White latex catsuits and the ability to cloud men’s minds

Looking lovely in white latex catsuit and corset set

The photo: Model trying to stay warm during a lull in a desert latex photo shoot.

White latex and the ability to mind-fuck men: Though white latex is easy to look gloriously attractive in it is hard to keep pristine while wearing it since it shows stains, smudges and fingerprints so easily, things that are often masked by the default catsuit color, black. The six hundred plus men who have completed my casinos latex survey over the past several years say the same woman in a white rubber catsuit looks younger, prettier and more alluring than when clad in an identical design in black rubber.

The color white also seems to denote the woman as sexually inexperienced, perhaps even virginal and a highly desirable sexual partner since sexual inexperience suggests being free of STIs and a worthy subject for sexual intimacy. I know rationally that’s hard to believe, but a pretty woman clad in white rubber is far more likely to have men buy her meals and drinks, lend her a car or money and pay exorbitant prices for routine sexual encounters than if she was working the room clad in black rubber.  In our survey women in red latex are seen as a danger, or the woman being very sexually experienced, by a lot of men. Some are cautious and stay away while others are intrigued by the suggestion of a dangerous woman and are strongly attracted many possibly to their sorrow.

I’ve found when working as duty casino manager in a white latex catsuit and ballet boots I can often distract men who are fighting by just approaching them while popping my riding crop against the shaft of my leather ballet boot. They both stare at my rubber sheathed breasts or the zipper pull of my relief zipper stretched over the head of my Penetrator plug and forget what they are fighting about. If I wear black latex I have to use my riding crop far more often to break up the fight. I have a dresser who helps me into my rubber costumes and then polishes out the fingerprints and cosmetic smears with a silicone rubber polish before I go on duty and after each break. Wearing a corset you can’t bend over so any catsuit corset sex is missionary position against a wall and it’s a good idea to empty the bowels and bladder before getting into latex as even without the corset it’s difficult to go to the bathroom in a rubber catsuit.

Dressing to be groped: I think one of the glories of wearing a properly fitting latex catsuit is looking so alluring that men can’t prevent themselves from touching you and then walking into a bar to intentionally be groped. Most straight men and some Dykes squeeze the buttocks, breasts and groin, but for some their impulses are so far out of control that they will attempt to pull the plug out of a woman wearing one. More about that in, The male Gaze.

A technical problem with being groped while wearing latex is that skin oils from fingers, oils from bar foods and rough hands that snag soft latex as well as sunlight can all shorten the life of a latex garment and white latex will be yellowed by sunlight. To combat the problems of oils and sunlight weakening and discoloring latex Jeff at Labia Labs is trying different additives to sheet latex formulations in addition to chlorinating it.  However no additives tried so far have made the latex last longer w/o changing it’s feel and flexibility for the worse. The only thing that will extend the life of latex garments is using a good silicone lubricant as a latex polish. It coats the surface and repels the oils from groping fingers coated with the oils from bar foods which will prevent the latex softening from most oils, for a while. The labs have found nothing to prevent white rubber yellowing from sunlight. So the $350 white .4mm latex catsuits I wear while duty casino manager are paid for by the casino and  depending on the amount of groping I get, which I control depending on how needy I am to have my ego stroked, may last a week or even two if I’m not particularly assertive during that time in my cycle.

The Male Gaze: When I’m in a latex catsuit and especially a white one, I love to watch men’s eyes as they talk to me. Almost all straight ones stare at my breasts and crotch, which I’ll admit look lovely sheathed in shiny rubber. The seams of the rubber around and across my breasts seem to mesmerize them as do the relief zipper details (seams, teeth and pull) stretched over my plug head and mons pubis. I never knew so many men were fascinated by how a rubber catsuit was put together… or could they be staring for another reason?

I love having men in Naughty Pleasures bars who only know me by reputation try to pick me up. Their eyes seem pulled to my breasts and groin which at such close quarters standing in a bar crowd has them looking down at me while becoming obviously aroused and losing their train of thought as their little brain begins to wonder if I’m really as tight as they have heard and how can they find out for themselves. Given the business I’m in I’m pleased to attract that sort of attention as it gives me a splendid opportunity to develop much closer relationships with some of the men associated with some of the niche markets in the entertainment business to which we cater.

The psychological down side of wearing a white latex catsuit is that the wearer can develop a feeling of invulnerability because while looking her most alluring she is encased in impermeable rubber looking seductive while seemingly unattainable, a fantasy that can be suddenly and shockingly destroyed by a tug on her relief zipper and the quick insertion of two fingers if she isn’t wearing a plug. Even when plugged, being aggressively groped can bring a girl with a latex Wonder Woman complex back to gasping, moaning, struggling reality. A rubber-girl backed against a wall, can have her plug pulled out, shoved in her mouth and find herself suddenly taken bareback; plunged into repeatedly by an ardent lover treating her as though she was the last woman he would ever get. After he shoots his load into her, pulls out, zips up and walks off she discovers he was only looking for a tight, warm, deep vessel to ejaculate in. It’s an experience a ingénue will never forget.

