Clever Cunts

A Costume Club encounter salle

The photo: An encounter salle in the exclusive Costume Club off Holland Park Road.  The bed faces a full length mirrored wall and barre. It is one of the club’s luxurious tryst locations for a member with a female companion to enjoy himself. The massive BDSM apparatus armoire is against the wall on the right.

The Costume Club: The Costume Club, known to it’s aficionados as Clever Cunts, is located in a large secluded Victorian mansion owned by the Barony off Holland Park Road W8 in London. The membership is by invitation only and all male. Members can bring a female guest to display, play with and possibly share with other members or enjoy themselves with a club Hostess from the large selection available each evening.  

The club specializes in unprotected sex for male members all of whom are required to have recently passed full STI panels (as are their guests) and we cater to a great many fetishes that deal with the female body, especially the reproductive tract and breasts and costumes and devices worn for their protection or to display and enhance them for the male gaze. All our hostesses have frameless, stringless copper GyneFix IUDs implanted so they can provide a client with a full range of menstrual cycle experiences from cunilingus while menstrual, drinking her flow from a menstrual cup or diaphragm and intercourse during menstruation to her fertile window where a client can lick the fertile cervical mucus out of her diaphragm insert the diaphragm in her mouth as a gag and insert himself to ejaculate into her ripe and unprotected cervix where his sperm can swim into her uterus. The copper ions from the slowly dissolving copper beads of her IUD immobilize the client’s sperm before it reached her tubes so the Hostess is usually quite safe from pregnancy.

Given a days notice Member Services can accommodate even the most obscure and taboo fantasies. Our members choosing a Hostess have a wide choice of ages, sizes and ethnic backgrounds and of costumes for her to wear from a vanilla thong bikini to latex, leather, fishnet or micro-mesh catsuits in various colors. Other popular fetish attire with which he can help her dress in for sex are; a drysuit, wetsuit, Nun’s habit or schoolgirl skirt, blouse and knee socks to name a few. There are premium services for an additional charge such as a hostess wearing a leather catsuit for a menstrual sex encounter as cleaning an Italian glove leather catsuit of menstrual blood w/o ruining it is quite expensive. And a member has a choice of which cervical barrier his hostess will wear if he is into thrusting into and splattering his seed against a protective contraceptive barrier.

 Condom fantasies: One of the favorite new member initiation tricks at Clever Cunts is for a fertile hostess to surreptitiously bite through the reservoir tip of a married (almost all of them are) client’s condom while giving him foreplay to get his pre-cum flowing and then mask the sabotage while she helps him insert himself. This allows him to spew through the ruined tip and splatter his semen into his partner’s fertile cervical mucus. Only after withdrawal will she ‘discover’ and show him the ruined tip. 

She reminds him she’s fertile, which he knew all already, and the client almost always becomes frantic as men who can afford membership in this club almost always have young families as well as money which is why he wore a condom to prevent any possibility of unintentional impregnation during ‘relaxation therapy’.  He wants her to take EllaOne, the morning-after pill, and if she conceives he will pay for an abortion as he can’t let his wife find out. Of course the Hostess is safe because she has a frameless, stringless copper bead GyneFix IUD implanted, but the client doesn’t know that and he is kept in a state of  high anxiety for the next few weeks which keeps him coming back for further trysts with the same Hostess until she gets her period. At that point he is so grateful he won’t have to pay for an abortion or worse that she would want to keep the baby that he gives her a nice bonus for his time in her saddle. Often after that sort of emotional rollercoaster initiation the new member has become emotionally bonded to ‘his’ Hostess who he thought he had impregnated and she has gained a regular and grateful client.

 Toe sucking: Toe sucking of a professional ballerina’s feet is an acquired taste. That’s because a ballerina’s feet can be covered with calluses, blisters and the blackened nails of bruised toes. But Hostesses at Clever Cunts are strong enough and young enough that pointe hasn’t ruined the beauty of their feet; or (as in my case) enough money has been spent on the wearer’s feet that they look as young as the flawless twenty-something look of her complexion. It can be a huge thrill for a man who is erotically involved with a woman’s feet to watch his partner put on her pointes and warm up for twenty minutes to get the shoes dampened with her sweat. Only then will he untie the ribbons of his partner’s Freed Classic pointes pull them off slowly one at a time and sniff the bouquet of estrogenic sweat dampened fabric, leather and melted paste.

For experienced toe-men the second shoe is not removed until he has finished with the toes on her first foot. That way the second shoe and foot stay warm and damp until he is ready to savor the scent of the warm shoe and taste the toes on the second foot. We have our hostesses default pointes as Freeds (unless a member specifies a different maker and style in advance) since the English paste moistened with estrogenic sweat provides the most intense redolent bouquet. Having removed the primary symbol of a ballerina’s power her lover feels in control as she is more vulnerable to his advances than if she could shatter his pelvis or jaw with the platform of a pointe should she unexpectedly change her mind, which occasionally happens, but not with Hostesses at Clever Cunts.

The ballet intensive and pregnancy: Some of the students at the ballet intensive that began on Monday June 29^th are using weight loss pills or herbal tea to increase their metabolism to shed pounds, which can create a problem for women on hormonal birth control because it flushes the hormones out of their bodies too quickly making their protection much less effective. All the women tested negative for pregnancy when tested shortly after they arrived. This week two tested positive for Human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG) the pregnancy hormone which means their contraceptive method was compromised before they came to London for the ballet intensive. They both want to remain in class and the administrator agreed as long as they aren’t nauseous and have the stamina to keep up. Newly pregnant as they are they could have a vacuum aspiration or take Mifeprex (Mifepristone and misoprostol). If I was advising them I’d suggest they have a vacuum aspiration and get it over with quickly w/o the three day regimen of bleeding, cramping and expulsion associated with a medical termination. If they last the full time in the course and since the last day is tomorrow so they should I think both will have a vacuum aspiration before returning home. Neither student wanted to lose several days from the course while recovering from the termination while they were competing with the other students for plumb roles in the final program.

Students in traditional pointes: The two students wearing pointes made of traditional materials (Capezio 191 Aerials) for the intensive seem to have made it through successfully, but with much more discomfort that the rest of the students who are wearing Gaynor Minden shoes. Our on-site podiatrist got them through with taping, pads and pain killers. And so they along with the rest of the class are looking forward to the class recital tomorrow.  

 

Seminar side effects, Emma is pregnant

‘Ankle bondage’ foreplay, teasing Morning Wood

The Photo: Teasing Marvin before an early morning encounter after dressing in Jenna’s tights and my Gaynor Minden pointes. He loves watching me bind my feet into my shoes with the ribbons. He calls it ‘ankle bondage’. When I sleep over I dress in Jenna’s convertible foot tights over a thong back leo for class. Jenna danced for the San Francisco Ballet and the women of SFB dress conservatively for class with full bottom leos over tights rather than the Vegas way with thong-back leos under tights for bathroom breaks and quick access for assignations.

As Jenna I’m slowly accustoming him to my way of dressing and since it’s ‘Jenna’ who is making the changes as long as they are slow and he can think of them as sensual he’s quite willing to go along with what she wants or likes. Today I’m CD20 and luteal with a latex Reflexions flat spring diaphragm inserted for contraception and flood insurance since I demonstrated Dive-sex for my Advanced Sexual Techniques class at St Lucy’s earlier in the day.

Pregnancy tests: Since my girls Bea, Willow, Odette and Odile and I all got our periods there was almost no chance that any of us could have become preggers from our multiple encounters with unprotected men during the cervical barrier seminar we participated in at Crag Abbey over the UNLV Spring Break. Never-the-less the protocol is to test each week and we have all repeatedly tested negative for hCG since then.   

However, Emma, the young wife of a Gyn participating in the seminar, who also participated in the round-robin sexual encounters, emailed me that she tested positive. She hasn’t told her husband yet and it may be his as she was fertile like the rest of us, but was unprotected except by the diaphragm or FemCap and spermicide she wore. And, in the evenings she had unprotected sex with her husband so the child is probably his. Not that the Reflexions and FemCap she used during sex with other seminar participants couldn’t have leaked, but both the FemCap and Reflexions fit her very well and developed strong suction in their domes so it is unlikely.

She said DH had wanted a baby and so they had been TTC for some time so the excitement of the seminar and different partners was probably the stimulation they needed. But to me she didn’t sound all that pleased so I wouldn’t be surprised if she miscarried as so often happens during the first trimester. She didn’t seem the maternal sort and seemed to crave the excitement of sex with different men. She actually glowed after her sexual encounters with the other Gyns in the seminar. I understand the thrill she felt as I’m that way myself.

