sleep.

Since the training will be heavily centered on pelvic activity Chris, my male Gyn from the Barony’s London clinic, as well as his current girlfriend, a Physician’s Assistant and cervical barrier fitter, will be here as well for the entire eight week course.  So we now have seven women trainees and nine well endowed men in residence in addition to Chris and his girlfriend and Anya and me. Having seven trainees and an eight week course means that after the first week the men can swap partners each week so the candidates can train with seven different men.  I love having sexually active guests and being able to train young women in very impressive but relatively unknown pelvic skills.

Tutoring the nobility

Coat of arms of The College of Arms

The Photo: The coat of arms of the organization in the UK that grants heraldic arms to an individual or organization if they meet certain strict criteria.  The College of Arms also creates the heraldic shields for the newly entitled and traces possible heirs to titles and arms belonging to families thought to have become extinct. 

Her Grace makes a request:  Alice, Duchess of M**** asked if I would tutor her friend’s eldest son who is 17 and will be going to Oxford this fall. Given that I’ve had a minimum of formal education I wondered what subject I could possibly help him with. She said his parents; his father is the current holder of one of England’s oldest and most efficiently run Earldoms and his mother a retired Royal Ballet Principal, are anxious that Terrence (Terry) have an intimate and positive experience with a sexually knowledgeable women before he goes to oxford since he has been in all-male schools since early childhood only meeting girls in private off-campus ballet classes he has taken since he was five. I was amazed that an all-male school could stop an inquisitive young male whose hormones are peaking from discovering the delights of women especially as he has grown up with female ballet students, but it seems his parents think that it has. I was supposedly getting a virgin to tutor on the pleasures of heterosexual sex, assuming of course that he is straight, which I think is a concern of his father as he needs a grandson as an heir.

Alice thinks there are other reasons – in addition to deepening his experience and perhaps understanding of women - his parents want Terry vacationing at lost cove this summer. They know Willow is with me here and Terry met her briefly when she taught a master class at his school. Alice thinks they want Terry at 17 and willow at 19 to become to develop a romantic relationship since terry is handsome and rich and will inherit the title and estates on his father’s death. With him marrying into Jacks family it would establish stronger interfamily ties a common practice among the aristocracy.

That seems unlikely to me since there is a two year difference in their ages and with girls maturing mentally earlier than boys they may have little in common. Not to mention that Willow is performing in my ballet company in Las Vegas while Terry will be at Oxford for the next several years. Of course that could all change. Since Terry is supposed to be very strong and have significant ballet training including pas de deux classes I’m sure he will be partnering Willow in our ballet classes and I’m anxious to see how they get along.

Tea and Sympathy: Her Grace said she immediately thought of the 1956 film Tea and Sympathy ((Deborah Kerr and John Kerr) with me in the role of Laura Reynolds, played by Deborah Kerr. The circumstances are not as straight forward with Terry as with Tom Lee in the film, but she thinks his parents are trying to avoid a similar situation once he gets to Oxford.

Alice said she thinks I would be an ideal tutor for Terry and he would learn a lot being with me for a few days. And well she might since I’ve been fucking her son’s brains out every chance I get for the past several years and my effort has not gone unnoticed as Jack wants to marry me over his father, the Duke’s, objections.  I was relieved that her request was one that I can handle easily and I’m going to enjoy teaching Terry about women while we enjoy each other’s bodies.  Jack has gone back to the UK to prepare Location Z for the Summer Solstice on the 21^st of this month so Terry rode back on Limnaea II and Alice and I took the Wanton Lass around to St Thomas today to pick him up. And what a stud-muffin he is!

Terry’s arrival: On the sail back from Charlotte Amelie to lost cove Terry and I got acquainted while Alice sunned herself and napped. I said he would be staying with Bea, Willow and me at my villa on the cove and that there would be ballet class each morning, which he knew since he brought his practice clothes and slippers. I also mentioned that none of the women including me were in monogamous relationships so hookups were fine, but that I would be his primary trainer and I have final say on what is safe for him to do. The girls know the dive limits past which an activity requires my approval and none of us want to be responsible for injuring such a gorgeous male body, not to mention a sweet personality, for a man.

Bea, Willow and Anya were on the pier in bikinis to welcome him and I could see Terry was very impressed with their beauty and the drape of his shorts showed it until he got his emotions under control. We all saw the rise in his interest and later we giggled and wondered how his parents could have been thinking he might be gay. Obviously he doesn’t confide in his father, which is quite common when sons are shipped off to boarding school and only see their fathers as authority figures and at Christmas.