I have a business client who likes rough sex with rubber-girls in ballet boots so I always have a fantasy afternoon with him when he’s in town to bid for my porn videos copied off HD security cams in the pool bungalows and concierge floor suites. Giving a man a piece from a lovely rubber-girl in Vegas is a common business courtesy, but when the piece on offer is from a casino owner like I am the bidder knows he is on the short list and white rubber catsuits are really in demand when servicing the men who control the porn film industry.

Latex catsuits and pelvic grooming: A woman shouldn’t try wearing lingerie or a swimsuit under a catsuit as you can see the bra and panty lines which disrupt the smooth rubber surface that enhance the curves of the female body. She also shouldn’t try wearing an untrimmed bush under a properly fitting latex catsuit as even a closely trimmed pelvic pelt can sometimes get caught in the zipper teeth and that usually happens at a most inopportune time. What I recommend and my Wards and female escort trainees and I do is have totally waxed pubes so we are hairless and look like ten year olds down there, well, sort of. Suits with zipper tongues are highly recommended as getting the delicate tissue of a labia edge caught in the zipper when you are in a hurry can absolutely ruin at least a few hours of even the most promising day with a hunky man.  

Blemish concealment: Catsuits are ideal for concealing bruises, rope burns and cuff abrasions as well as tats and some piercings though piercings under tight latex can be painfully pulled. So a woman who looks untouched in white latex could be a mess underneath a .4mm latex membrane!

Corsets: Matching corsets can be bought with latex catsuits and corsets while they can help more sharply define ones waistline can contribute to serious accidents or death when rubberiest are asphyxia enthusiasts as well. A problem occurs when the corset is laced too tight causing the rubber clad woman to take shallow breaths since she is unable to fully inflate her lungs. If she is wearing a gasmask as well which also hinders her breathing she quickly starts to hyperventilate and the CO2 she can’t get rid of or re-breathes from the gasmask causes her to go into repertory distress and if there is no one around to pull off her gasmask and unfasten her corset she can easily unintentionally asphyxiate.

Corsets are also used by pregnant escorts to get another few weeks of work by keeping her figures with a corset, assuming her nausea is under control. This is used primarily by girls planning to carry to term otherwise the pregnancy would have been terminated in the first few weeks.

Cervical barriers and BDSM

Reflexions flat spring latex diaphragm preferred by dive-sex professionals

Premature ejaculation in the fetish world: I’m working with my psychiatrist who is treating several of his patients for premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation (PE) in the vanilla world is annoying and embarrassing to men and frustrating to their women partners during recreational sex, but it doesn’t affect their fertility. If he is erect and can get it in before getting off he’s a success at procreational sex. In the fetish world where Viagra, Cialis and Lavitra are consumed like breath mints by males of all ages the inability to control the ejaculation reflex and retain an erection for extended intervals, even with a cock ring, can be a psychologically crippling condition and will affect a man’s standing with women while competing for the most desirable females.

Rather than medicate them with anti-depressants which make it more time consuming for some men to reach orgasm my psychiatrist is trying to have these patients become so used to visual erotic stimuli - in the form of a rubber-girl masturbating - that they can begin to regain control of their ejaculations. I wear a black latex catsuit with a hood that hides my features so I can’t be identified, ballet boots and special black latex exam gloves. I speak very little during a 25 minute session with each patient though I do gasp, mew, moan, whimper and occasionally scream while using my fingers or a dildo to give myself orgasms. The object for the patient is to be able to go the full 25 minutes w/o ejaculating while he watches me masturbate to multiple orgasms.

I wear an Oves cap (my secret) and then ‘double bag’ for safety (in case I’m overpowered during the session and the patient pulls my diaphragm out – see ‘BDSM and cervical barriers’ below) while letting the patient watch me insert a Reflexions (latex) diaphragm in case the patient loses control and mounts, penetrates and ejaculates inside me. In which case we begin again and a second occurrence of that behavior and the Doctor bills the patient $500 for each time I’m mounted. Having a guy drop $1,000 in less than 25 minutes usually focuses a patients mind. All sessions are videoed so there are no billing disputes. For my own safety I insist that all the patients I perform ‘erotic therapy’ with have been recently tested for STIs and are clean before I begin treatment since, as I mentioned, it is not unknown for men to lose control and mount their erotic therapist though it’s far more common to get splattered with semen, especially during the early sessions of a patients treatment.

One reason I wear black latex is that fresh milky white semen splatters show up well on a black background for the video. I wear a splatter mask, a pair of oversized contact lenses, to minimize the chances of getting semen in my eyes (it burns) since some patients have amazing force behind the first three or four ejaculations of semen. I’ve treated four patients so far and three have shown substantial increases in ejaculatory control by being able to go the entire 25 minute session w/o spilling seed after only 5 treatments each.