Morning Wood:  On mornings when I have slept over I Kegel out any of Marvin’s remaining spend from the previous evening and empty and wash the Reflexions and reinsert it with DiveGel+ spermicide in the dome. I dress in Jenna’s things as that turns him on and saves me time not having to change clothes again before work.  Sometimes I’ll put on one of her full bottom leos over tights knowing that he loves stripping it off me. Then he takes me on my back with my tights down around my ankles bent in a hairpin with my feet on either side of my head so he can smell my shoes while he’s thrusting deep into my anterior fornix taking me high and hard. He gives me my pleasure first then spews in me and after he withdraws he licks my waxed vulva clean before I insert a sports plug to block any coital discharge I haven’t Kegeled into his mouth while I suck our secretions off his erection then get quickly to the bidet to Kegel out the rest of his semen before it liquefies. I clean up, reinsert the sports plug, put on my face, grab my dance bag and kiss him goodbye and Jenna leaves for work taking the town car the casino sends to pick me up.  It’s a marvelous way to start a day! After class I change clothes carefully setting Jenna’s things aside so I can return them to Marvin for him to wash as he did when she was alive.

Topical testosterone dangers:  Among the escort candidates our medical staff has begun allowing the use of topical Testosterone products like Axiron and AndroGel, but primarily Axiron. This has complicated their training to an extent as their female trainers have to know who is using topical-T and be sure to avoid the areas (shoulders and under arms) on the men where topical-T has been applied.  Actually what we do is get printouts of the men on topical-T  and have the guy shower where we can watch and make sure he washes the area where he applied the testosterone product.  But some guys on Axiron do raise wood quicker and for longer too, than some of the other trainees. They aren’t necessarily better with their technique but they are really hard!

Topical-T is also becoming a problem in mini-clubs at Naughty Pleasures where men can at times go shirtless like the Boot-Bar and Toe-tape.  So now the bouncers route men to a health-care worker while the women have their bags scanned to swab the men’s shoulders and under-arms and test for topical-T at the door. If a male guest has it on his skin he has to wear a shirt and a different colored bracelet. Side effects for women who are exposed to topical-T are: Increased clitoris growth, breast growth, increased acne and facial hair growth among other things. It’s something that we really don’t want nubile teen girls and up-market escorts exposed to.

The chatelaine: Anya is here for a while so she is staying at my place and watches over my girls when I’m sleeping over with Morning Wood. She isn’t really a chaperone other than checking the STI certificates of their sex partners to ensure that they are clean and are members of our current class of escort trainees and that everyone eats properly and gets to school on time. With the girls working as assistant training staff for the male escort candidates they usually come home to sleep unaccompanied as the trainees give them a very good time for the three hours they were being taken high and hard. The release of multiple orgasms is so relaxing that the girls have no trouble going immediately to sleep after evening sessions.

If the girls sessions with their escort trainee partners have been scheduled for the afternoons then after showering and supper Anya has been taking them out clubbing accompanying them to Toe-tape the new pointe shoe mini-club within Naughty Pleasures to broaden their experience with screened ordinary men known to have pointe shoe fetishes. It gives my girls a chance for comparison and to appreciate how lucky they are to be routinely having sex with well hung expert swordsmen after a few encounters with ordinary males… if a man with a raging pointe show fetish can be considered ordinary. Some of the men who frequent Toe-tape are quite proficient with their equipment and all of them shoot live loads and are taken unprotected so it’s not as though there isn’t a hint of danger for the girls since no method of contraception is 100% effective.

In my absence Anya is also chatelaine, and keeper of the keys to the contraceptives and antibiotics cabinet at my place where we also have Viagra, Cialis and doses of EC, Plan B One-Step, ella and the abortion drug Mifeprex if needed. Since my girls all have copper bead GyneFix IUDs implanted there is very little chance that any of them will become preggers, but some of their school friends spending the weekend have tested positive or had a condom slip off or burst and had to use hormones to take care of the problem.

 

First abortions of the school year

Oops! Guess who’s 4 days late starting her next pack of pills!

Birth control at colleges and Prep schools: Most female students still use oral contraceptives (mostly the combined, estrogen/progestin, pill) for birth control and many of them don’t take them correctly and consistently causing that method on average to be about 92% effective. We are about six weeks into the school year and are beginning to see the first of the students with unintended pregnancies come in for terminations.

Being on hormonal contraceptives takes more care than just taking a pill every day at the same time. That’s primary of course, but the pill and even implants, transdermal, and transvaginal methods, hormonal IUDs and injection methods can be compromised by other meds and supplements. There are a lot of reasons that young women don’t take their contraceptive meds as they should or take interacting meds or supplements: Lack of an effective regimen at the same time every day. Unpleasant side effects that tend to cause users to ‘forget’ to take their pills.

And things to avoid that should have been explained to them such as: weight loss pills taken to counteract the ‘freshman fifteen’ can speed the metabolism to the extent that the contraceptive hormones don’t stay long enough in the bloodstream to keep an effective level to suppress ovulation. Or taking the EC drug ella and then not using another effective method for the rest of that cycle, because the steroid in ella binds with the woman’s progestin receptors and prevents progestin from any pills taken for the next several weeks from being used by her body, leaving her open to ovulation and conception after the encounter of concern for which ella was taken had long passed. And then there is reduced effectiveness caused by some antibiotics. Or Vomiting within two hours after taking a pill and the hormones may not have been digested.

Hormonal contraceptive side effects:

Positives:

99% effective when used correctly
Regulates cycles
Decreases menstrual bleeding and discomfort
Can help clear some cases of acne 

Negative side effects for some women:

Estrogen withdrawal headaches
Vaginal dryness
Breast tenderness
Weight gain
Loss of libido
Hair loss
Depression
Small but real Increased risk of blood clots and strokes especially for Newer Progestins like etonogestrel (Nexplanon & NuvaRing) and Drospirenone (Yaz, Beyaz & generics)
Must be taken correctly, consistently and on time
Effectiveness lessened by some meds and supplements..

My Wards after school Jobs: I’m pleased that we got Bea, Cyndi and the Swan twins using GyneFix copper IUDs so they can continue to cycle while being very effectively protected from pregnancy. That way they can be as sexually active as they like with only having STIs to worry about. I’ve been able to get the twins onto the male escort trainee’s partners list so they will get the benefit of training with professionals. The wide range of escort trainee partners who are clean and frequently checked gives them a very large pool of gorgeous and very experienced men to train with just like Bea and Cyndi who are continuing to volunteer as partners to help train the escorts. Their volunteer effort is superb training for the girls as it lets them experience a wide range of male sexual techniques and they are being paid pocket money for something that they love doing.

Our termination clinic: We are seeing mostly college age girls as they are away from home and are not as closely supervised as students in female prep schools in the area, including St Lucy’s.  All so far have been either hormonal conceptive, or both condoms and hormonal contraceptive failures. From what the patients say it is the newness of their surroundings and the frantic pace of trying to be popular and do everything at once that has caused them not to put as much emphasis on contraception as they should have while sampling the physical delights that new male friends can provide. That part of our clinic is very private with individual waiting rooms (with shielded Wi-Fi for their personal electronics)  and separate entrances and exits so no one sees anyone else while arriving or leaving so the patient’s identities are protected.

At St Lucy’s we have already administered flu shots for the 2013-14 Flu season first thing if the student hadn’t already gotten one. I mention this here because many students who get Flu will try to treat it with an antibiotic retained from a bacterial illness or gotten from a friend; only to find much to their dismay that not only did the antibiotic not treat the Flu, but reduced the effectiveness of her birth control resulting in her carrying someone baby. If she is lucky she knows who’s so she can go to him for support if she wants to.

Most students seeking a termination want a vacuum aspiration.  While it is a bit uncomfortable it’s over in a half hour or so, while with Mifeprex, RU486, the process takes several days and still may require a vacuum aspiration. Too, there have been some fatalities with women using Mifeprex so it doesn’t have quite the cachet it had when first introduced several years ago.  

Rubber training suit and comments

Black textured rubber Maillot strapless boned swimsuit with scuba paneling.

A training grope-suit: Pictured above, a Lisa Marie Fernandez mid-leg swimsuit has a zip fastening through front, is boned to waist at front and has a scuba interior. 84% nylon, 16% spandex; interior bonded to: 100% chloroprene.

We have begun fitting new escort trainees in Lisa Marie Fernandez design neoprene lined strapless maillots as a confidence builder since it gives them limited control – they can be easily groped, but not penetrated - and to get them used to the heat and constriction of wearing rubber fetishwear while at work. We start by having a partner give them a clitoral orgasm, caressing her through the fabric of her suit, while she is wearing a gas mask. The gasmask is so she gets some idea of what it will be like underwater with her breathing limited to the air she can draw through the canister. Actually, as far as head comfort is concerned having dive-sex while wearing a FFM is a lot more comfortable than having surface-sex while wearing a gasmask. That’s because the compressed gas is cool and dry so the wearer’s face isn’t dripping sweat with it getting in her eyes even though she is wearing splatter lenses to limit eye irritation.

