A thank-you gift and menstrual-sex

A BDSM encounter thank-you gift

Hans’s thank-you gift: Returning readers will remember that Anya and I helped Adolph meet the special needs of a visiting German friend a few days ago. For more about that see my entry for July 26, 2010 ‘Pussy whipped by latex vixens’. Yesterday a courier delivered a package from him and when I opened it there was a French antique ruby and diamond bracelet with the eagles head hallmark on the clasp signifying 18 karat or higher gold purity. It is a lovely thing and such a thoughtful gift! It fits me perfectly! The rubies complement my auburn hair which Hans was so complementary about before I covered it with my rubber hood as we began our BDSM encounter. He said he is planning a return visit in the fall and hopes we can get together.

Back to the 50s, menstrual belts and pads: I’m preparing to teach a menstrual-sex class. The first one will be on August 27th when I will be CD1 again. So I’m no longer going to have routine menstrual extractions (MEs) on CD1. Returning readers will remember that I started having MEs at the first of every cycle because they shorten my period to two days which meant that I could wear a tiny Oves cervical cap and have deep dive-sex (below 10 meters) for 26 of the 28 days of my cycle. Now however, since I discovered that the Reflexions flat spring diaphragm doesn’t distort at depths down to 200 feet I can safely wear a Reflexions as a gas guard while I’m menstrual and know I’m well protected during dive-sex at any depth at least down to 200 feet. Not having routine menstrual extractions will allow me to enjoy my flow with partners who like menstrual-sex and use my menstrual discharge as a teaching aid for lecture-demonstrations when I’m teaching menstrual-sex classes.

The contraceptive safety of totally protection free sex during my period (since I don’t have a GyneFix implanted and I’m not on hormones to suppress ovulation) is still pretty high, but it depends on the stability of my cycle. Because I have very regular 28 day cycles I should be safe even on CD6 when my period ends since I regularly become fertile on CD9. Statistically the likelihood for someone in my age group (35-39) getting pregnant from a single act of unprotected intercourse on her most fertile day is 30%, but I think it’s probably higher for me since my Gyn says I have the reproductive hormone levels of a 28 y/o. That probably means that my chance of becoming pregnant from unprotected IC during my most fertile day is 40%. If I’m off a day or two I could be in trouble so I won’t go unprotected beyond CD6. I go unprotected only when menstrual and with screened and carefully selected partners so if something happens I will know who is responsible. I would still terminate and wouldn’t give the man the satisfaction of letting him know his sperm had not only fertilized my egg but that it implanted and his baby was growing in my belly.

I will probably use a Cooper Surgical (Milex) Omniflex for flow control (rather that a Reflexions) when I’m not diving because it has a slightly deeper dome so it can be worn longer between emptyings. But of course for a partner who enjoys the heavy rubbery musk of ripe rubber I will wear the wonderfully pungent ripe latex of a Reflexions. The menstrual belt and clip-on pads will only be worn while teaching menstrual-sex class and for encounters with men with menstrual-sex fetishes who like to see their partners wearing belted-pads before playing with their flow and penetrating them bareback for a swim in the red sea.

Menstrual mementos: A really fun thing about menstrual pads and tampons is that the used ones make great inexpensive and very personal mementos for guys who love menstrual-sex. I keep a few small Ziploc bags in my dancebag and at my bedside so if I feel my partner is pad-worthy enough for me to give him a keepsake of our encounter he has something to carry it in while it’s still soaked. Several partners to whom I awarded bloody pads told me they have opened the bag and masturbated to the scent of my flow while in business class returning to their wives in the east.

The absorbent menstrual protection products I wear during menstrual-sex are disposable so unlike giving away a gas guard or a pointe shoe to a favored partner the used pad is a sunk cost. There are problems with intimate mementos if the recipients aren’t careful with them. A pointe shoe is a common memento from a favored dancer or available from ballet boutiques and can perhaps be successfully explained if his wife or GF does not wear pointes herself. It’s another thing entirely trying to explain successfully a gas guard given as memento. A wife, fiancée or significant other who finds her lover’s erotic talisman and who uses a different size, style or method of contraception rightly feels betrayed. And cervical barriers are expensive gifts unless giving away the old ones with tears or thin spots which have been fully depreciated.