Many of these patients have wives and young children and had begun experimenting with fetishes to try and correct their inability to perform sexually at the level their wives require, so in addition to our therapy sessions I try to help the patients with tips about what to do to improve their standing at home. At the end of a successful session I allow the patient to mount and get off inside me (a non billable orgasm for the patient) or if he insists I’ll blow him. But then I give him a deep kiss and spit his semen back into his mouth and force him to swallow it. After that I’m not asked for any more blow jobs by that patient. I prefer to be mounted since I enjoy being able to have that much control over a partner and love having a man’s semen draining into my thong. I also like being able to release the patient’s tension after a difficult 25 minutes and taking him for my own pleasure gives me a feeling of accomplishment as well as feeling sated and confident after mutually orgasmic sex.

Cervical barriers and BDSM: A group of young Rubber Sluts (a rank in the local BDSM community that has nothing to do with a woman’s moral character) have asked me to give several seminars on the advantages and disadvantages of using a cervical barrier in the BDSM community. Almost everyone involved in dive-sex out here knows by now that wearing a gas guard during dive-sex is important for a woman’s safety but the choice of which barrier to use and the benefits and drawbacks of diaphragm vs. cap is not always clear. They felt the need for the class became obvious after there were several incidents involving local women in BDSM clubs that put women’s lives at risk. I offered to hold the classes for their entire club membership, but they wanted a private meeting rather than having their Masters or Doms present so they could ask as many personal questions as possible w/o feeling controlled by males.

Reflexions diaphragm: FemCaps and Reflexions flat spring diaphragms are the barriers of choice with the Reflexions far more often used because it is capable of providing a better fit, is less likely to be uncomfortable for a male partner regardless of his size, is nearly impossible for a male partner to under-thrust the rim, can being worn for protection at any time in a woman’s cycle and – unlike most silicone barriers - can be used safely with silicone intimate lubes (like DiveGel) during dive-sex. And the latex dome is stretchier and transmits heat better than silicone so it is almost like skin-on-skin contact. The only possible down-side to wearing the Reflexions is if the woman has a latex allergy. Latex cervical barriers are more easily damaged by oily meds and lubes than are silicone ones, but with proper care a latex diaphragm should last a year or perhaps two even in frequent use. Other diaphragms made of silicone like the Ortho All-Flex and Milex Arcing spring and Omniflex are more easily under-thrust and can be destroyed not only by oily meds and lubes, but also by silicone lubes used with them and silicone lubes are an important part of dive-sex safety.

FemCap: The FemCap is far less effective than a diaphragm as a contraceptive device primarily because of the small number of sizes available (three) which means that fewer women using it can get a really good fit. And the removal strap can often hurt a partner especially in positions where deep thrusting occurs. However, in the BDSM community the FemCap is very dangerous because it can be so easily misused; pulled out of the woman’s vagina before penetration and either used as a butt plug where the diameter of the cap with the man in her vagina gives her the discomfort of double penetration and the possibility of having to go to an ER to have it removed if her Dom/Master hadn’t tied a cord to the removal strap so he could retrieve it.

However, far worse from a safety standpoint, is to have the FemCap stuffed in her mouth as a gag. And I don’t mean from the bitter chemical taste of spermicide. Using FemCap as a gag is extremely dangerous and has resulted in brain damage from asphyxia when the cap was shoved too far down the woman’s throat and blocked her airway and the Dom/Master hadn’t pulled it out in time with a cord tied to the removal strap. If the removal strap is cut off there is nowhere to attach the cord and a strapless FemCap shoved down a woman’s throat will almost certainly lead to her suffocation. I recommend that FemCap not be worn by women in a BDSM relationship because of the possibility of and danger associated with its misuse. A latex Reflexions diaphragm is far safer and more effective device for dive-sex and is less likely to be misused by the wearer’s partner. To the extent that the Dom/Masters are predisposed to latex over silicone I try to steer the Rubber-Sluts toward using the Reflexions diaphragm for protection during dive sex and for other more vanilla uses in their lives.

Abi, discipline training and asphyxia

Discipline training in vintage SCUBA

Adolph hires a new Pool-Assistant: Ellen, the Brit-chick who was Adolph’s previous PA never returned. [For more about her sudden departure see my entry for May 7, 2010] The new PA is who I thought he would choose. It’s Abigail (Abi) the gorgeous 24 y/o German with auburn hair. She is an expert swimmer/diver who he hired to teach an underwater bondage course at Splash. Her method of teaching divers results in an amazingly high accident rate, which is something that Adolph appreciates as he is continuously pushing the envelope as far as dive safety is concerned so she will fit right in. [For more about Abi see my entry for March 18, 2010.] In her way Abi is as much of a risk taker as Elke, who almost lost a student during a dive outing at Adolph’s place at Lake Tahoe, but she has an iron will and can stand up to Adolph where few other women can or will. Like me she is a bit Bi and we both like wearing latex and enjoy rough sex and she is talented en pointe so we get along well. We seem to be able to anticipate each other’s needs and are wonderful in bed together.

