Bare down there: Nude pubes – the pluses and minuses

A full Brazilian (squeaky clean) waxing

The photo: The lovely and confidence building results of a full (squeaky clean) Brazilian waxing.

IPL hair removal: Intense Pulsed Light (IPL) laser permanent hair removal is not suitable for use on light blond, red and white/grey hair as darker colored hair absorbs the energy from the laser and is more quickly destroyed.  However, my thick bright red hair while not as easily removed by laser as darker colors was removed in nine sessions, one every six weeks, over the last year. If I was young and hadn’t been waxing it would have taken longer, but I’d been waxing for more than twenty years so there wasn’t a lot of hair left. Finally, all I have left now are my eyebrows and scalp hair!

The down-side of bare down there:  There can be a safety issue with pubic grooming at home. If not careful shaving can cause cuts requiring a visit to the ER and home waxing can cause burns also requiring a trip to the ER. Too, there is some research that shows that girls who haven’t reached puberty have more pelvic infections than after puberty when a thick bush can afford some protection. So removing pubic hair can increase the chance of pelvic infections.

Reasons for nude pubes: Growing up in a ballet boarding school I couldn’t wait for my first pair of pointe-shoes and my first pubic waxing, which occurred shortly after I reached menarche at fourteen. The school encouraged nude pubes since costumes fit better and leotards and tights displayed the mons pubis and cameltoe in greater detail. Some of the other reasons knowledgeable and sexually sophisticated women prefer hairless pubes are:  

• It makes the woman look younger.
• Ease of access to fondle the shaft of the clitoris.
• Sports Plugs (vaginal plugs) seal much more securely if body adhesive is needed (if her post-pubic vault isn’t shaped to retain the plug) when the wearer has bare pubes to prevent being finger-fucked at parties.
• It’s easier to clean up while menstrual, especially after menstrual sex and cunnilingus.
• Hair doesn’t get caught in a partner’s teeth and the relief zippers of catsuits.
• Greater comfort, poise and confidence gotten from knowing you look fabulous when displaying nude pubes under revealing clothing.

Latex Catsuits relief zippers: Nude pubes as a relief zipper plus was mentioned above, but I think it needs its own brief discussion because with tight relief zippers on properly sized, very tight, latex catsuits getting a relief zipper closed even when the wearer has a closely trimmed bush can be a challenge. I recommend some relief zipper training for my escort clients when fitted with one of Gepettos custom latex catsuits that are so tight that the zipper is between the labia forming a soft deep cameltoe. With one of those it is very difficult to get even a well waxed zipper fully closed w/o having hair caught in the zipper unless wearing a Sports Plug so nude pubes are highly recommended.  Of course a suit that tight can’t be worn comfortably by many of us but for those who can, like me, the zipper along the shaft of my clitoris is very arousing.

A Full Brazilian for hygiene: Hygiene is defined as: “Conditions or practices conducive to maintaining health and preventing disease, especially through cleanliness.” Well, ease of clean-up is certainly one aspect of having nude pubes though I agree with the doctors (in the links below) that grooming to hairless pubes isn’t really the primary reason that a high percentage young women and a much higher percentage of performers and escorts go bare down there for the reasons mentioned above. A recent New York Times article about shaving, waxing, or lasering pubic hair is at:

“Most Women Prefer to Go Bare, Citing Hygiene (and Baffling Doctors)” can be read HERE

In case readers hit a pay-wall at the NYT Links cited in the above article are:

“Pubic Hair Grooming Prevalence and Motivation Among Women in the United States” can be read HERE

“Pubic hair removal among women in the United States: prevalence, methods, and characteristics” can be read HERE:

“Vulvovaginal Health” article can be read HERE:

“Pubic hair grooming injuries presenting to U.S. emergency departments” article can be read HERE.

 

 

Major external anatomical parts of the female genitalia

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Waxed pubes, return to London and Inverness

Mind the gap! A full Brazilian bikini wax

The photo: A young woman who has recently had a full Brazilian bikini waxing with the smooth soft skin of her mons pubis barely covered by her thong.

A full Brazilian: A full Brazilian waxing is the removal of all hair in the pelvic area, front and back. It is a form of bikini waxing, and involves the complete removal of hair from the buttocks and adjacent to the anus, perineum and vulva (labia majora and mons pubis).