Surface-sex in a gasmask also is an introduction to breath play by using canister connector fitting attachments such as rebreather bags and blank connector covers that restrict or totally block the wearer’s access to fresh air so the candidate can experience asphyxia techniques to understand what’s in store for her so she is less likely to panic when having her air shut off for the first time during dive-sex training.

The Fernandez designed maillot looks vanilla enough that it can be worn in a family setting while the wearer is constricted by the boning and sweaty from the chloroprene (Neoprene) lining. Some trainees unzip their suits when they think they aren’t being watched to cool off and breathe more easily while the boning isn’t restricting their breathing. If a girl is caught with her suit unzipped during training hours she is dropped two places on the all important student standing list which determines when a trainee gets to choose the male partner she is teamed with for the day.

Death Rubber: It is also the first instance of a trainee wearing a professional quality sports-shield (gas-guard), the flat spring latex Reflections diaphragm although it’s not used. It just gives the trainee an opportunity to wear her FS diaphragm to get used to it and see that (when properly fitted and correctly inserted) it’s so comfortable she forgets she is wearing it. We have found that calling a cervical barrier a sports-shield is seen by students as a more user-friendly term than gas-guard. So far there haven’t been many trainees who have latex allergies and the ones who do usually drop out of the course since so much of a professional escort’s work can involve wearing some amount of rubber fetishwear. I keep a close eye on the trainees who wear the same size cervical barriers I do so that If any should have a fatal accident while training (Rare, but it does happen, especially during advanced training.) I can get first refusal of her sports-shield for my collection of death rubber.

The Ringlets and hCG: Returning readers will remember in my entry for December 16, 2011: ‘The Ringlets, NuvaRing and dive-sex’, A group of UNLV NuvaRing using grad students were going to Cancun on a dive trip on a live-aboard over the holidays and needed sports-shields that could prevent their NuvaRings from being accidentally pulled out during dive-sex. I fitted the girls with Cooper Surgical Milex wide seal Omniflex (coil spring) rims because they are all young with good vaginal muscle tone and all wear 70mm or 75mm diameter diaphragms which are large enough that the ring can safely and comfortably fit in the dome and the wide lip or flange around the inner edge of the rim helps hold the ring inside the dome. However, a sports-shield as a NuvaRing keeper only works effectively when the woman inserts her Omniflex before diving. The girls had a great time! It was so good in fact that two of them forgot to insert their sports-shields on several dives and lost their rings and one lost her spare ring as well. Now she has found that even though she took ella (30 mg of ulipristal acetate) she now is testing positive for hCG which she verified by having a serum pregnancy and she immediately took Mifeprex. Women think they can forget about precautions when they are on hormonal birth control and get away with it, but it just doesn’t work that way.

Comments and replies: As I mentioned in an earlier post Blogger in its infinite wisdom has decided to roll out mandatory features that are poorly tested and debug them by having the bloggers who are affected participate in getting the bugs fixed. Two Level Commenting is the latest example. While the Techies are attempting to fix the problem(s) they created I can post readers comments but not reply to them by comment! Go figure! So I will also post the comment in a blog entry and reply to it there.

Comment: Eric VanSickle on Security, privacy and personal electronics on 1/15/12
Testing a reply system to your blog? I hope this is a passage... Anyway, I see all the time in locker rooms and restrooms in public places: "Use of cell phones are prohibited in this area." I think Adolph, Gepetto, yourself and the St. Lucy's administration are in the right to limit or block cell phone use in intimate areas. You wouldn't want to have your clients in compromising positions, would you? In fact, I think there is a new commercial series for the LVCVB talking about people who tweet or Facebook their experiences over there in Vegas. It goes as far as to show a gal, when she enters gatherings, the parties stop and disperse because she "violated the code." It's obviously a take off of "What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas" mantra. Has anyone scolded you in revealing what goes on in your areas of expertise, albeit anonymously?

My reply: Hi Eric: No, no one has scolded me since I cloak my subject’s well enough that their identities aren’t revealed. Actually, in some instances my posts seem to have increased the interest in Adolph’s clubs such as Splash and The Lorelei. The cost of those places is prohibitive and by invitation only or through membership in other exclusive clubs, but interest has dramatically increased.

Lara Croft and extended cycle BCPs

Advert for Lybrel the continuous regimen oral contraceptive

“Why Do Oral Contraceptives that Cause Monthly Bleeding Still Predominate?

Healthcare providers' attitudes about menstruation and medically induced amenorrhea are key factors.

Extended or continued use of oral contraceptive pills (OCs) remains low despite obvious advantages of menstrual cycle regulation and symptom management. To determine the factors that influence physicians' OC prescribing habits, researchers analyzed survey responses from 211 obstetrician-gynecologists (OB/GYNs) and family medicine physicians (FPs) in Oregon. Physicians were asked whether they prescribed extended-use (hormone-containing pills for >28 days with scheduled withdrawal bleeding) and continuous use (hormone-containing pills indefinitely without a scheduled withdrawal bleed) OCs, and, if yes, how often. A 5-point Likert scale was used to assess attitudes toward menstrual suppression.

In all, 90 respondents (44%) identified their principal specialty as OB/GYN, and 115 (56%) as FP. Most respondents who reported ever prescribing OCs also said that they prescribed extended- or continuous-use OCs sometimes (50%) or often (23%). OB/GYNs were more likely than FPs to suggest these options (92% vs. 60%), as were urban (79%) versus rural (58%) physicians.

OB/GYNs and urban physicians showed greater acceptance of medically induced amenorrhea as well as more-favorable attitudes about health and economic benefits of suppressing ovulation and safety of extended-use OCs. Most respondents (68%) did not realize that menstrual-related symptoms are most common during the placebo week, and 17% of respondents (most of whom were FPs) were unaware that endometrial thickening does not occur with extended-use OCs. After adjusting for physicians' age, practice location, knowledge, specialty, and sex, the only factor that was significantly associated with prescribing extended- or continuous-use OCs was attitude toward medically induced amenorrhea.

Comment: The gaps in knowledge among the respondents are surprising and underscore the need for ongoing education about menstrual suppression. The authors acknowledge that their small sample size (particularly of rural providers) curtails the generalizability of these results. Moreover, nurse practitioners, physician assistants, and certified nurse midwives were not included. Despite these study limitations, the benefits of extended- and continuous-use oral contraceptives remain clear — and the attitudes of healthcare providers are critical in promoting acceptance of these dosing regimens as mainstream options. — Anne A. Moore, WHNP/ANP-BC, FAANP”

Extended cycle pills in real life: The first combined (estrogen/progestin) oral contraceptive pill designed to be taken continuously with no hormone free days is Lybrel. Lybrel has .90 mcg of the progestin levonorgestrel and 20 mcg of the estrogen ethinyl estradiol and is taken continuously 365 days/yr, in 28 day packs (13 per year). For women who can adjust to the continuous dose of hormones – it can take three or four months for a significant percentage of users to stop experiencing irregular bleeding – being period free can be liberating if the woman has been experiencing heavy or painful periods or significant PMS. Another positive for Lybrel is that it uses a very low dose of an older progestin, levonorgestrel, which has a lower incidence of causing blood clots. Most other extended cycle pills have 84 active and 7 placebo pills limiting a woman taking them to four pill-periods a year. Some of those are Seasonale, Jolessa, Quasense, Seasonique and LoSeasonique and they all use the progestin levonorgestrel.

The down side of extended cycle pill is that in addition to taking a long time to adjust to being continuously on hormones levonorgestrel does not have the long half-life of the progestin drospirenone used in Yaz and Yasmin and as a result the hormone levels can more easily drop below the effectiveness level if a woman is late with or vomits her pill. Too, there is no monthly assurance that the user is not pregnant by the arrival of ‘Aunt Flo’. Unless a user is cautious enough to test every few weeks she has no way of knowing if she is pregnant until she begins to develop symptoms such as noticeable breast changes, lethargy and repeated nausea.

A consequence of the Hex or Sex party: Returning readers will remember from my post entitled ‘The Doorman’ on October 31, 2011 and the following post on Nov 2 about the wood chipper that a UNLV friend’s sorority was running a bordello charity over Halloween at one of Adolph’s vacant estates in the hills. The 13 girls who were hostesses in latex body condoms are fine and suffered no ill effects other than sore muscles from their unusual level of exertion. Even the girl who had her cervix battered so brutally is recovering well and probably will only have to wear a supportive pessary for a few months.

However, one of the other sorority sisters, a 26 y/o grad student, who was working as support staff and was costumed as Lara Croft in a silver latex dive-skin had apparently gotten off her pill regimen enough that she was fertile and had breakthrough ovulation during the four days the bordello was operating. We knew she was sampling unprotected male customers, but she was on Lybrel and since there was a waiting list and she was discreetly servicing men who were waiting at the bar for seconds or thirds no one called her on siphoning off potential profits that we didn’t have time to handle. The fourteen of us, Cyndi and I pitched in when it became apparent that the sorority girls were under staffed as far as available commercial pussy was concerned, were getting the guys off as fast as we could while ensuring we were giving them their moneys worth.

