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Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Personhood and contraception


The need for and use of vamp extensions

Vamp extensions: Readers of my entry: pointe-shoe quiz 9-19-09 will remember vamp extensions that provide additional support to dancer’s insteps. In the image accompanying this entry you can see how far over the front of her platform the dancer is working and why she needs vamp extensions on her shoes.

"Personhood": Banning Abortion, Contraception...And More?
Published on RHRealityCheck.org (http://www.rhrealitycheck.org)
By Amanda Marcotte Created Sep 22 2009 - 8:00am

“For those of us who hoped that the attempts to sneak in bans on abortion, hormonal contraception, and IVF under proposed laws called “personhood amendments” would disappear after the first attempt at passing such a law on a ballot initiative was thoroughly trumped at the polls in Colorado, well, I hate to tell you, but the anti-choice extremists aren’t going away. The next new battlefield is Florida [1], where anti-choicers hope they can use the invisibility of most female reproductive processes to convince the voters that there’s little people lurking inside your neighbor’s lady parts, even if there’s no biological evidence to support that proposition, and that this law will save the wee mythical people.

Obviously, there’s a good reason for pro-choicers to be alarmed when personhood amendments seem like they’re really going to get onto ballots. If they pass, that means that anti-choicers not only have a platform to issue challenges to abortion, but also that they have a chance to go after other anti-choice goals, namely pushing for bans on reliable, female-controlled contraception like the birth control pill and the IUD. Hey, we don’t know that female-controlled contraception doesn’t kill “babies”, since it’s all invisible behind that wall of flesh that separates the uterus from its proper Bible-thumping owners (a wall of flesh most of us call “the woman”), so better to be safe and ban the pill. Those doctors who say the birth control pill doesn’t work that way can’t be 100% sure, so we can discount their opinions entirely. Or, that’s the general gist of the argument, anyhow.

Clearly, a large scale challenge not only to abortion but to all of the most effective female-controlled forms of contraception is a very bad thing for women, on the grounds that anti-choicers might succeed and start forcing more women to bear children against their will. But there is a reason for cautious optimism when it comes to the personhood amendment push. Personhood amendments are a classic example of a political group overplaying their hand, and in this case, personhood amendments offer a great opportunity to take away the cover of fetus-concern that anti-choicers use to push their real goals of oppressing women and making sex fraught in the hopes people will have less of it.

Regular readers of RH Reality Check are no doubt familiar with the most taxing obstacle for the anti-choice movement in its goal to push its ideology into our laws, which is that they can’t be upfront with the public about what they believe without facing rejection. The organized anti-choice movement is hostile to contraception, and especially hostile to female-controlled contraception. This gives lie to their claims that they’re indifferent to women’s liberation and sexual behavior, and only interested in saving fetal life. Actual behavior indicates a pattern of hostility to sexual liberation, from the promotion of abstinence-only programs to the dishonest claims about the safety of the HPV vaccine. The public is willing to accept that an anti-choicer who is fascinated by fetus life is a good person with a legitimate claim. They’re not so sympathetic to people who just want to clap chastity belts on everyone and issue permission slips before you get to indulge your sexual desires.

The anti-choice tactic to deal with this problem is, to put it bluntly, to be two-faced. The face offered to the public is sentimental about fetal life, so that the public assumes that anti-choicers are well-meaning, if a big silly. The fact that there’s a larger anti-sex agenda is to be kept on the down low. As I’ve reported before, anti-choice protesters are trained to feign compassion for women and to dissemble about contraception [2] in order to keep up this façade.

Of course, when you actually write ballot initiatives that are about banning the birth control pill, it’s a lot harder to keep up the façade. Not that the anti-choicers behind this aren’t trying to adapt the “just lie about what you’re up to” tactic. As Wendy Norris reported, [1] they’ve softened up the language about a “fertilized egg” to “from the beginning of biological development”, a softening-up that is probably not only there to hoodwink the public but also to broaden the definition of what shedding of sex cells will be illegal. Squeezed hard enough, I could see how “the beginning of biological development” could be even be used to define male masturbation and female menstruation as an exciting 21st century version of “baby-killing”. Hey, all that sperm you left in a gym sock is kind of sort of the beginning of human development, especially if you’re daft enough to think that suppressing ovulation (which is what the birth control pill does) is “abortion”.