A used menstrual pad is a far less expensive memento, but is another unusual item for a man to have (unless it had belonged to his partner) so it is still nearly impossible to explain to a curious wife who finds my heavily used Kotex pad in her husbands travel kit or brief case. Regardless of how expensive the discovery of my used pad turns out to be for the man the gifts cost was very inexpensive for me.

Pussy whipped by latex vixens

Pussy Whipped

Discipline and humiliation: Anya, Beth and I have been holding a discipline short course at Adolph’s. Abi is still recovering from a severe yeast infection and her stand-in, Ginny, while lovely, is still a student and has no experience other than being TP-Arm-candy. Adolph had a German industrialist friend, whose company makes pharmaceuticals, as his guest for a few days when he came to Vegas for a convention. Since the gorgeous blue-eyed, blond Aryan is rich and single women throw themselves at him even though he is known as an international swordsman. So Adolph wanted to make sure he had a true Las Vegas experience that he wouldn’t forget; meaning pleasure of course, not the ever present danger of injury or STIs which when playing hard in Vegas is always a possibility.

What few know however is that the Aryan has a discipline fetish that is kinked toward whips and restraints. He first experienced that sort of humiliation as a child at a German boarding school for troublesome boys and over the years found that he developed a taste for it. As an adult his needs have changed little except that his discipline and humiliation sessions must be at the hands of gorgeous rubber encased vixens. So Adolph asked for my help to provide his guest a memorable experience including both sexual intercourse (“He needs his brains fucked out.” is the way Adolph phrased it) and discipline. I insisted that the guest (who is in his 40s) have a complete physical exam first as the sort of discipline he was said to enjoy is very strenuous and I didn’t want to try to explain his injury or death to his parents or board of directors.

The girls and I had dinner at Adolph’s with our German trainee the evening before his discipline started and after dinner we showed him the whips, riding crops for close-in work, we would use and how to get into the leather helmet, lash-cape, ball-gag and armored genital cup. He was not pleased to find he would be wearing a cup but for my discipline sessions it’s mandatory. That’s so that if a stroke goes astray we wouldn’t accidentally sterilize or possibly castrate him. Anya and I are very good at placing the whip’s stinger exactly where we intend, but there is always a first time so genital protection is standard in our D&H training courses. A lash-cape is optional if the client doesn’t mind having his back and buttocks shredded, but since the guest was expected to chair meetings of his companies in Europe in the next few days a cape was necessary. Wearing the cape provides similar protection from a whip as being beaten with a section of rubber hose in that the skin is badly bruised but no bones or skin is broken so he can wear an opaque shirt and won’t bleed through, if he is on enough analgesics to be able to stand the pain.

The lesson: The next morning while Anya, Beth, Abi, Ginny and I had a full breakfast Adolph and Hans (our trainee) had toast and grapefruit juice. Then the girls took a ballet class in Adolph’s small studio while Adolph and Hans watched. The men were particular interested in our use of repeated splits and how our Penetrator plugs fit when we were in 180° splits and développés. After our class I asked Hans if he would rather have sex before or after his whipping and he said before. It was a wise choice as he could use the pleasure he just had to deflect his mind from the pain as his back is being severely bruised by the lashes. We had talked about the use of chemical enhancers during supper the previous evening and Hans wanted no part of taking Viagra or Cialis. From a man’s standpoint I think that’s understandable, because using a performance enhancer could be interpreted as not being confident in his masculinity.