Terry and the Summer Solstice: The Summer Solstice is on Saturday June 21^st, exactly one week from today. We will be leaving for Inverness this coming Monday so we can have a few days to recover from jet lag and prepare for our Location Z altar performances as Priestess of Aphrodite welcoming new males into the Old Ways. I’ve decided to save Terry’s virginity until the Solstice and take it from him on the main altar at sunrise.

Terry intends to major in sociology and specialize in ancient religions while at Oxford and when he found I am a Priestess of Aphrodite/Venus and will be celebrating the Solstice on the primary altar of an ancient holy site he was beyond fascinated and asked to participate. When I explained that participation by males required that they be virgin (defined here as not having had penile vaginal intercourse (PVI) with a human female – sheep don’t count) his virginity immediately turned from a liability into an amazing asset and he agreed to avoid having PVI with any women until I relieved him of his virginity at sunrise on the 21^st. Just to make sure he asked to wear a chastity belt when not in ballet classes to show his resolve. He said another few days of cold showers will just increase his anticipation. So Chris fit him into an old Access Denied male chastity belt and gave me the key. Terry is such a marvelously strong and hunky submissive and in ballet class has amazing stamina.

World Economic Forum 2014

Davos, Switzerland Site of the 2014 World Economic Forum

An offer I couldn’t refuse: When we were At Crag Abbey for Christmas His Grace asking if I would like to help with entertaining at this years World Economic Forum in Davos and I said sure, as though it was really going to happen. Well, be careful what you agree to. Of course I didn’t really have to go through with it, but having my performers dancing as entertainment at private parties and having my wards able to mingle with many of the world’s movers and shakers was an opportunity not to be missed. It was a huge rush when I found the Duke really wanted my group as we provide a level of secure personalized entertainment that few other groups offer.  Fortunately we were again ahead of the storm landing at Dulles to pick up Fiona and Colin.                                                                                                            

The theme for the four day World Economic Forum 2014 January 22 -25 in Davos, Switzerland will be: “The reshaping of the world: consequences for society, politics and business”. The time in Davos is GMT+1 which is 6 hrs. ahead of eastern standard and 9 hours ahead of Pacific Standard Time so we are working with a bit of jet lag.

Arrival: We arrived on Monday (Jan 20^th) when I was CD9 and fertile again as were my wards whose cycles have all synchronized to mine as we sweat in the studios and gyms so much together. I should ovulate the last day of the forum, Saturday the 25^th.Since His Graces patron, for whom he is arranging our attendance, has deep pockets my dancers, 4 girls and 2 boys, flew Business class to Zurich International (ZRH) and a car picked them up and took them to the hotel in Davos some 78 miles from Zurich. Anya, Fiona and Major Tree, my wards and I flew in to ZRH on Limnaea II my G650. No, I didn’t pay full price for it!  I’ll write about it when I have time, because the Government still gives really amazing tax breaks on small businesses buying private aircraft. The first thing we did after landing at Zurich and passing through customs was get our Forum credentials packs and clip-on badges with our photos on them. Otherwise we couldn’t have gotten into the town itself much less the hotel. Fiona was responsible for getting us cleared… the major work had already been done months ago or we wouldn’t have been allowed near His Grace w/o all my girls and I being found harmless.

Accommodations: His Grace already has a small hotel in the best part of town that he had completely renovated over the summer with only twenty-five suites and a set of five soundproof meeting rooms as well as three fully equipped encounter sallies. It is just the sort of place I would have designed and it fit perfectly the design I proposed when Jack (his Graces son) asked me how I would design an intimate hotel perfect for very private business meetings, assignations, rendezvous and trysts.

Anya, Fiona and Maj. Tree are involved with hotel and guest security while Tanaquil is overseeing the scheduling of most of the girls with meeting attendees who have interests in common with those of His Grace while my wards are available for those attendees who are of especial interest and are kinked toward rubber, ballet (boots and shoes) and very tight pussy.  The week off from school was explained as a research project for a whitepaper required for an economics course. For Bea it was an opportunity to dance in an international setting for ballet extra credit. I’m available for men who are interested in a woman in her early 40s who looks like she is in her early 30s and who can fuck their brains out. Surprisingly, since my dance card is full, not every man in Davos is after 19 y/o pussy and there are a great many submissive men in the field of economics so my riding crop has been getting a workout, though I do have to be careful not to mark a partner where it can be seen during a presentation.  