The 30 meter screen: Adolph has had heavy nylon netting hung across the well at a depth of 30 meters (about 100 feet) to prevent divers in trouble from sinking all the way to the bottom where it would be much more difficult to help them or retrieve them. It doesn’t catch the small discarded bits like birth control devices, (rings, IUDs, diaphragms or caps that are frequently pulled out of students undergoing discipline training, but SCUBA sets and divers can be easily raised off the net and 100 feet is easily within reach with Nitrox.

Swim cap asphyxia: Abi had her first experience with crisis management at Adolph’s the other day when a student she was disciplining with breath control was w/o air too long when she had her swim cap pulled over her face while she was fastened to the wall 40 feet below the surface. She was French and had been sent by Tanaquil for discipline training because while she was beautiful and in demand and had potential as a young courtesan she had an unpredictable streak which Tanaquil wanted broken. As far as we know she has no immediate family and no one outside the business knew she was coming to Adolph for disciplining so Tanaquil thinks no one should be looking for her. However Tanaquil is furious because she’s lost someone she was grooming to enter the highest levels of European society

The exercise: It is a relatively straight forward discipline exercise that is practiced in shallow water before the student is taken to test depth and strapped to the wall. A story line is established so the student can fantasize about being attacked while making a porn film while wearing vintage equipment. There is a great deal more truth to that scenario than we usually tell a student. Basically, the students own swim cap is used as a minimal rebreather bag after removing her mask. With her mouthpiece still inserted her cap is reversed filled with air as you would do to purge a facemask. Then her mouthpiece is removed and the air filled cap is pulled over the students face and the chin strap is fastened behind her head to prevent it accidentally coming off. There isn’t even a good breath of air in the cap once it’s pulled down on her face correctly it just prevents the wearer from drowning. After the first exhalation she is drawing the carbon dioxide back into her lungs and the latex cap collapses against her face as she tries to suck air into her lungs. It’s like closing the canister air intake on a gasmask while allowing the wearer’s exhalations to escape. Almost immediately there is a vacuum in the mask/cap and no air can be drawn into the lungs so asphyxia is only minutes away at the most.

When I’ve had it done to me it is a truly terrifying experience and it’s not as though if you could get the mask or cap off your face you could breathe, you are under water! There is the regulator mouthpiece floating nearby, but unlike with a gasmask when using a cap you are blind as well and with your arms strapped to the wall you may as well not be wearing SCUBA at all and are at the mercy of the person conducting your training. In this instance the girl’s twin-hose mouthpiece was floating just above her head when she suffocated. Had it just been a straight asphyxia scenario Abi would have been in control, but the student had such a lovely body that Adolph wanted to take her during the exercise. He had penetrated her and was well on his way to ejaculating when Abi pulled the cap over her face. However, he wouldn’t let her put the students mouthpiece back in until he came in her and by then it was too late. The video shows her squirming and her back arching as she struggled in the restraints but it was hopeless.

Rubber, lust and euphoria

Manic-euphoria under the influence of NymphGel

Latex and lust: Jeff’s laboratories had been working on a product to treat depression but it appears to be better suited for jump starting a sexually suppressed woman’s libido. He started with pheromones from male perspiration and has increased the strength by an enrichment method that customizes the male molecules. The research project is called ‘Lust’ and limited trials have had considerable success. However some women are more sensitive to it than others and an overdose can cause severe problems in yet another instance of too much of a good thing being dangerous.

NymphGel: His labs have a developmental contract to customize the chemical formulation to increase the strength of the side effects by gene-splicing to more directly affect a woman’s endocrine system. As I mentioned it was initially developed for use in treating severe depression. However, in clinical trials it was found to be ineffective for depression, but was found to have an unanticipated side effect of sending the patients libido into overdrive. If developed (to the point that the results can be controlled) it may be used as a chemical agent in physiological and chemical warfare to control or disable women. Right now a woman treated with Lust not only will have a euphoric sexual encounter with anything she can get in her vagina, but have flashbacks afterward sending her into a sexually manic-euphoric state and the flashbacks can occur as much as a week after as little as a single application of the product. It’s pretty amazing to watch an experienced escort with an A-type personality who thinks she is in total control get mind-fucked by her own body. The flashbacks have proven to be the most worrisome side effect (for a commercial product) and extremely dangerous because suddenly going manic-euphoric when reasoned thinking is called for can be fatal. So far the flashbacks seem to be dose related. Below some threshold they don’t seem to occur, but that threshold differs from woman to woman.