Lara Croft and the fertilized egg: So Lara Croft called me on Saturday. I could tell she was nervous and she told me about the struggle she had been having getting regulated on Lybrel with irregular bleeding that would come and go and she couldn’t get a good pill taking regimen so she could develop a habit of taking her pill at the same time each day. I’m wondering why she was calling me about that when she finally got to the point. She began getting nausea attacks three days ago, tested and found she was positive for hCG and she wanted my help getting an abortion. I said she could go to UNLV Student Health and she freaked out. She is terrified of her father finding out she is not only sexually active, but that she wasn’t careful enough and has no idea who the father is. Her father is a prosperous evangelical fundamentalist in a state in the Deep South and she is scared to death of him. She has a bit of money of her own that she gets from her mother so she can pay clinic rates for the termination.

It was pretty early to be having pregnancy symptoms after only fifteen days (she began sampling the clients the day the place opened for business on the 28th) but certainly possible so I had her meet me at the clinic and one of the NPs did a serum pregnancy test and she was indeed very newly preggers. Go figure! So she signed the patient agreement and was given the first three pills (Mifepristone) and Saturday counted as day one in the Mifeprex regimen to terminate her pregnancy. She was so relieved to be getting the problem quickly taken care of. I told Adolph about her pregnancy and he wondered if it was his since he had taken her each of the four days she was helping at the estate. She was to return to the clinic on day three, today, so I met her at the clinic and the NP said she should take two misoprostol tablets which she did. The misoprostol can cause cramping, bleeding and nausea so I took her back to the sorority house where there will be other students to take care of her if she starts to bleed heavily. Mifeprex is about 95% effective in terminating pregnancies so she should be fine. In two weeks she will need to go back to the clinic to make certain that everything is normal and her reproductive tract has recovered.

Beavertails, Holiday ballets and helping friends

Salmon beavertail wetsuit from Labia Labs custom designs

Salmon beavertail jackets for dive-sex students: The Advanced Sexual Techniques class was fitted for their distinctive color beavertail jackets in September. They are the same color and style that the escort trainees wear which makes the SL girls feel more secure. The SL students wear the jackets to give them a sense of control, confident that they are covered while allowing almost immediate access, rather than entering the pool wearing bikinis which some initially feel are too revealing for a student/instructor penetrative encounter. The beavertail gives them a bit more time to prepare mentally while their trainer is opening the twist-latches and zipper. If a student has prepared physically, done stretching exercises, inserted her gas guard – a latex Reflexions FS diaphragm - and lubed up by inserting a 10ml applicator of DiveGel+ containing a powerful spermicide/biocide, she should be fine, but with new students there is always some apprehension during the first few dives when penetration will occur.

When I’m teaching a dive-sex lab I wear a student suit and matching pool pointes so I can circulate among the trainer-partner/student couples w/o being too obvious. Because of my small size if I’m in a salmon beavertail, hood, FFM and pool-pointes I can often pass as a student because the students are too focused on what their trainers are doing with them.

Wednesday 10-26-2011: I’m CD6 and menstrual so I have one of my latex Reflexions flat spring diaphragms inserted for flow control and contraception.. I love it when I’m on my period because I enjoy menstrual sex. I’ve just been really busy choreographing and rehearsing the programs for Halloween, Thanksgiving and Christmas for my dancers and I’ve been trying to help Taryn’s friend at UNLV - there have been some unintended pregnancies among her friends that needed to be taken care of - as well as a stalker. And then Adolph is up to his old tricks again! Sigh!

Ballets for the holidays: I’ve revived Dracula as our Halloween ballet. It’s been a favorite and my company has been fairly stable for the last several years so most of them know it well. The first perf of this run was this past Monday and it’s very popular with the high-rollers! For Thanksgiving we are going to do La Fille Mal de Gardée and I’m setting it in the harvest season in colonial times with an old landowner after the farmer’s daughter for his wife while she is sweet on and being drilled by one of her father’s indentured servants. For Christmas we will do my erotic version of the Nutcracker where the daughters who are helping their grandfather distribute presents get diaphragms as gifts and suck the cream out of their teen male cousin’s éclairs while trying (unsuccessfully) to avoid being boned by the boy’s fathers.

The UNLV pregnancies: were terminated with Mifeprex, but one required a menstrual extraction (vacuum aspiration) when she didn’t pass the entire placenta. The pregnancies seemed to be because the women forgot to take their pills or they began taking diet pills and the increase in their metabolism caused the contraceptive hormones to pass through their systems too fast reducing the effectiveness of their pills. That’s a common problem with low dose pills. None of the women wanted to go through Student Health because records of the procedures covered by insurance are available to their parents.

I think the stalker will probably just ‘disappear’. We are working toward that end. With Adolph he is fond of European girls who are in the country illegally so no one knows or cares who they are or questions when they move on. You would be surprised how many of them there are.

Crush training: An old friend and frequent reader asked for more details about the crush training course I conduct occasionally. The classes are infrequent because there are so few women who are willing to commit the time and effort to learn the technique. Even with highly motivated students there is about a 50% drop-out rate. Women who are only into vanilla sex find it difficult to believe that the pelvic floor muscles can be developed to the extent that they can crush a vaginal penetrating penis, but it’s true. Think of the strength of the muscle contractions of women with vaginismus. We use those muscles and develop the ability to control when the muscles contract and by how much. If a woman can master that, and it takes months of intensive control and strength training to accomplish, she has a very good chance of destroying the erectile tissues of a penile shaft .penetrating her vagina. When I have the time I’ll try to write up something about crush training in a bit more detail.

Sorority Cosplay in body condoms: Taryn’s friend, I'll call the 'Chloe', who is a second year at UNLV, asked me on behalf of her sorority’s president, to help the cosplay group get fitted for body condoms to wear for ‘Hex or Sex’, an adult version of 'trick or treat', at their off campus Halloween party, the proceeds from which will go to feed poor children in the area. So I have been working with Gepetto’s latex shop to get the thirteen neophyte rubber-chicks, including Chloe, who will be putting out fitted and comfortable wearing their latex skins. We decided on slightly opaque cream latex so no one could see their faces. None of them had any idea how hot and sweaty having sex while wearing a latex body condom can be so it’s taking them a while to get used to the experience. They just need to stay well hydrated and let the guys do most of the work. Fortunately none of them is allergic to latex.

Two of them will be on their periods so menstrual sex will be on offer as well as plain vanilla. The girls all had full SDI panels and tested negative. For birth control six – including Chloe - have ParaGard copper IUDs inserted. Three have Implanon (etonogestrel) implants. Two are on Depo-Provera and two are on Yaz, ethinyl estradiol and drospirenone. They will wear FC2s while with a client so they will probably be safe.

Sex as a competitive skill

Relief zipper detail on a 2 mm latex fetishwear wetsuit

The Photo: Posing in a black latex wetsuit in the desert can be a grueling assignment. It was in the mid 80s when this photoshoot was held and the model was being hosed down with chilled water every few minutes to keep her from fainting. In this photo she was steadying herself while feeling nauseous. She said it was bad sushi from the night before, but I doubted that was her problem. When she got back to the casino I suggested she test for hCG as she just had that look about her. I’m pretty good at guessing because I’ve seen so many totally unexpected pregnancies. Some women glow, others of us have that doe-in-the-headlights look, like WTF happened? She tested positive.

She didn’t know how far along she was because she is on LoSeasonique (levonorgestrel/ethinyl estradiol and ethinyl estradiol) tablets that provide an oral contraceptive regimen of 84 orange tablets each containing 0.1 mg of the progestin levonorgestrel and 20 mcg of the estrogen ethinyl estradiol, followed by 7 yellow tablets each containing 10 mcg of ethinyl estradiol. Since the user takes 84 active pills in a row and she was near the end of her active pills she hadn’t had a pill-period in several months. I asked her how good she was about taking her pills and she said she had been taking them on time. I asked about other meds she had been taking and she had been given Azithromycin for a sinus infection about six weeks ago so the antibiotic probably decreased the effectiveness of her pills. I’m guessing that she was probably less than 8 weeks preggers.

She was adamant, insisting on having an immediate abortion. She is a clinical psychology grad-student at UNLV and needs the money she gets from fetish modeling to pay for school. She didn’t want to take Mifeprex because a friend had had a bad time with it and had to have a vacuum extraction afterward to remove the remaining fetal tissue. So she wanted to have a menstrual extraction and be done with it in an hour or so rather than having to deal over an interval of days with Mifeprex which might or might not work. Since she is a friend of Anya’s I got her a slot on the ME schedule at our clinic for the next morning. Anya went with her and the procedure went well with no complications. Her Gyn hardly had to dilate her cervix at all to insert the cannula so she was pleased about that. She was given ten days of an antibiotic and told not to have penetrative sex for two weeks and to use condoms or another effective barrier method for at least two weeks after taking the last dose of antibiotic while her hormonal protection was being reestablished. She tolerated the procedure well both physically and mentally and took 800 mg of Ibuprofen afterward and kept her afternoon appointment with another fetish photographer.