Fortunately Bea, Willow, Odette and Odile have been working with their male escort candidate partners so they have amazingly tight vaginal muscle tone and stamina. They won’t have much rest during the four day conference, but will get to meet intimately some very famous businessmen and academics.

Cunt clamps, pussy hooks and eternity collars

Model in a Las Vegas C-string bridal gown

Cunt clamps at St Lucy’s: Cyndi was one of the first students at St Lucy’s to start wearing a C-string around the dorm as loungewear and for sunbathing to minimize tan lines. She began wearing a C-string at Splash where the senior Towel-Girls call them Cunt Clamps (it’s the alliteration I think) and use them as loungewear while they are between dive clients or training sessions so there is nothing to step out of or untie. Taryn wore one when she was at St Lucy’s several years ago, but it was under tights, leggings or a mini when she didn’t want to wear a Penetrator, but needed a vulva veil w/o panty lines. I thought the minders in Administration might say something, but if the wearer has been properly shaved or waxed and correctly fitted they are so tasteful that they serve the purpose of a stringless panty and since they reinforce a students confidence wearing a CC seems to have been accepted as part of the student’s intimate wardrobe.

As with cervical barriers not everyone who wants to wear a cunt clamp can pull it off as a prominent coccyx will make wearing it uncomfortable and interfere with the grip of the spring frame. And a toned pelvis and buttocks are a must for any girl brave enough to wear one. Even with the tightest pelvic anatomy taking ballet class in a C-string can be a perilous experience as sweat can cause the grip of the clamp to slip as will the shock when landing jumps. I prefer having a Penetrator plug inserted if I’m going to go minimal, but covered especially in class where I will be doing splits and jumps.

C-clamps (as Jack calls them) are particularly useful when a woman is on her period and has a menstrual cup or tampon inserted so a Penetrator can’t be effectively used. I’ve found them to be comfortable under a mini where I didn’t want panty lines. And a C-string with an embroidered applique on it will mask the line of a light days pad worn inside as back-up during heavy days. Taryn got reported last fall at Cambridge when she was walking across Great Court just before a rainstorm and her mid-calf slit skirt was caught in the wind and blown up around her head. She gathered it up in her arms w/o thinking and kept walking and unintentionally flashed everyone in the court with her C-string. When she was taken to task about what she had done she laughed which was the wrong thing to do as her advisor thought she wasn’t properly contrite, but she managed to calm the old fellow down. Being sent down from Cambridge for lewd behavior wasn’t likely, but her reputation for hosting wild parties wasn’t a plus in that instance.

Training Subs for Valentines Day: A few of the 4th year St Lucy’s ballet students have been chosen to appear as Submissives for the evening at a Valentines Day BDSM party at Adolph’s on Tuesday night. He will also have a few full figured professional escorts (provided by Pirate) but some of his European guests like younger girls and he likes to be able to quench their desire in that regard when possible. All the St Lucy’s girls are at least 18. The age of consent in Nevada is 16, but there are some catch-all clauses, for people in authority over women under 18 y/o, so it’s best to use 18 y/os and with shaved pubes, hard tight ballet bodies and small breasts some look far younger and young pussy is always in demand. I’m helping prepare the girls and they have been training since well before Christmas. It’s been difficult to get them used to compartmentalizing the mental and physical effort needed to prevent going rubber-legged and falling of pointe during ballet-sex so that they can enjoy the experience of being taken to orgasm by a skilled and important guest. But I think they all have the trick of compartmentalizing during sex down now.

In addition to the student’s ballet training I’ve been working with them on their physical (toe and upper reproductive tract) protection. What that involves is having several pairs of well fitting Gaynor Minden pointe-shoes with hard shanks for taking a guest while standing en pointe (ballet sex) as well as being fitted for a FemCap. All the ballet students take my Advanced Sexual Techniques course and working as Subs at parties is extra credit in that elective so they have properly fitted diaphragms and all the girls chosen have frameless and stringless GyneFix copper IUDs implanted so they are cycling naturally and the possibility of being impregnated is very unlikely.

However, some sort of cervical barrier is needed to prevent liquids; soda water, champagne, carbonated beverages etc from reaching the uterus when a bottle is shaken then the neck shoved up the girl’s vagina, which is something that frequently occurs at Adolph’s parties. I would prefer the girls wear latex flat spring diaphragms, but in this case that won’t work because all the Subs will have vaginal hooks inserted and chained to an eternity collar each will be wearing. A vaginal hook could puncture the dome of a diaphragm so it’s safer for the girls to wear well fitting FemCaps with the removal straps trimmed off.