For test purposes the formulation is being added to the silicone lubricant Jeff sells as DiveGel. This formulation is being tested as ‘NymphGel’ and is usually applied in the vagina or anus. There is also a perfume version, absorbed through the skin - sniffing it gets it into a woman’s blood stream almost as fast as vaginal insertion. There is also a pill which is less effective because it has to pass through the digestive system so it takes a higher dose and longer to reach the woman’s bloodstream. The chemical appears to have no affect on men. Jeff is using several of our escorts as volunteers to test the perfume version and two of them became pregnant almost immediately, not because they didn’t take their birth control pills, but because the chemical blocks the absorption of the progestin in hormonal birth control so ovulation is no longer suppressed. Another volunteer died while using the NymphGel version when she had a manic-euphoric flashback during a practice dive. She removed her regulator at the bottom of a 20 ft deep training pool and drowned. She wasn’t wearing a spit-strap on her reg [like the volunteer in the image accompanying this entry] because she and her partner were practicing underwater fellatio and she fought off her male dive-buddy who was unable to get her to the surface until she was so starved for oxygen she was brain dead. NymphGel can obviously mind-fuck a woman, but robbing her of her willpower is a minor part of the problem when she overdoses.

My ME and gossip: Today I’m CD2 and having my secondary libidinal peak as I’m menstrual. I Switched to my Reflexions latex gas guard Thursday night and went for my first of cycle Menstrual Extraction (ME) at the clinic Friday morning. While I had my feet in the stirrups getting my endometrium sucked out I swapped gossip with my Gyn. She was telling me about the recent rash of asphyxia incidents in her neighborhood where two teen girls have died during bondage encounters because the couples were not taking the proper precautions while using gasmasks equipped with rebreather bags. In one instance it was a girl-girl encounter where the girl’s mom was giving her 17 y/o daughter a breath control lesson and things went badly wrong.

Her mom said later that she was trying to help her daughter train in restraints with a rebreather to get a role in a porn video by being active in breath control encounters with her boyfriend. The BF is a sometime adult media actor and has a financial interest in an upcoming underwater breath control video that’s being cast. The daughter was in her skin tight latex wetsuit with her wrists tied and her mom was controlling the valves on her rebreather bag trying to get her daughter to increase the length of time she could go w/o passing out when she suffocated. Her mom went to pieces and is in a psychiatric hospital under a suicide watch while they try to calm her down.

I think a lot of the fatalities are because obtaining gasmasks and rebreather bags is so easy, relatively inexpensive and they aren’t bulky to store, carry or hide as circumstances dictate. And, they have been around for use in defensive military applications or as medical apparatus and have come to be thought of as harmless, or at least not dangerous. I’ve commented before that in my experience rebreather bags are a male fetish and that women who use rebreathers are often doing it at the request (or insistence) of their male partner who gets off when his rubber-chick is encased in rubber and struggling to breathe as he plants his seed in her belly. It’s a male domination fantasy for sure!

But as I mentioned earlier a gasmask and rebreather bag is a quick inexpensive way to take a step up and get into reusable breath control equipment w/o having to worry about getting tangled in a plastic dry-cleaning bag or the expense and maintenance of latex encasement suits and hoods. Unfortunately, it seems little thought is given to having a workable escape plan if something goes wrong while a rebreather-girl is without air.

Rebreather bag encounters

A msa millennium with side mounted canister for Missionary position

Spring and fertility: Today I’m Cycle Day ten (CD10) and fertile. The first day of my fertile interval this cycle was on the 20th the first day of Spring. I think that’s so appropriate because both the Earth and I started our fertile intervals together this year! My sex drive peaks when I’m fertile so I’ve taken special care that my Oves is screwed down tight on my cervix because I‘m looking forward to a very sexually active day. On days like this when I reach my nitrogen loading limit during dive-sex and have to be content to slake my desire with surface-sex I love being encased in rubber and wearing a gas mask. I’m trying a new one a MSA Millennium [see the image above] which has a great field of view and an oral-nasal unit like the Mestel SGE 400 I’ve been using. I think the millennium is similar to the military 2-P gas mask where the canister or rebreather bag can be worn on the side so it doesn’t interfere as much with your close up field of view (for keyboarding) or with intercourse in the missionary position.

Rebreather bag encounters: I’ve written about this before, but we are having a lot of women dying from asphyxia or worse (ending up on ventilators brain dead) from wearing a gasmask fitted with a rubber rebreather bag and some of the deaths are occurring during videos being made for the porn market. The fatalities are continuing even though the word is out now in the rebreather fetish community about improper rebreather use and they are still occurring even though some are now using the larger 6 liter bags. That suggests to me that the incidents aren’t accidents but are intentional. Earlier in the year the deaths were usually of young inexperienced women whose masks were fitted with three liter rebreathers by their male partners. Now there are snuff videos being made in several West Coast locations that show teens preparing themselves for an encounter by emptying their bladders and inserting silicone gas guards as though they were going to have dive-sex. Then being helped into latex catsuits, high quality ballet boots, gloves and hoods. They have masks with rebreathers attached fitted over their smiling faces with the rebreather valve(s) open.