No matter how vaguely worded the assault on contraception along with abortion is, it’s still an assault on contraception. (And IVF, as well, and probably a whole host of things that fit into this vague category.) And contraception is incredibly popular. 98% of women will use it at some point in their lives, [3] which means that even the people railing against the evils of contraception are probably sneaking around and using it, while lying to their anti-choice buddies about it. All pro-choicers need to do is make it clear to the voters that this is an assault on contraception, and assume that the secret ballot will do the rest.

This strategy worked in Colorado, [4] with 73% of the voters rejecting a challenge to legal female-controlled contraception. I’m going to charitably assume that most of the 25% of people who use contraception and voted against it were simply confused, with a smattering of blatant hypocrites to round it out. A 25% confusion rate is low enough not to swing an election, but it’s still way too high. It’s clear that our main goal in fighting back against these personhood amendments should be education. If I may, I suggest starting with the Reality Check video [5] on why the birth control pill is not abortion. Once the biology’s out of the way, you can move on to explaining to your audience why anti-choicers are deliberately misrepresenting how the birth control pill works in an effort to get it banned, despite its widespread popularity.”

Responsibility and pleasure: I’m seeing more and more girls getting into trouble by not understanding that responsibility goes along with sexual gratification, regardless of what form the pleasure takes. The 16 y/o daughter of an Escort diver was within moments of serious injury this afternoon when she put on her mom’s SCUBA set with its octopus and pussy reg and tried to have solo bubble sex. She had watched her mom get bubble fucked while working with her trainer and a boyfriend and the daughter would probably have been safe if she had done as she was told and used a Milex Omniflex diaphragm with her mom’s pussy reg. But she used her own Semina diaphragm with a much thinner dome that couldn’t withstand the friction from the compressed wings of the special SeaCure, mouthpiece that has been adjusted to fit her mom’s vagina. When the reg mouthpiece was pushed into her vagina and locked behind her pubic bone the friction of the wing against the dome tore a hole in the silicone membrane and she lost her overpressure protection. That protection is vital for safely when releasing gas in the vagina as is done to expand the dynamic range of the woman’s vaginal muscles when she is being bubble fucked.

If the daughters pelvic anatomy hadn’t been smaller than her moms so that the wings of the mouthpiece weren’t such a tight fit perhaps the dome of the Semina wouldn’t have torn, but it did. We found her held on the bottom in only 7 feet of water (to lessen the nitrogen loading of training in deeper water) by an ankle leash attached to a drain cover. She was struggling to pull the mouthpiece of her pussy reg out of her vagina. It was a standard US Divers reg with a modified SeaCure mouthpiece, stuffed into her and locked in place by a wing of the mouthpiece wedged behind her pubic bone. Just as we got to the pool edge she expelled the second stage reg that should have been in her mouth and it floated in front of her face, her mask was flooded and her mouth open. She hadn’t been using the spit strap which would have prevented her from accidentally spitting out her reg during an emergency. Her mom and I both jumped in and while her mom purged the reg and put it in her daughter’s mouth I release the Velcro strap of the ankle leash and we got her safely to the surface before the daughter had a chance to hit purge and fill her vagina with air. Her mom helped her pull the modified mouthpiece out of her vagina and she was just bruised and scraped not torn. The ruined Semina was the scary part and her mom went ballistic when she saw the dome was torn and realized how close she has been to losing her daughter to an embolism. Since she is of age her mom is going to get her a Milex Omniflex and have her fitted with her own pussy reg so she can take lessons. That way bubble sex will be safe and not so painful.

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Bubble fucked, part II


A Cooper Surgical – Milex wide-seal – silicone diaphragm

A reader’s question: An interested reader asked if the manufacturer and style of diaphragm is important when being selected – to be used with an Oves cap - for women needing effective bubble fuck protection. The short answer is yes.

I know I’ve said that being bubble fucked is something most women want nothing to do with and that’s true. But at St Lucy’s there are a lot of girls who are interested in having the experience at least once, “been there, done that got the tee shirt to prove it’. And at St Lucy’s that usually means changing diaphragms because almost all the girls who use Ds there wear Semina, the super thin transparent silicone dome ‘Barbie Barrier’. A Semina is great for pregnancy protection from a thrusting penis and for ordinary dive-sex down to 10m but the dome isn’t thick enough to take wear from the hard silicone wings of a pussy reg being shoved into the vagina and rubbing against the dome. For bubble fuck protection a Milex Omniflex is the diaphragm of choice to be used with an Oves cap. An arcing spring style should be not be used because pressure from the wings of the mouthpiece could cause the rim to fold and lessen the rim seal. The dome of a Milex is better because while still stretchy and flexible it is thicker making it difficult (but not impossible) to puncture or tear so it better protects the Oves cap sucking on the diver’s cervix.