Eternity Collars: As I mentioned all the St Lucy’s girls will be wearing Eternity Collars. Collars have varying degrees of social significance for people in the BDSM community. At Adolph’s parties it is understood by guests that any girls wearing titanium eternity collars are doing so simply to identify themselves as Submissives and not to signify any collared relationship with a dominant so guests know they are available to play with. The professional escorts will be wearing standard leather dog collars. Another student identifier, other than having a ballet body and looking very young is that the students will all be in Gaynor Minden pointe-shoes while the professionals will be in stilettos. I don’t expect any rivalry between the professionals and students since the professionals are getting above scale wages for a 24 hour period when they will be only working 12 or so hours even if they sleep-over with a guest.

Adolph is springing for the titanium eternity collars and Gepetto’s shop has fabricated them to his specifications and the neck diameters of the chosen girls. The collar is simply a .25 inch outer diameter length of round titanium rod fashioned to appear as an endless loop once the hidden clasp has been fastened. Then the only way to get it off is for it to be cut off with a metal saw. The loop has two one inch diameter interlocking rings one of which is slipped on to the collar before it’s fastened around the wearer’s neck so that she can be led on a leash or fastened to a wall or ceiling by a chain through the ring if she displeases her partner. That design proved to be difficult to work with as the titanium rod is so stiff that each girl had to go to Gepetto’s and insert her head into a matrix that bent the ends together to lock the collar around her neck.

It doesn’t make sense to me to spend that much money on a device that will be worn for only a few days and most of that for training and then destroyed while removing it when there are far less costly alternatives, but that’s the way Adolph is. The last of the St Lucy’s Valentines party girls were collared this afternoon and they will wear turtle neck sweaters, leotards or scarves around their necks for the next several days when they go out and to classes so their collars aren’t obvious though they are already the talk of the dorms and some of their younger friends are amazingly envious. Having them collared several days’ early gives me time so I can train them to walk confidently en pointe with their vaginal hooks inserted and connected to chain leashes run through the apparatus ring on their collars.

Discipline diving

Adjusting her Draeger FFM before discipline dive

Subjugation discipline: A reader once asked why discipline is so popular in the BDSM subculture and especially in rubber fetish communities. I’ve been talking to Doms and especially Adolph who is an expert in dive discipline, for their answers to that question and as you might imagine I’ve gotten a number of different answers. However, the guys all say that there is an immense feeling of power and satisfaction on the part of the male when he can take an untrained, high spirited, beautiful, fertile, sexually adventuresome young woman and bend her to his will by a series of intense disciplinary encounters. Additionally, it can depend on where the woman is in her menstrual cycle as to how much fun the man has. The men all agree that disciplining a fertile or menstrual woman is the most fun. Typically, the more the woman being disciplined resists his training the more fun her Dom has and the more satisfaction he takes in the result when he finally breaks her will so that she becomes submissive and responds eagerly to his every command.

Physical requirements: The candidates for subjugation training must have no heart, blood pressure or skeletal problems and a full physical including a pelvic exam, bone density and negative pregnancy tests are required before a candidate can undergo a rigorous disciplinary training regimen.

Dive discipline equipment: A full face mask is worn to prevent drowning from expelling her regulator due to ecstasy, pain or unconsciousness during training. A wetsuit, drysuit or bikini may worn depending on the depth, water temperature, gas mixture, and duration and discipline regimen to be used during the dive. For crush training a drysuit at a depth of 150 feet and regular (21% oxygen air) is used. Divers being disciplined with crush training are accompanied by an instructor breathing Trimix 10/70 to make sure the trainee doesn’t become so narked she tries to remove her FFM. The instructor also monitors the trainee’s drysuit squeeze during crush training to try to ensure no ribs are broken as air is vented from the trainee’s suit and the squeeze is increased. That’s why all dive discipline candidates must pass a bone density test to gage the likelihood their skeletons can withstand the compression of a deflated dry suit at 150 feet.

A biofeedback vibrator: I had been testing a remote controlled G-spot vibi that has a biofeedback loop in it. It was developed by Jeff’s labs and it works so well that when I used it for 20 minutes at a depth of 20 feet I was too exhausted to get out of the pool after having to come to the surface because I was nearly out of air. I’m thinking the biofeedback unit is addictive because if left activated it keeps the user generating endorphins that keep her in a state of ecstasy until she collapses or the battery runs down.