The BDSM rebreather the porn industry often uses has two valves one at the tip that controls the air into the bag and another in the connector where it attaches to the mask to deny access to the air in the bag giving the wearer or her partner, options as to how the rebreather can be used. There is a mike in her mask so the sound of her sucking air in and out of the rebreather from her mask is easily heard along with her gasps, moans and mewing as her partner arouses her. In the videos I’ve seen the rubber encased girl is led to a leather covered exam table similar to what a chiropractor uses and is laid back on the table with her legs on her partner’s shoulders. The crotch zipper of her suit is opened and her lover begins foreplay fingering the shaft of her clitoris and squeezing her erect nipples through the stretchy rubber of her suit. Her lover closes the valve at the tip of her rebreather and then twists one if her nipples or labia to get her to scream and empty her lungs several times to fill the bag with her carbon dioxide. Once the CO2 reaches a toxic level her breathing becomes more rapid, shallow and then erratic as she goes into respiratory distress.

Asphyxia: By then he has penetrated her and is caressing her sweet-spot with the tip of his shaft until she is quivering and moaning with delight and as he strokes her over the edge into a back-bowing orgasm he closes the valve on her mask cutting off the air in her rebreather and she gasps and gags from lack of air while her body is dumping her orgasm hormones, oxytocin, adrenaline and dopamine into her system to sustain her orgasm as he continues to thrust against her G-spot. It’s about then, that if her partner doesn’t open the valves on her rebreather and allow oxygen into her lungs that brain damage begins to occur. But it’s in the middle of her orgasm and at the start of his as he is on the way to finishing inside her and neither of them is in any condition to pay attention to the danger she is in. So as he pumps sperm into the chick’s hard flat belly he may be actually killing her by delaying oxygen to her brain. In the snuff videos, the man still with his erection buried in her belly pulls her mask off and the viewer sees the look of horror on her face and in her eyes as he puts a mirror to her nose to detect any sign of breathing. There is none. Then, just to show the video audience the girl isn’t faking he pulls off one of her rubber gloves and breaks several of her fingers to show there is no change in her facial expression. In the videos her partner as conqueror harvests any of the dead girls clothing or equipment he wants as a memento of their encounter. If he is into rubber the souvenir will usually be her gas guard. If he is into leather it will often be her ballet boots. That’s a pretty standard ritual in this maker’s snuff films and we are finding it’s now being copycatted locally when there are sexual assaults.

Lesbians and dive-asphyxia training

A Femme’s last breath after air is denied

Lesbians and dive-asphyxia training: Rarely will a lesbian student couple want to take a dive-asphyxia course, but I have a student couple in training now. They are in my Advanced Sexual Techniques course at St Lucy’s and are fascinated by techniques that heighten a dive-sex experience. Lesbian training begins by having the woman fitted for a full face mask, gas guard and a strap-on. You don’t hear a lot about sizing a strap-on, but it is a very important part of the process of kitting a student out. Having it correctly sized for her anatomy lessens the likelihood that rough thrusting will rupture her uterus. Training strap-ons are made of rigid silicone with a softer replaceable tip to protect the cervix of the women it is being used on. And a FemCap is the gas guard of choice because it provides more thrust buffering of the strap-on for the Femme’s cervix than a diaphragm.

Pointe training: A requirement of asphyxia students is that they have had a minimum of 4 years of pointe training. Prior pointe training as a requirement is generally thought to be used to decrease the number of student applications by selecting out the women who aren’t in the best physical condition, however that’s not entirely true. The need for pointe is because an asphyxia student is first trained by being penetrated on her toes in a ballet studio while wearing her FFM to build up her stamina. All asphyxia students are fitted with Gaynor Minden pointes because with the internally padded polymer toe boxes and pre-arched polymer shanks Gaynors can be precision fitted to provide maximum support while still requiring the effort of a traditional pointe shoe. In addition, Gaynors are well accepted by both Butch and Femme which is not the case with ballet boots. Ballet boots are not permitted because they don’t cause the wearer to work nearly as hard to stay safely balanced on her platforms as pointe shoes do and we have found the women who wear pointes for their early asphyxia training are far more successful at managing the difficulties associated with breath control than those who wore ballet boots so ballet boots are no longer approved footwear for asphyxia training. Other schools will allow the use of ballet boots, but it just seems to us that a woman who wants to wear ballet boots for our asphyxia course isn’t interested in putting out the effort we think the course requires.