Gas fisting: I think it’s fun when the gas balloons my vagina and I try to teach the introductory course so the students will enjoy that experience too! It’s sort of like getting fisted during a submerged pelvic exam and when I describe it that way it increases the student’s interest in trying it. Of course vaginal ballooning forces a girl to pee in her partner’s face but he’s in a mask and reg so that's really not a problem. I tell my students the guy she’s with is too busy watching her reaction to worry about being in a cloud of her urine. Of course that’s not the only cloud because the air being forced out around the mouthpiece carries with it a puffy swirls of semen, spermicide and dive-gel which coats her partner’s facemask unless he turns away, but few do because they are fascinated by how she is handling the experience.

Single hose regulators: I’ve mentioned before that it’s necessary to use a single hose reg., that has a purge button, when the intention is to use it for bubble fucking. That’s because double hose regs don’t have a purge button so there is no good way to force air into the vagina with a dual-hose mouthpiece. What I do if I want to wear my Mistral twin-hose reg is I’ll have my partner attach an octopus with a pussy reg to his SCUBA set. That way I get a bubble free view of him moving in and out of me during sex then get to see him insert the modified mouthpiece in me and watch the cloud of semen, dive-gel and bubbles gush out as he pushes the purge button and fills my birth canal with air.

A dive-sex pregnancy: I was CD19 yesterday and spent several hours volunteering at the clinic. One of the 18 y/o St Lucy’s girls came in for a termination after testing positive before starting her afternoon SCUBA diving class. She is on the continuous regimen pill Lybrel (from Wyeth) where a combined estrogen/progestin pill is taken every day with no pill free days. It is a new dosing regimen (approved by the FDA in May of 2007) of very low dose. Each round yellow 6mm pill contains: 90 micrograms of the progestin levonorgestrel and 20 micrograms of the estrogen ethinyl estradiol. The pills are taken continuously 365 days/yr. Lybrel comes in 28 day packs (13 per year). She had irregular bleeding off and on for the first 90 days which happens for about 40% of women starting Lybrel after which she hadn’t bled at all for the last 9 months.

She had taken antibiotics for a sinus infection and recognizing that her hormonal protection could be compromised she intended using a strapless FemCap as back-up. However the cap hurt her new partner, an escort candidate, and so she switched to an old Ortho 60mm All-Flex latex diaphragm that she had been fitted with several years earlier when she first came to St Lucy’s. Since she was still growing then and had become much more sexually experienced since she last had the diaphragm fit checked it was much too small to provide effective protection. She had dive sex with her new guy 7 times using the diaphragm in the week she was on the antibiotic and for an additional week after finishing the medicine while her hormonal protection was being reestablished. She was very newly preggers, having passed all earlier daily hCG tests required before diving each day. She opted for a menstrual extraction and was on her way an hour later having also been fitted with a new 70mm silicone All-Flex for protection during dive-sex. Because she was so early in her pregnancy there was no need to dilate her cervix to insert the small cannula for her ME. She was feeling achy after the procedure so rested the remainder of the day but she’s fine now.

Sunday, August 16, 2009

The dangers of being bubble fucked


A SeaCure Custom regulator Mouthpiece

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Women as sex objects: Vegas is undoubtedly the worst, most effective, city in the U.S. as far as portraying women as objects of desire. Here the mindset hasn’t progressed from the 1950s when the modern gaming capitol began to be developed with mob money. Today of course we have all the latest technology to aid in the sexual objectification of women. It is only the strongest most devious, shrewd and determined women who make it to the top as far as money, privilege and status are concerned here in Vegas. It’s my kind of town! On the other hand, rough sex-play can be taken too far like when a woman is unexpectedly bubble fucked.