I had told Adolph about the biofeedback G-spot vibi and he has begun using it for exhaustion training along with a clitoral vibrator that is worn in a grope cup. The biofeedback vibi searches for the woman’s G-spot and once found maximize her pleasure to the point of driving her to exhaustion and unconsciousness if it’s not shut off. Worn on a disciplinary squeeze dive encounter it can cause heart, and blood pressure problems as well as increasing the wearer’s air consumption to the point she exhausts the air in her tank prematurely and risks asphyxia or DSC from a rapid ascent w/o a decompression stop. To minimize the likelihood of running out of air my students and Adolph’s woman who have BF vibis inserted wears SCUBA sets with twin 120 cu ft hp tanks.

Adolph as a sex and business partner: Adolph and I are so very much alike in our fetish needs. He isn’t into pointe shoes and cervical barriers, except when worn by women, but almost everything else; rubber, diving, danger, sex and he’s a sadist and I’m a masochist so we complement each other that way. So when he asked if I was willing to form a business partnership with him I was intrigued. What he wanted from me are two things, besides sex I mean. First to make sure he has first refusal of any material (including bodies) I remove during my cleanup operations. Second, he wants my expertise in the fields of diving, cervical barriers and sex training. I told him that my time is limited and that I couldn’t commit to a regular schedule, but I’d be willing to help with training when I can. There will be no conflict of interest on my part because at the casino I train escorts for careers in the adult entertainment industry and as an assistant professor at St Lucy’s I train students to use their physical skills to attract lovers and eventually husbands.

The girls Adolph has as students at his discipline facility are typically brought to him as un-trainable by Rubber Doms in the general population. All the women are young, beautiful and have jobs in their local communities and have no interest in working professionally in the sex-trade. That can be good and bad. The good thing is that they lack street smarts and confidence in their ability to beguile so are amazed when their natural sexuality is awakened. The other side is that most are very independent and suspicious. That of course is why they were brought to Adolph for discipline training and many of them resist it, sometimes until they are brutally subjugated. One of the things I can do to help new girls build confidence in Adolph’s training is by letting Adolph appear to dominate me while I demonstrate the training regimen he is forcing them to participate in. Seeing another woman handle an intense encounter builds a false sense of confidence in the woman to be subjugated, but I view that as a marketing tool. Once I explain what will happen and what she should expect and then briefly demonstrate the lesson the woman dresses for what she thinks is a practice session. We test her equipment, she begins her initial descent into the discipline pool and when she submerges it’s too late.

I think I enjoy diving with Adolph because he is so unpredictable that he makes every dive dangerous, a thrill I crave and I don’t get diving with my other stallions. You see, I have already added Adolph to my stable, but he is a maverick and still unbroken so is a delight to be with because I’m never sure if I will survive the encounter.

Menstrual sex

A submissive being trained for menstrual sex

Menstrual sex: When I’m menstrual I have my secondary libidinal peak when I enjoy menstrual sex with all its messiness and the attendant monthly scents of blood and uterine flow along with the normal scents associated with the sweaty exertion of energetic intercourse. A lot of men are turned off about having sex with a woman during her period so finding guys who enjoy ‘swimming in the Red Sea’ and who are suitable partners can sometimes be difficult. I recently had a lovely chat with a friend as we set up guidelines for a menstrual encounter when I visit him, he lives out of state, hopefully in the near future. He is so into menstrual sex! I can’t imagine why we haven’t done this before. He’s married so he’ll have to take me in my hotel room. To give readers some idea what goes into planning this sort of an encounter from a woman’s perspective here is a bit of our conversation:

A friend: What clothes would you wear for CD1? We would have menstrual sex in your hotel room, but with bed protection that is usually what I do in that situation.

Me: Around here I usually wear something red when I'm menstrual and red pointe shoes... I'm not usually too grouchy but I like to give... men especially... warning... Would you like me demure... or haughty when I’m menstrual?

A friend: Nice I like that touch. Red something in your outfit.... I would like you however you honestly feel... I mean just be yourself and I would LOVE the messy sex very, very sexy for me...

Me: Well, that's a problem with you. On one level I would love to dominate you, the great expert in your field who has thousands of women after him. On the other hand I want to feel protected, demure and submissive when under your spell...

A friend: I would provide a latex bed sheet for our menstrual sex so we can just let you flow and enjoy it .... ha ha.. ok then on CD1 you dominate and on CD2 you are submissive then...