The day before we left Virgin Gorda I had my cosmetologist give all my wards and me a full Brazilian bikini waxing. I’ve been getting full Brazilian waxes ever since I begin performing in erotic ballets when I was in my teens so that’s about 25 years. Now very little hair grows back and what does is very fine. Even so I take 800 mg of ibuprofen 30 minutes before I get on the table and it’s over quickly while I catch up with the latest salon gossip from my cosmetologist. Bea, Willow and the Swan Twins have been getting full Brazilians for the past 3 years so they have far less hair as well and our complete recovery interval is about 24 hours, but we do coat our pubes with a soothing aloe vera gel which speeds healing of surface tissues and wear loose clothing for two days. At my age I think a full Brazilian along with the Swiss skin care treatments I’m getting keeps my skin soft, wrinkle free and healthy and me looking like I’m in my late 20s which I think is awesome! I am frequently mistaken for a sister of Willow, Odette and Odile which does wonders for my ego!

How long the results of a Brazilian wax will last depends on a number of things. Hair grows at different rates, depending on the person and sometimes your cultural background and how well the previous waxing was done. The wax my cosmetologist uses is a mixture of natural beeswax and tall oil (also called  pine oil or liquid rosin which is a viscous yellow-black odorous liquid obtained as a by-product of the Kraft process of wood pulp manufacture) rather than the more common synthetic waxes used for regular leg waxing.  I think the blend of beeswax and pine oil gives the dark wax mixture a rather pleasant scent. Beeswax is used because it is felt that it’s stronger, and more effective at removing the thicker, coarser pubic hairs. There are products available to lessen the pain involved, such as topical anesthetics. Sometimes a hair inhibitor is applied, which slows the regrowth of hair and may halt regrowth completely. The results can last up to two months. For my wards a bikini wax will last 4 to six weeks. Because I have been waxing for so long I can go 2 months or a bit longer.

Anya, Paul and the five trainees: Anya and her boyfriend Paul, the Swan Twin’s father, are staying at my place on Virgin Gorda until the weekend to continue to supervise the five girl’s hostess training with their boyfriends in my absence. Then the five couples along with Alice Duchess of M**** will sail aboard the Wanton Lass IV to Charlotte Amalie to board Limnaea II for the flight back to Stansted in the UK. Anya and Paul will remain and be staying at Paul’s place (next to mine) on Lost Cove for a few more weeks.

Alice, the estranged wife of His Grace the Duke of M****, will be staying with me at my place in Eaton Square while she is in town for The Season and shopping for a Fall wardrobe. I’ve come to think of Alice as the mother I never really had and we get along wonderfully well. Her current lover, Brigadier Ellis, will be accompanying her and he and Marvin, my lover and psychiatrist, have become great friends.  

The return to London: The trip back was uneventful. We slept and read most of the way while recovering from our bikini waxings. The maximum distance for Limnaea II (a G650) is a bit more than 8,000 miles at a long-range cruising speed of about 650 mph. The distance from Charlotte Amalie, St Thomas to Stansted Airport, London is 4,172 miles and with the crosswinds it took about 7.5 hours for the flight.  We landed at Stansted at about 5:00 AM British Summer Time a few minutes after sunrise on the 16^th.

The Bentley and two Land Rovers were there to meet us and take us to Blackthorn House in Eaton square where the staff was on hand in the foyer to greet us and take our bags to our rooms. We all showered and changed into fresh clothes before sitting down to a full English breakfast.  Then Willow who grew up and worked in London took Bea and the Swan Twins out briefly shopping to see what the must-haves are for Fall before we were due to board the train for Inverness. 

The trip to Inverness: Charles, my Chamberlain of the Household whose staff runs the Barony, had The Dragon - my private rail car - moved from Caersws, the nearest rail head to Blackthorn Castle, to Kings Cross station. It was attached to the back of the regular June 16^th 12:00 PM through train from London Kings Cross to Inverness which required no transfers. The schedule was 8 hours and 6 minutes for the 568 mile trip which is about 70 miles per hour. So we made very good time. We convoyed from Eaton square to the station boarded shortly before departure and had lunch and supper aboard and just had a wonderful time relaxing though the change from the 70° evening temperature the Caribbean to 50° mornings and clouds in UK is taking a bit of getting used to though the day on the 16^th in London was a pleasant 75°.