Inverted tank set: Wearing an inverted tank is the preferred tank configuration during asphyxia training because it is easier for a Butch to shut off her Femme’s air while penetrating her doggie style with a strap-on when the valve is where she can easily reach it. And, an inverted tank is more of a challenge for the Femme trainee to reach the valve on her tank to turn her air back on herself if that becomes necessary. Our couples training is symmetrical to ensure that both the Butch and Femme get to be penetrated and use a strap-on so they understand what and how their partner is feeling. After the couple has practiced having their air shut off and turning it back on themselves so they are confident that they can do it on shallow water test dives we have the girls dive in a 20 ft deep training pool wearing gas guards and dive-gel for actual penetrative sex while their air is shut off. Traditionally a female trainer goes into the pool and down on training dives to demonstrate and to provide correction to the couple.

The male option: With lesbian asphyxia training we also offer an option for unprotected penetration by a male trainer. That option is very popular, which I found surprising but my psychiatrist says it is a chance for them to experience an orgasm with a man in a controlled environment w/o risking a heterosexual social encounter among the general population and any responsibilities that might involve. It’s a way to safely experiment with heterosexuality; like having a female trainer masturbate a Het-chick in asphyxia training (an option we also offer) so the student can experience a Bi-encounter. Interestingly, there is a rather high rate of unintended pregnancies of lesbians who chose unprotected penetration by a male trainer. The women are aware of that when they select the option and chose it anyway since it gives them a guilt free encounter with a man. However, there is another reason for its popularity. A Butch often encourages her Femme to choose it because the risk of pregnancy is so high – about 23% even when they are using a gas guard – it reinforces the stereotype of men causing women nothing but trouble, a mindset that Dykes and Butches want to encourage among their Femmes because it is the Femmes who men are constantly chasing and who therefore are at greatest risk of at least turning Bi thus significantly lessening the emotional hold of her ‘Husband’.

Breath play and Menstrual dive-sex

A German vendor’s advert for corrugated hoses

Corrugated rubber hoses: Some committed D/S couples like to use this type hose to smell each other’s scent mixed with the wonderfully pungent rubber odor of the hoses while they sleep. Returning readers will remember that I’ve cautioned about the danger of using long corrugated hoses for rubber fetish breath play because of the very real possibility of CO2 buildup in long hoses that aren’t well ventilated leading to asphyxia. As more Men and their partners become interested in wearing encasement rubber, gasmasks and breathe play the accidents with corrugated hoses are mounting. There are in-line OxyGens that can be used to eliminate the risk of CO2 buildup but they tend to minimize the scents of ones partner and the rubber hoses. The image above shows a woman fitted with both vaginal and anal hoses. A woman’s vaginal scent is particularly rich with her pheromones when she is menstrual. However menstrual flow can sometimes solidify in the hoses – when there is a low spot in the hose run - where her flow can collect and block passage and her partner could experience a lack of oxygen. Even with the real risk of brain injury from lack of oxygen there is so much interest by fetishists in using corrugated rubber hoses in breath play that Fasteners, our casino’s BDSM boutique, can’t keep the most popular lengths in stock.

Deep-dive menstrual sex: Today I’m CD1 and went to the clinic right after taking my company’s pointe class for my usual menstrual extraction. Afterward I took Jacques into the pit – my 68 foot deep pool – for my first ever dive-sex w/o an Oves sucking on my cervix and for deep (below 33 feet) dive-sex as well. Returning readers remember that I have been testing Reflexions flat spring diaphragms to see if they can be used below 33 ft w/o the rim distorting from the pressure that causes them to leak the way coil spring and arcing spring rim diaphragms will. Readers will also recall that the search for a diaphragm as an effective gas guard below 30 feet is because cervical caps can’t be used while menstrual because the flow will fill the small dome and cause the cap to ‘float off’ the cervix allowing entry of semen, pool water and air bubbles. I have tested Reflexions five times at 130 feet with Adolph in his training well while using Oves as backup and it worked as I had hoped with no rim distortion (I checked with my fingers) and it formed an extremely tight seal at that depth and didn’t leak at all. My biggest concern was if the Reflexions alone would act as an effective gas guard during deep penetrative sex when my cervix was being thrust into and the dome was being stretched and it passed on all counts.

I have very regular 28 day cycles so it is extremely unlikely that I would become fertile so that any sperm that might make it to my tubes could fertilize my egg, but a girl can never be 100% certain about that sort of thing. Of course with dive-sex the primary need is to prevent pool water and air from getting into the diver’s cervix and beyond. The nice thing about a flat spring rim is that it doesn’t bend except in a plane that is not affected by male partner’s thrusts so in theory it should be very safe in that regard. And, as it turned out it was! Jacques took me twice while we were on the bottom of the pit with a lot of thrusting into my cervix and when I checked immediately afterward, with my fingers while I was still in afterglow on the bottom the dome was still tightly sealed. On the surface when I checked the contents of the dome there was a bit of residual menstrual flow and nothing else! I was so pleased! Most of the girls in my circle are menstrual too since their cycles are synced to mine so I think they will be pleased to know that they can safely enjoy taking a man below 30 feet while menstrual by using a flat spring diaphragm as a gas guard.