An increasing hazard: Being ‘bubble fucked’, where pressurized gas is intentionally injected in to a partner’s vagina, is becoming a problem. It had been a little known ‘exotic’ services offering by a few very experienced and confident up-market escorts and is very profitable although uncomfortable and still dangerous even if the woman has been trained in the technique is using special equipment and wearing the proper protection. The service is a particular favorite of misogynists and to be successful at seemingly enjoying it the escort has to be a masochist. Not that being bubble fucked can’t be exceptionally erotic with the right man and if you love extremely edgy sex. An orgasm under those circumstances has to be experienced to be believed! I think it’s the fact that if your protection is compromised during the experience you are dead or perhaps worse, a vegetable for the remainder of life that makes it so appealing to me, rather like a moth to a flame. Perhaps I do have a death wish.

Most sports shields ineffective: Being bubble fucked is a problem even if the woman knows it’s going to happen and protects herself with a sports shield. That’s because the surge of gas will briefly balloon the vagina breaking the seal on a diaphragm and dislodging a FemCap by pulling the walls of the vagina away from the sides of the brim so the cap loses vacuum and slips off the cervix. The only effective protection from serious side effects from being bubble fucked is to wear an Oves cap and there are many women who can’t be properly fitted with an Oves because of irregularities on their cervical walls. Even some women knowledgeable about the dangers of being bubble fucked and dating or hooking up with a clueless guy have been caught unprepared and have had to struggle to distract him by pulling out his reg or flooding his mask to prevent the possibility of being seriously injured. On the surface in the shallow end of a pool as a last resort it’s easier for a woman to avoid a determined man by removing her SCUBA gear and getting out of the pool. A side effect of the recent rash of injuries is that the request for Oves fittings has spiked as women into dive-sex rush to protect themselves with the only device known to be effective.

For typical escorts who offer dive-sex as a service being bubble fucked is an increasing problem and one they are having to learn to deal with. It’s impossible to tell for sure if the men are unaware of the danger to their partners, are just misogynistic or are actually trying to harm them. It’s gotten to the point that the women I know who are offering dive-sex and who can be fitted with Oves are ‘double bagging’, wearing the Oves cap beneath a diaphragm or FemCap. That’s because there have been at least two instances where the man intentionally pulled out his escorts sports shield before releasing compressed gas into her birth canal. In a few instances getting bubble fucked has spread to social dating between friends where there was no commercial transaction involved. Almost all women divers even though protected try to avoid being bubble fucked if at all possible because it’s basically rape with a foreign object, unless of course, you are into that sort of thing. This is yet another instance of the objectification of women. To add insult to possible injury in an unplanned encounter the woman’s own single hose regulator is pulled from her mouth and used to administer the gas and the wings of her mouthpiece can tear the soft flesh of the entrance to her vagina when the guy tries to shove it in before pressing the purge button.

Professional training: I occasionally train a few adventuresome very, very up-market professionals in the technique. I and they use an octopus on our SCUBA sets so we can have a second regulator (Taryn calls it a ‘pussy reg’) on a longer hose that can be brought from behind and between the legs. A pussy reg is fitted with a mouthpiece that has been custom molded to act something like the bill of a vaginal speculum and fit snugly into the vagina. Our clinic offers this fitting service to ensure the wings of the mouthpiece are fitted to the wearer’s anatomy so it will lock behind the wearers pubic bone and will hold the anterior rim of her diaphragm firmly against the anterior vaginal wall so that under pressure of the jetting gas it will not (should not) displace. An aftermarket moldable SeaCure mouthpiece [see the image accompanying this entry] is ideal for that. The SeaCure is moldable by placing it in very hot water to soften it and then molding to fit the woman’s pelvic anatomy though insertion can still be unpleasant regardless of how much dive-gel is used if the man isn’t experienced. Having the mouthpiece molded by an experienced fitter at the clinic also ensures there are no sharp edges or points on the wings that could tear or puncture the dome of the diaphragm and make her protection ineffective. Going into the pool with a modified reg on an octopus you have to be careful that it doesn’t drag on the paved surfaces and become roughened as you are depending on the smooth surfaces of the wings to prevent vaginal trauma.

St Lucy’s training: At St Lucy’s I have included the dangers of introducing compressed gas into the female reproductive tract (being bubble fucked) in my Contemporary Sexual Health course and we strongly recommend each of our students to see if they are a good candidate for an Oves fitting and if they are they should be fitted if there is any chance that they will be having dive-sex. Because of the availability of compressed gas for SCUBA bubble fucking has, so far as we know, been limited to instances when couples have been diving.

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