We were more or less on time arriving in Inverness at 8:15 PM and the temperature was already in the 50s with brisk wind at the station.  The trip in the land Rovers along the western side of Loch Ness and into the mountains to get to Crag Abbey was uneventful and it was after dark (sunset is now about 10:00 PM) with temperatures in the 40s and a stiff wind at the Abbey by the time we arrived and had gotten settled for the night. 

Pomegranates for Aphrodite: The pomegranate is sacred to Aphrodite who is said to have first planted it on the island of Kypros. The fruit symbolizes female fertility and the marital loss of virginity with the consummation of marriage (from both its red stains and rich seeds). I had brought a basket of pomegranates as an offering to the Goddess in the Roman temple of Venus that surrounds the spring beneath the undercroft of the abbey. Before bed on the 16^th Marvin went with me as I placed the fruit on her altar and then we performed penile/vaginal intercourse while I wore the heavy gold collar of office as her earthly Priestess to rededicate myself to the spread of sexual rapture in her name. Rededication ceremonies like that prepare me for my task as primary celebrant at her mountain top temple on meaningful celestial occasions.

Kassi’s orientation, Jill’s Notes 1.1

One of Kassi’s first pairs of Gaynor Minden pointes.

The Photo: I had Kassi fitted with hard shanked Gaynor Mindens when the GM rep came by the other day. Like me she wears Freed Classics for performing, but she needed something more supportive and with shanks and toe-boxes that can survive the abuse of playing in them. Fortunately they are a great fit for her and she loves the comfort and support they provide while she is training for ballet-sex.

Kassandra and my other Wards: I’m having Kassi fill in with my ballet troupe while a regular corps dancer is injured. Her self discipline extends at least to the point that she knows not to foul her own nest so I think (fingers crossed) that she will leave her friends men alone. God knows there are enough other gorgeous men around interested in having sex with a dancer and eligible men from the audience crowd the stage door afterward to see if they can date a ballerina so she shouldn’t be short of men to choose from. As I mentioned in an earlier post Kassi has a marvelous personality and can  adapt to almost any social situation so the question is can she control her competitive nature or is there a point at which she will start poaching on her women friends men just to see if she can take the men away from them.

KITTING OUT KASSI:

Pelvic protection and grooming: She had been fitted for the Reflexions latex flat spring diaphragm for deep dive flood insurance. At the same time I fitted her with a FemCap as well. FemCap is not as useful, but at depths of less than 30 feet can work well if the wearer is not menstrual and wants skin-on-skin contact on her G-spot. She is adapting well to her GyneFix with no cramping and the little spotting has stopped.

Yesterday Chris measured her for a custom sports plug which can protect the vulva from groping, but is ineffective when a vibi is pressed up against its head and turned on. It’s the new version with a indentation in the locking cam that fits snugly behind the pubic bone to prevent pinching the urethra which can lead to UTIs. The new version also has a channel so the wearer can urinate with it in place rather than having to remove the older version first.

After her sports-plug fitting I took her to Body Buffers, and introduced her to my esthetician who gave her her first Brazilian waxing (she had been shaving her pubes), removing every strand except eyebrows and scalp hair.  Kassi told me she was a bit of a masochist, but I had no idea pain affected her sexually until while I sat with her during her  waxing she orgasmed while tears were running down her cheeks as the esthetician ripped her pubic hair out in strips while she moaned in ecstasy. I wish my other wards and I enjoyed being waxed as much as she seems to.

Footwear: I took her to Gepetto’s shop for a ballet-boot fitting. She’s getting three pairs of the standard lightly armored calf length boots the rest of my wards wear with spider filament laces and three spare sets of titanium lace splitter heels with heel guards and Inman heel guard releases standard on Gepetto’s boots at $3,500 per/pair, but as an owner I  and therefore she gets a discount. While we were there we went into his rubber shop, Latex Lair, and had her fitted for custom chlorinated latex catsuits: three in black and one each in red, yellow and green. Jeff’s latex fabricating shop at Labia Labs out on the 15 actually makes the latex garments and they are very high quality. I love the fetish scents at Gepettos; the oak tanned leather, the boot oil and the smell of new latex and latex polish.