Uterine rupture and Asphyxia sex

Britney Spears showing her C-section scar tat.

Death during asphyxia dive-sex: Last week, at another training facility, a 25 y/o model died during asphyxia training when her uterus ruptured. It ruptured along the C-section incision she had the previous year (she had a small pelvis) to deliver her daughter. It occurred while she and an instructor were at the bottom of a 20 ft practice pool. He shut off her air as she approached orgasm and she had a super-intense climax with no air. The massive orgasm caused a rush of oxytocin so high that it caused cramps intense enough to rupture her uterus along her C-section scar which was the weakest spot in the walls of an otherwise perfect uterus. The ME said she was the third local woman she is aware of who had died from a C-section incision rupture during asphyxia sex in the past several years. The complicating factor in this case was that she was 20 feet below the surface when it occurred. It took time for her trainer to catch her – she had pushed him away from her and curled into a fetal ball on the bottom of the pool - turn on her air, inflate her BC and get her to the surface. And, though it was all on the security video no one alerted the EMTs until she was pulled from the pool. No one considered from size of the cloud of blood in the pool that she was hemorrhaging so badly. Instead of a helicopter they asked for an ambulance. Even so the ME said it made no difference since she probably bled to death shortly after reaching the surface.

Our training staff has been aware of the increased likelihood of uterine rupture during very intense orgasms in women who have had C-sections. Which is why I insist at the very least on an ultrasound of prospective dive-sex students uteri to insure there are no weak spots in the walls before accepting them into training. We will not accept a woman who has had a C-section into surface asphyxia training much less the far more intense dive-sex asphyxia classes.

Asphyxia Training

Asphyxia training. Fear, just before her air is shut off.

Dive-sex and autoerotic asphyxiation: David Carradine’s death, apparently from autoerotic asphyxiation, triggered this post. I don’t usually teach erotic asphyxiation though I do practice it myself occasionally during solo dives. I have taught the few women in my inner circle; Taryn, Anya and Cyndi, though everyone thought Cyndi was too young to be disciplined enough to perform it safely. I intentionally haven’t taught Diané that aspect of dive-sex because she is going through an emotional time right now and could easily use it to commit suicide. God knows, it’s easy enough to slip up when you are orgasmic and euphoric and accidentally kill yourself, which I think sort of ruins the effect, but I may be wrong, no one has ever come back to tell what it’s like leaving that way. Asphyxia training starts after the diver becomes proficient in the other skills necessary for enjoying dive-sex safely. I have a student start while wearing a wetsuit because we are going to be in the water a long time practicing the moves over and over from different perspectives so s/he may as well be comfortable. After the basics of training the girls usually dive in a Tankini which provides upper body protection, especially breasts, from her dive equipment and a thong bottom for easy access to the vulva. I also recommend the girls wear a doo rag or silicone swim cap if they have long hair to keep it from getting tangled in their equipment. A hair snarl and pull during sex is a real mood breaker and something to be avoided.

The student has already learned how to turn on and off the air from his or her own tank while on the surface but the first time someone else turns off your air is something entirely different. In my case every time a lover turns off my air I self-lubricate almost instantly as the thrill of danger sweeps over me and I suck on my reg and get no gas to fill my lungs! Occasionally if my suit is tight enough I can get a very quick clitoral orgasm. That’s especially true if I’m fertile and very estrogenic. As a safety feature we have a cricket clicker taped to one of our hands. That’s a standard commonly used so if either of us gets in trouble we can click it and our partner can turn on our air. We go through this seven or eight times per dive over 2 days of diving with 2 dives a day so the student is very familiar with turning on his or her as well as the instructor’s air regardless of orientation in the water.

The next step is to have the student dive in a swimsuit and masturbate and when approaching orgasm to have his or her air shut off. The women can stimulate their clitoris or use a dildo and Dive-Gel. If the guy is uncut (hasn’t been circumcised) I offer Dive-Gel to use on his tip and foreskin. Once the student experiences asphyxia during masturbation to orgasm we move on to asphyxia at orgasm during intercourse. That’s where if the student panics things can go badly wrong, though I have never lost a student. During dive-sex the protocol is for the man to take the woman to climax first turning her air off and manipulating her G-spot to provide her with an asphyxia orgasm. She then turns her air on after lasting as long as she can without to enjoy the afterglow and turns off his air letting him get off inside her during an extremely intense orgasm. That’s theoretically how it’s supposed to go. However, in the real world, what often happens is that her vaginal contractions are so strong that he will lose control and she has to shut off his air while she is climaxing and they both are orgasmic together. That can be the most exquisite but also the most dangerous because they are both euphoric and neither is in full control of their own situation much less that of their dive buddy. Like I said I’ve never had a serious injury during asphyxia dive-sex but we have come very close several times which to me is itself addictive for the massive adrenaline high!