Me: Awesome! I'll bring my whip and ballet boots with the 7 inch spike heels! And then on CD2 I wear a bondage collar and labia leash... I hate being taken in the shower! The mess washes away but the encounter is so antiseptic I think...The rubber sheet solves several problems and I get my latex fix digging the platforms of my red leather pointes into the rubber to lift my hips when you are thrusting into me in missionary.

A friend: I agree about the shower.. and I would want you on the bed missionary style and with you on top too... the menstrual blood has to be enjoyed... not washed away....

Me: I totally agree! My bloody flow is a gift and the sign of the renewal of my reproductive cycle...

A friend: I would also want to enjoy your menstrual blood when out and about with you... how do you usually like to arrange that

Me: I just empty my Milex or whatever CB I’m using before I leave home and then again when I need to... since I've been having regular MEs for more than 18 months now I haven't had to empty while away from home... what do you have in mind?

A friend: You would not have your ME till CD3 so we could enjoy CD1 and 2 to the full. I would not want you protected at all and would want full and free access to you at all times... you would control your flow with a belted pad and no panties so it could just be slid to one side when I wanted to take you and enjoy your menses on my penis... you would be allowed a male condom if you wished but that is all...

Me: I flow heavily on CD2 so if I’m not to use ANY protection ... Ohhh a pad and belt...yes, that's ok... I can do that easily! Umm... I would be allowed a male condom? LOL! What good would that do me? I wouldn't need in for contraception.

A friend: just in case you felt you wanted contraceptive cover. (not that you would need it)

Me: Ahhh... well... that's a sweet thought, but with my ME the next day and then again on CD1 of my next cycle I don't think I'd need it. And If I did... Well, wouldn't that be awesome to be carrying your baby, but it would only be for a month.. Then I’d terminate it!

A friend: no you would not need it .. just I always offer… yes that would be awesome I agree.

Me: The condom is a lovely gesture and it's appreciated too!

A friend: would you enjoy that plan for CD1/2?

Me: Wearing a belted pad, yes absolutely! It's rather like wearing an absorbent thong...

Vaginal hooks for Halloween

Stainless steel vaginal hook & 1.5 in. diameter ball

Fasteners and vaginal hooks: Fasteners, my casino’s bondage boutique, is now carrying a line of vaginal hooks in stainless steel and titanium. Until recently customers have been mostly Dungeon Dommes and Masters who want to display them on the walls of their dungeons to demonstrate their ability to hang a woman by her pubic bone. Of course the problem with actually using a vaginal hook for that is that there is no way to suspend a girl by her pelvis with one w/o doing a great deal of damage and afterward she is useless for vaginal sex as the vagina always tears and there is considerable blood loss not to mention that even the most willing women before they are suspended by a vaginal hook is a true believer in their barbarity after her experience. The vaginal hook having such a bad reputation it wasn’t surprising that there were only one or two adventuresome girls buying for their own use. I thought they would only model the hook and harness for their boyfriends just as most women model ballet-boots, only posing in them while on their backs or sitting down.

The psychology of being submissive: But it seems since Fasteners began a quiet advertising campaign the hooks have, err, caught on as a new look for Halloween parties this year. Adventuresome girls were getting tired of dressing as Wonder woman, Cat Woman, Storm, Elektra and Laura Croft. Being able to insert a vaginal hook and go partying in ballet boots as a Slave girl is a total switch giving even the most assertive of us a chance to show her submissive side and it can provide a surprising insight about what men would like to do with (or to) us when they think we can’t defend ourselves. The defenseless girl in a harness with a hook fully inserted into her most feminine spot while standing in ballet boots is a huge turn on for some men who have a cruel streak and some who are simply amazed at what some of us will wear or do for attention or sexual gratification. The amazement seems to come especially from college men who come to Vegas from small towns where they haven’t been directly exposed to that sort of obsessive-destructive behavior by submissive women and their Masters in the D/S sub-culture. Of course there is BDSM on the Web but so much of that is fantasy that UNLV college men have been streaming through the mall to look at the vaginal hooks displayed on (or is it in) mannequins in Fasteners window. From the cams focused on the window-shoppers looking at the hooked mannequins the number of men with obvious erections was more than 40% which the advertising director thought was marvelous as erections drive sales. And having sales associates in ballet boots modeling the hooks in the intimate devices section of the boutique has gotten a lot of attention. Since Fasteners began advertising vaginal hooks as an innovative look for Halloween sales to college age men and women have soared so the campaign seems to be at the very least a seasonal success.