Her menstrual cycle reset: I could wait and see if she will naturally develop menstrual synchrony with my wards and me, but that could take several cycles. She is almost fertile and I want her cycle to sync with the rest of my wards for training purposes so I got Chris to give her a ten day regimen of progestin pills to force her to bleed when the rest of us do. If she takes a 5 mg tablet of Aygestin (Norethindrone) daily until CD 26 of my cycle that should cause her to bleed two days later resetting her cycle and put her period in synch with ours. I’m CD 14 and should ovulate today so she will start her progestin pills this coming Sunday.

Kassi at UNLV: She says she wants to go back to school and get her Masters in Psychology. She already has a BS from Cambridge where she was nearly expelled twice for seducing her tutors and she knows Taryn and has been her guest at Cunt Castle for some of her parties.  I’m not sure how serious she is about wanting her Masters and I want to introduce her to Adolph as soon as she is confident enough participating in dive-sex. So she is getting familiar with sex underwater wearing Reflexions for flood insurance, DiveGel+ as a lube and an OTS Guardian FFM with a comm. link so she can talk with her trainer-lover and not expel her reg during orgasm.

Jill’s Notes 1.1 (rev 10-03-2014)

Some of my friends (in no particular order):

• Jack: (John, Viscount Sandbach, my primary lover. Though with my various jobs and raging libido I have a multitude of lovers from all walks of life, from escort trainees to extremely wealthy fetish addicts.
• His Grace: The Duke of M*** AKA Himself, His Grace, The Duke, and the Old Bull who is Jacks father and who has an English title and estates in northern England and Scotland.
• Alice: The Duchess of M***, who is separated from His Grace and lives with revolving lovers near my estate on Virgin Gorda.
• Adolph: a good friend and psychopath in Vegas who has a 216 ft. deep dive training facility (the well) an  dive-sex club, Splash and a up-market Spa, The Lorelei, as well as a penchant for making employees disappear.
• Brad: AKA Morning Wood my most recent psychoanalyst and fetish lover. He is helping me come to terms with my responsibilities as a handmaiden of Aphrodite. However, he is delusional in that he has fixation that when I’m dressed in her clothes I am his dead wife Jenna (from her photos we could be identical twins) who was a dancer killed in a car crash with their 6 mos. old baby two years ago.
• Anya: A good friend in her early 30s who travels as a troubleshooter for a multinational company
• Fiona: Jack’s sister who works for the British Government (currently in their embassy in DC) and mother of Cyndi who was one of my wards until she began her studies at Cambridge at the beginning of 2014.
• Pirate: who runs the Escort service for my casino and whose escorts provide some of the best sex in Vegas.
• Tanaquil: A retired French Courtesan who is a procuress as well as running Taryn’s business which she inherited from her parents, the best Porn organization in Europe
• My five Wards: Bea 17 y/o and in the 4^th form at St Lucy’s; Willow a 19 y/o Brit-chick who danced for the Royal Ballet and is Jack’s natural daughter by an RB ballerina. Willow now dances in my ballet Co in Vegas and attends UNLV; The 18 y/o Swan twins, Odette and Odile who are the daughters of a friend who is a neighbor on Virgin Gorda in the BVIs. And recently there is a 5^th, Kassandra the 21 y/o daughter of the Earl of A*** who looks much like me with a Balanchine body, red hair green eyes and who is left handed. Also like me she was put in ballet boarding schools from a very young age and has great beauty, talent and a natural ability to mesmerize men w/o trying. She is also amoral and will say or do anything to get her way if she wants it badly enough. I first met her at Crag Abbey after the Autumnal Equinox on Sept. 23, 2014 and she returned with me and my other wards to Vegas where I hope to place her with Adolph as a sort of personal Assistant.
• Andrea: Was briefly my 5^th ward, but she developed a blood clot from not using proper precautions during dive-sex and so as soon as she was able to travel was sent home to her parents in Germany who are relatives of Adolph.