Jack on competitive sex: “I suppose if you see the world as a competition then it's a dog-eat-dog world and the rules of polite society won't apply. Your characters inhabit such a world of intense competition and see sex as warfare. Men find pleasure in inseminating women, not simply in even using them for a sexual thrill (bad enough). Some of these characters even use their partner's sexual needs and orgasm as a means to "destroy" them... quite literally. In this world the best sex is the riskiest sex where one can literally wake up dead from the encounter. This is an extreme fetish world laid over top of a "normal" desire for sexual pleasure where winning seems to be holding a place amongst the economic elite who have the time and means for such "perversion" and where they apparently feel compelled to distinguish themselves from the hoi polloi not only in their material possessions, but in the extreme fetishes. Fetish appears to be the sex of the elite and well heeled... pun intended… and the fantasies of anyone else who can't afford it... but has upwardly mobile aspirations. I tend to think that this extreme risk fetish sex is mostly fantasies of all classes and less the practice of a few elites.”

I agree that “extreme risk fetish sex is mostly fantasies of all classes” Even for some St Lucy’s girls with wealth and looks some of the techniques I familiarize them with during orientation are too risky and they don’t participate in those training sessions. Others love the idea of risky sex, the adrenaline makes the experiences that much more intense, and occasionally one who wants to participate can’t because she can’t stand that much excitement which causes seizures. Those are the ones who can turn bitter and become strong advocates of purely missionary sex for married couples and even then for procreation only. I do think that even responsible men - those who ensure that they and their partner(s) are using an effective method of birth control - subconsciously lust after getting the girl pregnant.

I’ve seen too many men, even the responsible ones, with that glint in their eyes as they pull out of me. This is especially true when I’m in a latex catsuit and they have penetrated me through my relief zipper. I think they feel they have already gotten to me through my protective rubber suit and as they stare at my hard flat latex sheathed belly and their semen draining from between my labia I can see the thought balloon over the guy’s head that says: “God, wouldn’t it be amazing if I’ve gotten past her birth control and put a bun in her oven!” Occasionally a certain man will become so emotionally involved he forgets where he is and will admit to feeling that way. That’s especially the case when I’m negotiating a business deal and he’s getting a piece of me. But then it’s more like: “Wouldn’t the bitch be surprised if I left a bun in her oven!” And that’s just vanilla sex.

“In this world the best sex is the riskiest sex where one can literally wake up dead from the encounter.” I’ll plead guilty to feeling that way! I don’t think there are too many women who feel the way I do about physically risky sex, (I do my best to avoid STIs) except perhaps Anya, and she can be even more extreme than I am at times. But every man who has ever been with her says she is an absolutely astonishing sexual talent!

“…winning seems to be holding a place amongst the economic elite who have the time and means for such "perversion" and where they apparently feel compelled to distinguish themselves from the hoi polloi not only in their material possessions, but in the extreme fetishes.”

Absolutely! Why not? My experience has been that one associates with people with whom there are like lifestyles and interests. It is true that the rich have more time and resources to devote to some sexual roads less traveled either because of the cost or risk or both. “Perversion?” Who is qualified to say what is ‘normal’ in sexual practices - excluding pedophilia of course which is totally aberrant and off limits. The general public has been so traumatized by its parents while children that many can’t touch themselves much less discuss their bodies and sexuality with others. Those of us who glory in our bodies and sexuality seek out others of like mind to play with. Occasionally there will be some breakage and a woman or more rarely a man will be killed, usually by accident because of their lack of attention to detail. On balance the thrills are worth the risks.

Jack on dressing for the hunt: “Dressing IS something we do for sending out a message. It a non verbal language we learn to use... men mostly as readers and women as readers and writers. Women are the seducers and men the seduced. Women typically get to choose who gets them, though when a male is understood to be a prize the tables can be turned and there messages becomes one of NOTICE ME and take me! When people go as unattached to a club, they are usually intending to leave attached - they are hunting for a suitable compatible partner. If you go to a square dance social you will have a hard time finding a fetish partner who is into kink. On the other hand if you go to a fetish club in a gas mask, others will read that message as this is a person who is into breath play... and so forth. We often hear of crazy sociopaths who prey on defenseless females and that a female advertising she is hunting for sex is more likely to attract one of these nutcases. She becomes an "easy mark". This has actually made people quite cautious in picking up someone for "anonymous" sex on the first encounter, though this certainly IS going on and IS a real thrill for many. Could this lead to a sort of defensive strategy where people understand that their love encounter could quickly turn into a struggle for their very survival? I suppose so when people are made increasingly aware of women getting killed in sex encounters with strangers... whether they are pick ups or paid clients. We can't know the real motives of partners we don't.... know. You play with fire, you are going to get burned... and this was understood long before kinky risky fetish encounter sex.”

I agree with a lot of what Jack said in the preceding paragraph. Anonymous sex can be hazardous to your health. Along a recently discovered fave dumping spot on Long Island four sets of human remains were discovered in December in the thick brush north of Ocean Parkway, in Suffolk County. In recent weeks, the remains of four more bodies turned up in Suffolk, along with human remains found in two places in the dunes along the same road in Nassau County. Is that ten people, so far? I guess a stretch of deserted shoreline is quicker and quieter than a wood chipper and quicklime pond. At least four were prostitutes. But I’m talking about up-market consensual, recreational, non-commercial sex… just for the thrill of it - as a hook to attract the interest of an eligible breeding partner. Not that a trust-fund beauty can’t be offed for the fun of it by a psychopath if she isn’t careful.

Some of the better clubs here try to help increase the level of STI protection by giving discounts to customers who can show a clean recently taken STI panel. That puts the players on record with a neutral third party and keeps down the number of posers. Gasmasks are ubiquitous at fetish clubs now to help hide ones identity because of their ready availability and wide selection in a price range where everyone can afford a gasmask of some kind and because they can be easily adapted with gags and rebreather bags for breathplay. Gasmasks can be very dangerous when worn by the unwary. All a man needs is piece of rubber – a dental dam or balloon – placed in the canister fitting to act as a diaphragm to block the opening into the woman’s mask when the canister is screwed down tight. Or, if no canister is available a 40 mm threaded blank to screw into the canister connector of a woman’s gasmask while her hands are tied behind her or zip-tied to ceiling pipes in a basement. Then she is easily suffocated if he isn’t paying very close attention

Xmas dive-sex and the net GropeSuit

A model in a generic GropeSuit clearing her mask

My Cycle and my protection: I’m CD2 today, bleeding heavily and at my secondary libidinal peak during menses. I’m wearing a hyper-vacuumed (pumped down) Reflexions for menstrual flow control and as a gas guard. For more about increasing the vacuum in the dome of a latex diaphragm see my entry for January 6, 2011 ‘Increasing the effectiveness of vaginal latex’. I’m going diving in a few minutes and the flat spring rim will not distort and cause leakage - as other rim styles will – below 30 feet. And with a stronger vacuum in the dome – I can feel the rubber stretched tightly over my cervix – I’m confident I won’t have any accidents while wearing a net GropeSuit in the casino or restaurants since you can’t wear a menstrual pad with a net GropeSuit because the outline of the pad would be obvious.

The net GropeSuit: Escorts offering dive-sex encounters want to appear infinitely desirable while at the same time seemingly unattainable, just like ballerinas on stage. To accomplish this in the intimacy of an encounter pool the girls often wear neck entry net GropeSuits to heighten a client’s desire and anticipation by appearing totally incased in a GropeSuit of tough silicone rubber netting that is almost entirely revealing while encasing her body. The crotch of the Groper is open, but initially hidden by the girl’s thong. Wearing this sort of suit has been known to cause young males to lose control and spontaneously ejaculate while just looking at a girl encased in a net Groper. In our resort/casino since she is technically covered, a wearer is not confined to the pool area. We can wear the suits into the casino with a pareo around our hips and into the up-market restaurant by putting a pashmina over our shoulders and breasts. When I wear a net GropeSuit into our five-star restaurant a hush comes over the diners as they watch me pass by in matching pointes.

Net GropeSuits and BDSM: Net GropeSuits are also worn by female Subs to some Masters in the BDSM community for underwater bondage with restraints fastened to the netting rather than the Subs body to hold the wearer in position against a wall, mounted on penetrative machinery or just below the surface of a pool while wearing scuba with very limited air for breath training. Attaching the restraints to the netting prevents marking the body of a woman who is struggling to breathe.