Viagra absorption: However, my experience has been that what I do to a man while he is inside me to mitigate the beating I’m going to give him immediately afterward requires him to have taken an enhancer to help him get through the sexual encounter. So I had arranged for Hans to have a 50 mg Viagra tablet crushed to powder and stirred into his glass of ice-cold grapefruit juice and it went down undetected. Grapefruit juice has the effect of increasing the absorption of Viagra by about 23% and delaying the onset of effectiveness from an hour to an hour and a half so with the grapefruit juice he had the equivalent of 75 mg of Viagra. I didn’t want him on a higher dose as that is more likely to cause side effects like temporary blindness or deafness. By the time the men had watched our ballet class and then watched Beth help Anya and me dress in our black latex body condoms, hood, gloves, and latex ballet boots. About two hours had passed so that Hans was primed with the Sildenafil citrate well metabolized in his body.

Hans wanted to see, feel and watch Anya and I insert the fabled gas guards that Adolph had been telling him about so we opened our crotch zippers and I let him hold (in a latex gloved hand) the Reflexions latex diaphragm I use as a deep-dive gas guard and stretch the dome with his fingers so he would know what he was feeling with his glans if he managed to thrust deeply into the dome. After the show-and-tell Anya and I inserted our GGs and I let Hans (still gloved) insert two fingers inside me to feel that the dome was covering my cervix and the anterior rim was in my pubic notch.

Penetration: Then he took me bareback and he was a surprisingly gentle lover. We started out in missionary and after I guided him inside me I let him do most of the work knowing that at the end I would have to get him off almost by myself. He was large enough that he could reach my cervix just kissing its tip with his through the latex membrane of my gas guard as he thrust as deep inside me as he could get. He was wonderfully thick so that even with my vaginal muscles relaxed I was seriously tight and when he gave me a nearly heart-stopping G-spot orgasm my vaginal contractions took him with me into ecstasy.

While he recycled quickly he sucked at my nipples. I hadn’t pumped my breasts because I knew he would have a chance to nurse and I wanted to surprise him with a full milk supply. He was ecstatic saying he loved fresh breast milk and that it was almost impossible to find because there were so few courtesans who could provide it. We had another four encounters with his long confident strokes as he took us both to orgasm after orgasm. Then as he was tiring we exchanged places and I sat astride his hips and ripple-gripped him for his last three orgasms. He was moaning and dripping sweat, but his shaft was still as hard as iron. However, his breathing was becoming labored and after the third ripple-grip orgasm I could feel a different texture and a metallic scent in the fluid that was draining out of me. I looked down to find one of us was bleeding.

I climbed off him and cleaned him up with some baby wipes and Kegeled his semen out of me several times and found he was the one who was bleeding with the blood coming from his urethra. I had had that happen before where my partner was under such a strain from a continuous interval of sexual activity with a series of intense orgasms that capillaries burst and there was blood mixed with his semen. It’s nothing serious that rest and a course of antibiotics won’t cure but for a guy to be peeing blood can be a bit frightening. He was cool with it and I had given him 800 mg of Ibuprofen to buffer his whipping so he didn’t even feel the burning when he peed.

The lashing: His whipping was almost anticlimactic. We got him into his leather hood, genital cup and lash-cape and fitted the ball-gag into his mouth and tightened the harness to prevent him expelling it. The ball-gag was as much for his protection - to prevent him biting off his tongue or through his cheeks while he was being whipped - as it was to muffle his screams. His wrists were zip-tied (over leather gloves) to the barre in Adolph’s ballet studio where he faced the mirrors so he could watch us whipping him. Anya and I took turns wielding the crop while Ginny and Adolph watched. Ginny may have a taste for lashing men as she didn’t seem at all squeamish. I’ll have to ask her about that. Perhaps it’s something she would like to be trained to do. We gave him 100 lashes and he took them extremely well going to his knees only as the 93rd stroke landed on his back. Afterward we cut him loose and Anya, Ginny, Adolph and I helped him out of his equipment and I went into the shower with him to make sure he didn’t collapse. Then we put him to bed. He slept for an entire day waking extremely sore but smiling. He was no longer peeing blood and Adolph had his doctor check him thoroughly and determine that he was fit to travel before letting Adolph take him to McCarran to board his Learjet for the trip home.