Custom GropeSuits from Labia Labs: The GropeSuits my dancers and I and the casinos escorts wear are custom made by Labia Labs with smaller neck and crotch openings for a custom fit rather than like the one shown in the photo accompanying this entry. The silicon rubber in an LL custom GropeSuit is very tough and stretchy, much better than the cheaper mass produced ones that Adolph has gotten from on-line rubberwear makers, but I don’t think he wants to put that much money in what will probably be a disposable single use, garment for a snuff video. Another thing I like about wearing a Labia Labs net Groper is that I can breast feed right through the openings in the netting. There is no need to unfasten a cup or partially undress to let a lover breastfeed which is very convenient and leaves me in far more control of the situation should we suddenly find ourselves being observed. Another nice thing about a net suit is that pool chemicals or salt water can be easily rinsed off and afterward it dries very quickly.

Diaphragms as Christmas gifts: Some of my friends from the casino got gas guards for Christmas. Some to replace older latex versions with silicone ones and some got a gas guard for the first time. Most were sort of self-gifts in anticipation of dive-sex with male friends. Except for the moms who had their daughters fitted for their first diaphragms because they were being given SCUBA lessons for Christmas. Most got diaphragms (instead of FemCaps) so they can be used when the wearer is menstrual and diaphragms are usually easier to insert correctly too, especially the All-Flex arcing spring. Returning readers will remember that an All-Flex is only effective as a dive-sex gas guard down to 30 feet, but for most women that is not a limitation since very few of them have access to anything deeper than a 20 ft deep training pool and around here open water is too cold for underwater intercourse even in the summer.

Foam spermicide: Recently, as the number of diaphragm users increases, there has been some interest among users to simplify the application of spermicide in the dome and a few have tried spermicidal foam. Delfen vaginal contraceptive foam and VCF Foam are two widely distributed brands. The foam is not formulated for use with a cervical barrier. Most contraceptive foam has 12.5% of the spermicidal active ingredient Nonoxynol-9 in it. That is a much higher concentration than the typical 2% - 4% N9 in spermicidal gels formulated for and typically used with diaphragms. And with that large an amount of N9 several have gotten painful allergic reactions. Another problem is that by volume it takes a lot more foam to be effective even with 12.5% N9 and that much can’t be contained in the dome of a diaphragm.

What that has resulted in is at least two pregnancies so far from Christmas gifts of diaphragms while using foam in the dome. Both girls were told that using foam was not a good idea and used it anyway. Both were from one of the high schools in town (not from St Lucy’s – our girls know better) and came to the clinic on their own for Mifeprex. So, we are trying to spread the word – through the fitters at our clinic and student health at the schools - to all the women who have been fitted for diaphragms recently to avoid using vaginal contraceptive foam and to switch to a gel or cream spermicide in the domes of their diaphragms.

Vaginal health

Premarin vaginal estrogen cream

Vaginal Health: Thanksgiving weekend I had nine men as guests along with the women they were escorting, they were: Chris, Robin, Jeff, Pirate, Peter, Colin, Clark, Adolph and Jon. The tenth is Jacques, Gigi’s father, and my main squeeze and live-in lover. With the exception of Colin, who Fiona (Cyndi’s Mom) tried to put off limits (except to me) the other men; including Jacques were shared for the weekend so every woman got to bed every man at least twice. Well, that was the plan. Since most of the women, other than me, have GyneFix IUDs implanted pregnancy wasn’t really a concern. I could sense Fiona was afraid I would take Colin away from her, or be so much better in bed that he would begin comparing her to what he got from me. I don’t think so. Jacques is an excellent judge of a woman’s sexual abilities and had bedded Fiona before. He says “she is a very good lay, tight, deep, wet and very exciting with a marvelous scent” were his exact words. Colin is fun and a good lover with a better than average package and technique, but as a Brit he is a bit too reserved for me and I’m not in the mood to collect British SAS officers right now either. So Fiona is quite safe in that regard (aside from my using him temporarily to fill me with sperm) but she was still edgy when he was around me.

I understand her not wanting to share Colin, but it was only for the holiday and it wasn’t like she had taken a vow of chastity herself. We were all draining semen the entire weekend and this morning as well. Even with SET – semen emitting technique – using Kegels and tissues to squeeze most of the semen out - we still drained into our thongs. I left packs of party thongs for the girls in each of their rooms and in the bathrooms in the formal area so they could change as necessary and toss the old ones.

Everyone had a recent full STI panel so there was no concern there, but by taking that many different men bareback - which is how we all wanted them - in such a short interval there is always a chance of unbalancing the vaginal flora and ending up with a yeast infection or bacterial vaginosis. Neither of those are STIs (like Chlamydia, Herpes or gonorrhea are) but still they are uncomfortable and can be frustrating to treat. So I took Jeff up on an offer he had made several months ago to add an experimental biocide to Dive-Gel. He wanted us to trial it and he’s calling it DiveGel+.

DiveGel+: The biocide has been in clinical trial as Gel-33 in Thai brothels. They were hoping for a reduction in the transmission of the HIV virus, but that hasn’t materialized. What the results did show is the cases of YIs and BV dropped to nearly zero. So Jeff added 4% of the experimental biocide to Dive-Gel as the application medium and packaged it in a case of 48 100 ml tubes and is calling it DiveGel+. We all used DG+ as a lube for the long weekend and it will be interesting to see if anyone comes down with a YI or BV.

As part of getting Jeff to provide us the DG+ I agreed to have our clinic enroll the female escort trainees, my circle of friends, my ballet company and the ballet classes and swim teams at St Lucy’s as participants in the clinical trial so he can get some data closer to home. That way he is also covered in providing an experimental drug to a limited number of local women. The clinic had already been talking about wanting to participate in a clinical trial of a biocide so I didn’t have any problem getting them to agree to sign on with Jeff’s DiveGel+ formulation as they were already using and recommending Dive-Gel to their professional patients.

Premarin and well hung men: Shortly after Fiona arrived last Tuesday, while I was telling her about the men we would be sampling over the holiday weekend she confided that her vaginal tissues weren’t as stretchy as they once were. At 44 she’s not that much older than I am and she uses her well preserved body in her work, just not as blatantly as I do, so I thought she would have had any vaginal atrophy already being treated, but she said that the congressmen, senators and lobbyists she works with weren’t super-sized as far as their packages were concerned so she had been putting it off. She only realized she had a problem because her largest dildo that she had been fond of using was becoming painful to insert, not from lack of her natural lube but because her tissues weren’t as stretchy as they were a few years ago.

At 39 I knew exactly what she meant and when I found myself getting that way two years ago I started a regimen of the topical estrogen Premarin, a finger full to coat the external vaginal tissues around the introitus that are subject to tearing with penetration by a very large diameter man or one who corkscrews as he buries his shaft which can sometimes catch a fold of labial tissue if I’m not fully aroused when he enters me. I use the .025 mg/gram strength which is the lowest dose and is enough to make me super stretchy w/o noticeable estrogenic side effects. I had Chuck our male Gyn write her an Rx and give her a tube of .025 mg Premarin and told her she might want to hold off taking Peter, Clark and Jon until Saturday as they were spectacularly hung as far as diameter (the critical dimension) is concerned to give the estrogen cream at least three days to work it’s magic. I’m pleased to say she was able to easily handle Jon the largest and the one with the most corkscrew thrust. She confided afterward that after using the Premarin for three days she felt as though she was twenty-five again.

Cyndi and Peter: Cyndi especially enjoyed taking Peter (as a change from Chris) so the weekend was special for her in that way. I think it’s not only because his package is so large and he uses it so well, but because Peter has impregnated so many women who thought they were quite safe using an effective method of birth control only to find a few days after sleeping with Peter that they tested positive for hCG. He seems to be especially good about fertilizing the eggs of girls on hormones who have either forgotten to take a pill, change a patch or insert a new ring. Taking meds that reduce the levels of hormones in the bloodstream leading to breakthrough ovulation is another way Peter’s pregnancies (as they are called) occur. He has a really high sperm count so every time he plants his seed in a woman’s belly she has to wonder, regardless of how good her contraceptive protection is. Actually Peter is in demand by women for that very reason; his groupies love the unknown waiting breathlessly for the results of their pregnancy tests after having an encounter with him to find out if they need to take Mifeprex.

Barrier training and identity theft

All-Flex diaphragm compressed for insertion

The All-Flex as a training barrier: The 12-14 y/os at St Lucy’s in our Feminine Hygiene class are fitted with an All-Flex as their first training barrier because it is the easiest style to insert correctly. Every girl is fitted regardless of any other method of contraception she is using. For anyone reading this who says that 12 y/os are too young to be using birth control, I say, “Get Real!” It’s true that the age of consent in Nevada is 16, but we teach the use of a diaphragm as a method of flow control during a woman’s period. It just so happens that it can also be used as a contraceptive device and for URTP (upper reproductive tract protection) when she is old enough to have dive-sex. Most of the girls past menarche are on some form of hormonal or IUD method of birth control anyway because their parents have approved it. The usual reason given is ‘to regulate their cycles’ even when everyone is aware the teens are using it for protection while actively participating in horizontal sports.

Elke and Flibanserin – an update: Boehringer Drops Female Desire Drug. Germany's Boehringer Ingelheim said today (10-08-2010) it will discontinue development of its investigational compound Flibanserin for the treatment of Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder because of FDA requests for further support the efficacy and safety profile of the drug. “The decision was not made lightly, considering the advanced stage of development,” said a Boehringer executive. “We remain convinced of the positive benefit-risk ratio of Flibanserin for women suffering with HSDD”. Returning readers will remember that in my entries for June 17 and July 8, 2010 I wrote about Elke, Adolph’s pool assistant and German arm-candy, being on Flibanserin. Perhaps it had some placebo effect for a while but she is off it now as the improvement she seemed to have disappeared.

Fall pregnancies: Last week at the clinic we began to see the usual crop of Fall pregnancies. There was only one St Lucy’s girl. The other seven came from UNLV (3), local public high schools (3) and the last one a new showgirl at a rival casino who came from a casino in Atlantic City. This phenomenon occurs each Fall as young women switch from their Summer vacation or intern jobs to Fall back-to-school routines. All were within the 8 week maximum for taking Mifeprex but five of the six (the seventh miscarried) had menstrual extractions. The sixth, the showgirl, took Mifeprex.

Boned at the Barre: The St Lucy’s girl is a transfer student from Los Angeles who is taking ballet and was using Lybrel the estrogen/progestin pill (90 mcg levonorgestrel and 20 mcg of ethinyl estradiol) that is taken every day for 365 days. That dosing regimen is supposed to stop your periods, but break-through bleeding is common for 30% of users for up to 6 months while user’s bodies get used to the hormone levels. In June of this year the maker, Wyeth/Pfizer, repackaged Lybrel in a new blister package and the St Lucy’s girl had a hard time remembering to take her pill from a blister pack rather than the old ClickCase. She liked the ClickCase and thinks the blister pack is common. The psychology of that probably led to her not taking her pills correctly and eventually her pregnancy. Counting back it appears she had been inseminated when she arrived on campus. She tested negative for hCG during her mandatory pelvic exam the day she arrived and hadn’t had sexual contact with a partner for the next six weeks which means she conceived a day or two after she arrived.

Since she never had a period she didn’t have any warning that she was preggers until her breasts began to swell and the milk glands surrounding her nipples became prominent as they increased in size. Three weeks later during one of her first times being penetrated from the rear while en pointe, in the usual Boned-at-the-Barre position - feet a la seconde penetrated from the rear while bent over holding on to the barre - she had her cervix rammed several times by her partner and began to hemorrhage. She fainted and miscarried right in the studio bleeding all over a new pair of Gaynors she had just bought to have sex with her fave ballet teacher. She was rushed to the clinic and had a menstrual extraction to make sure that all the fetal tissue and placenta were expelled. She was put on a ten day regimen of antibiotics and told not to have any sexual activity that would cause her uterus to cramp for the next week while her endometrium was replaced.

Identity theft: I’ve mentioned in earlier entries that my women escort candidates and St Lucy’s students who are fitted for gas guards have RFID chips put in them so we can tell who is absent from class and ensure that they are wearing their gas guards before they enter the water for dive-sex labs where partners will finish inside each student during her dive. The RFID chips also help identify women when they are wearing DiveRubber or encasement suits where faces and identifying body markings (tats, scars, blemishes, etc) are hidden so from a distance it is almost impossible to know who is wearing the rubber suit. We have had instances where someone tried to have another woman take an exam dressed in the absent students DiveRubber or fetish gear. We are seeing gym-bag, dance-bag and reg-bag thefts in women’s locker rooms apparently to get their gas guards with RFID chips in them so they can pretend to be the student/dancer when dressed in fetishwear or dive gear. Wearing another woman’s diaphragm with her RFID chip it makes it much easier to get into some of the women’s secure areas at St Lucy’s and in the escort training areas at the casino. To combat that we have gone to biometric scanning of thumbprints as a cross-check to get into women’s secure areas.

Inflatable toy accidents and incest

Bulb pump for inserted inflatable dildo

Dildo puncture embolism: I’ve written about the dangers of using inflatable dildos before, but the devices are still available and there are still accidents. This incident was an avoidable tragedy. A 16 y/o was playing with her mom’s sex toys while her parents were away for the weekend. When they returned home they found her in her room wearing her own gray latex encasement masturbation suit from our BDSM boutique – the upmarket model with nipple vacuum cups - and corset that she was so proud of. They had given it to her for her 16th birthday as an age of consent present. She was also wearing her mom’s SGE150 gasmask with a canister attached so if she had called out her cries would have been muffled under the mask. She was still breathing but unresponsive. She had inserted then inflated one of her mom’s old latex Rubber Ram dildos and it burst at the tip. From the look of the ruined dildo her mom had apparently used a petroleum based lube, like Vaseline, on it because at the tip what was left of the rubber was hard and cracked and the pieces had jagged edges. The ME said when the dildo burst the hardened tip shattered and the pieces of hard brittle rubber shredded the tip of her cervix and the compressed air was forced into her uterus where several air bubbles entered her bloodstream. She was still bleeding from her uterus when the EMTs rushed her to the ER where she flat-lined. The doctors think she was unconscious from the bursting of the tip and bleeding out when one of the air bubbles reached her brain and stopped all brain activity. Her parents kept her on a ventilator for several days then shut it off and she stopped breathing a few minutes later.

I tell my escort candidates and the students I teach at St Lucy’s not to use inflatable toys in their vaginas as a puncture can lead to very serious injury or death. But if they must then high quality silicone inflatables are safer that latex ones. And oily lubes should not be used as they deteriorate latex and some silicones rapidly. If a woman must use an inflatable toy she should wear a gas guard to protect herself in case of an ‘uncontrolled puncture’ better known as a blowout. Only one of the toy manufacturers mentions the possibility of an ‘uncontrolled puncture’. That’s like calling a plane crash an ‘uncontrolled descent’.

Penis gags in gasmasks: We had another somewhat similar case a few weeks back where a gay bottom was tied to a bed in his latex encasement suit while wearing a gasmask that had been adapted to include a penis gag operated by a bulb pump that hung like a goiter from the front of the mask along with a three liter rebreather bag attached to the side. It was the bottom’s mask and he was new to encounters with this Dom who wasn’t familiar with how far the gag could be safely inflated. Not only did he over inflate so that it completely blocked the bottom’s throat but the gag burst sending bits of latex and latex dust from inside the gag into the Submissives lungs. Even with the gag deflated the debris from the burst gag had clogged his lungs so completely that he couldn’t inhale and suffocated in his mask before the Dom could unlock the releases on the head harness to get it off.

Pelvic training and incest: We have a 6th form girl at St Lucy’s (she will be 18 early next year.) who transferred in from an elite girl’s school in South Carolina. She said she transferred to St Lucy’s to take my Advanced Sexual Techniques (AST) course and I think that is partially true. She has been paired – by having compatible pelvic anatomy and mutual likes/dislikes- with a 25 y/o UNLV student in the psychology PhD program who is also a full-time escort trainee. He is registered at UNLV and for escort training under a different name, but we found that he is her biological brother. We check for that sort of thing. With both men and women in the entertainment world performing under stage or professional names it is not all that unusual to find siblings working together using different names. But as sexual partners it can get complicated. It’s already obvious to her teachers that she almost certainly relocated schools with the intent of having him as her stallion of choice for AST lab exercises. And we matched them up w/o any overt lobbying on her part.

I don’t plan to have him reassigned to another AST student as they do make an amazingly handsome couple radiating sexual tension and their pelvic anatomies are perfect for each other. However, I did let her know that I knew she and her stallion were brother and sister. She was shocked and then so relieved when she found I was on her side and approved of what she had been able to do, though all she really did was keep quiet when we assigned her brother as her sexual partner. I told her that I expected her to keep her grades up and to be conscientious with her birth control. She agreed and that day I went with her when she had a GyneFix implanted (our clinic keeps a few slots open for immediate GyneFix implantations) so she should be quite safe from pregnancy and be able to let her brother shoot his wad as deep as he can plant it confident that she is virtually impregnable.

Incest and me: I’m not totally in favor of incest. But, I think it can have a meaningful place in some families. God knows, I tried hard enough, when I became of age in NY, to get my father to overcome his grief at my mother’s death by screwing me because he said I was so like her physically. I thought by fucking his brains out I could give him something to look forward too rather than staring into the bottom of an empty single malt bottle most days. I was wrong! Sigh! As beautiful as I was in my teens and early 20s he wouldn’t touch me! So, assuming mutual consent, I’m rather in favor of incest if close family members want to escape from loneliness or take out their frustrations by going at one another during intense sexual encounters. Children from such a relationship is an entirely different thing and totally out of the question because of passing on genetic abnormalities. But then that’s what Mifeprex or a menstrual extraction is for if a girl has a contraceptive failure.

BDSM while menstrual

A Fasteners SA models spider bra, collar & mask set

BDSM while menstrual: At Fasteners, our Bondage Boutique, Gepettos new Spider set is flying off the shelves! It’s the new must-have for bondage-girls! It looks like a conventional Spider bra, but the bindings are adhesive backed and when wet they shrink remarkably. So when the bra is dipped in water, before slipping it on and the ‘legs’ are adjusted over the breasts (while the wearer is bending over) the bindings will adhere to the flesh of the breasts and will tighten as they shrink while drying. A new thing for Local Doms seem to be to have their menstruating partners experiencing breast pain while havening unprotected menstrual sex thinking that when on their periods women aren’t fertile, but that’s not always the case. So we see a lot of submissives coming in for Mifeprex or a menstrual extraction after having missed their periods and testing positive for hCG a month or so after having unprotected menstrual sex.

I love wearing my Spider set! My situation is complicated by the fact that I’m lactating so not only do the drying bindings of the ‘legs’ tighten but my breasts swell as they fill with milk so it is a fun experience, if you are really into pain like I am! The Spider bra fastens in the back with a band-lock. If you think unhooking a bra by reaching behind you is a problem try unlocking a back mounted band-lock! If you don’t have help getting out of it don’t stand anywhere near the toilet when you are trying to fit the key in the lock.

I’m menstrual: I’m CD1 and menstrual today. My cycles are super regular at 28 days so I don’t have any worry about getting preggers from unprotected sex up to CD7. Even so other than when I’m with one of my stallions for unprotected menstrual sex I wear a Reflexions flat spring diaphragm for cervical protection during my period. That’s just in case I have an urge for dive-sex since I can be very spontaneous. Penile-vaginal-intercourse (PVI) during dive-sex is one thing a girl should not do unless she has a gas guard inserted for upper reproductive tract protection. A pregnancy can be easily resolved, but an embolism is a life threatening occurrences from which a woman can not fully recover.

Misoprostol

Cytotec (misoprostol) by Pfizer

The New York Times
Op-Ed Columnist
July 31, 2010
By NICHOLAS D. KRISTOF

Another Pill That Could Cause a Revolution

“Could the decades-long global impasse over abortion worldwide be overcome — by little white pills costing less than $1 each?

That seems possible, for these pills are beginning to revolutionize abortion around the world, especially in poor countries. One result may be tens of thousands of women’s lives saved each year.

Five-sixths of abortions take place in developing countries, where poor sterilization and training often make the procedure dangerous. Up to 70,000 women die a year from complications of abortions, according to the World Health Organization.

But researchers are finding an alternative that is safe, cheap and very difficult for governments to restrict — misoprostol, a medication originally intended to prevent stomach ulcers.

“I feel like people must have felt when they discovered the nuclear bomb,” says Dr. Beverly Winikoff, president of Gynuity Health Projects, a nonprofit research institution on reproductive health. “This technology is world-shaking.”

This pharmaceutical approach is called “medical abortion.” In the United States and Europe it typically consists of two sets of “M” pills. The first is mifepristone, formerly known as RU-486, and then a day or two later the misoprostol.

Using the drugs in combination produces a miscarriage more than 95 percent of the time in early pregnancy. But mifepristone is difficult to obtain in much of the world, because it is used only to induce abortions. In contrast, misoprostol is very widely available and can’t easily be banned because it is also used for ulcers and can save lives of women with postpartum hemorrhages. Whatever one thinks of misoprostol for abortions, it also is a potential lifesaver for women who hemorrhage after childbirth.

Researchers are finding that if women take misoprostol alone, effectiveness drops to 80 to 85 percent. That may sound low, but it’s typically far better and safer than alternatives that women turn to, Dr. Winikoff noted.

“Medical abortion represents a revolution in women’s reproductive health,” said Dana Hovig, the chief executive of Marie Stopes International, an aid group that provides women’s reproductive health services in 43 countries around the world. “It saves women’s lives and has enormous potential to increase access to safe abortion at minimal cost.”

Medical abortion causes a miscarriage that is indistinguishable from a natural one. That’s important for women in countries where they risk arrest if they seek help in a hospital after a botched abortion. The risks to a woman seem no greater than with a natural miscarriage, and there’s no known harm to a woman who turns out not to have been pregnant after all. One serious downside is that misoprostol is suspected of causing birth defects, perhaps 1 percent of the time, but only if it fails and the pregnancy continues to term.

In the United States, only about one abortion in eight is done with pills. Partly that’s because by law, mifepristone must be taken in a clinic. But worldwide, the number of medical abortions is surging, accounting for nearly 70 percent of all abortions in Scotland, according to Marie Stopes International.

It’s not clear how late in pregnancy medical abortion is feasible. “It sounds like a simple question, but it’s not,” Dr. Winikoff said. In some form and strength, medical abortion seems to work “from Day 1 to the end of pregnancy,” she said — but the effectiveness and safety of later-stage abortions still need to be worked out.

In the United States, the pills can be taken up to nine weeks’ gestation. In Britain, inpatient use of the pills is permitted up to 24 weeks.

What do these pills mean for the political battles over abortion? To firm opponents of abortion, the means of ending a pregnancy doesn’t matter. But my hunch is that, for those in the middle, taking pills at home may seem a more natural process than a surgical abortion, and the result may be a tad more acceptance.

In any case, it would be tough to carry out a ban on medical abortion. Indian companies are producing mifepristone and misoprostol in a big way, and blister packs with the combination of drugs can be purchased for less than $5 — and then shipped anywhere.

In addition, misoprostol on its own can be found all over the world, from Internet sites to over-the-counter pharmacies in Delhi. In India, misoprostol costs just pennies per pill.

Misoprostol is likely to become even more widely available, because last year the World Health Organization expanded its uses as an “essential medicine” to include treatment of miscarriages and incomplete abortions.

Brazil and some other countries have tried to tighten access to misoprostol because of its use for abortion. But curbing access to misoprostol would mean that more women would die of hemorrhages.

As word spreads among women worldwide about what a few pills can do, it’s hard to see how politicians can stop this gynecological revolution.”

Personal comment: Using Misoprostol by itself may be an option in countries where abortion is banned, but our clinic recommends against trying to induce a medical abortion using Misoprostol alone. For medical terminations the clinic uses Mifeprex and has had a very high success rate with it. Misoprostol alone used for a termination (rather than Mifeprex which uses both Mifepristone and Misoprostol) results in lower effectiveness of the procedure and more severe side effects such as pain and heavy bleeding. But if Mifeprex is not available then using Misoprostol alone will usually work.

The website Women on Waves: http://www.womenonwaves.org/set-274-en.html posted the following World Health Organization instructions for performing a medical abortion using Misoprostol alone.

“Misoprostol alone can be used to cause an abortion. However, incorrect use of Misoprostol can be harmful for the health of a woman!!

To cause an abortion, a woman must put 4 pills of 200 micrograms (in total 800 mcg) Misoprostol under the tongue. Do not swallow the pills (at least until 30 minutes after putting the tablets under the tongue!!)

After 3 hours she should put another 4 pills of Misoprostol under the tongue.

After 3 hours she should put another 4 pills of Misoprostol under the tongue again for a third time. Do not swallow.

The success rate is 80%- 90%.

After the first dose of Misoprostol a woman should expect bleeding and cramps. Bleeding mostly starts within four hours after using the pills, but sometimes later. Bleeding is often the first sign that the abortion starts. If the abortion continues, bleeding and cramps become more severe. Bleeding is often more and heavier than a normal menstruation, and there can be clots. The longer the pregnancy, the more heavy the cramps and the bleeding will be. If the abortion is complete, the bleeding and the cramps diminish. The moment of abortion can be noticed with a peak of heavier blood loss and more pain and cramps. Depending on the length of the pregnancy, a small pregnancy sac with some tissue around can or cannot be seen. For instance, if the woman is only five to six weeks pregnant, there will be no visible sac. At nine weeks, a woman could probably find a sac in between the blood.

If no bleeding occurs after the third dose, the abortion did not take place and the woman has to try it again after a couple of days or travel abroad to a country where it is legal or try again to find a doctor.

If a woman would want to relieve the pain, she can use painkillers such as Paracetamol.

(Von Hertzen H, ea WHO Research Group; Efficacy of two intervals and two routes of administration of misoprostol for termination of early pregnancy: a randomized controlled equivalence trial, Lancet. 2007 Jun 9;369(9577):1938-46. )”