Blackthorn and its uses, Location Z, Celtic site

An old Blackthorn tree in spring blossom

The Photo: The Blackthorn (Prunus Spinosa) is prized for its lovely grained very hard heartwood for making walking sticks, Irish shillelaghs and as a shrub it creates an impenetrable hedge. Blackthorn has been long associated with witchcraft, and it is said that witches' wands and staffs were made using blackthorn wood. And its berries, Sloe, are used in making Sloe gin. Long ago Blackthorn was so common in the Cambrian Mountains that the castle and Barony were named for it.

The Blackthorn riding crop: I’ve had a riding crop made from Blackthorn heartwood by an aged craftsman who I’ll call ‘Garrick Ollivander’. Harry Potter fans will recognize the name as the owner of the Wand shop in the village outside Hogwarts. Mr. Ollivander lives in one of the Barony’s grace-and-favor cottages in the village close at hand having rendered services in making riding crops, walking sticks, crutches and charms for Edith my predecessor as Baroness.

Having a riding crop made is not quite like having a Wand fitting as the crop doesn’t have a personal relationship with its owner as a wand does. However, the length and thickness of the crop shaft should be proportional to the size of its owner and the grip should fit comfortably in the owner’s hand. Mine I use for play with my submissives during BDSM scenes when I’m training men as well as when I’m riding horses. I also use it to correct students during ballet class and when I’m teaching pointe while wearing ballet-boots I strike the crop against the heel cup of my boot when I’m displeased with the students performing a combination and the soft leather popper makes a wonderfully sharp crack which really gets my students attention.  For more about Prunus Spinosa, see the article: HERE

Location Z disappears:  Actually, it didn’t really disappear. We know exactly where it went. The last reported earthquake in the Scottish Highlands was a magnitude 3 centered near Fort William in July of 2014. So it doesn’t seem that temblor was the trigger for the massive slide that caused the top several hundred feet of the cliff on which Location Z was located to fall in to the valley to the north. Returning readers will recall that the north altar at Location Z was on the edge of the cliff and the standing stones to its north had already fallen into the abyss. Jack, Viscount Sandbach and one of my former lovers, whose father owns the land, had always said the location was safe. Apparently he was mistaken! Fortunately the slide occurred between celebrations so none of us were injured and since it occurred at night and fell into a forested area no one was injured in the valley where the slide landed. I give thanks to the Goddess that no humans were injured or killed!

I should still have time to find a suitable location to celebrate the Winter Solstice which I think will almost certainly be Blackthorn Castle since it would eliminate a good bit of travel and having to stay with friends, the long ride to and from the mountain top and changing into ceremonial garb on site in tents. Not that His Grace, the Duke of M**** hasn’t been a perfect host whenever I’ve stayed with him, but losing Location Z removes a great deal of the reason for going to the Scottish Highlands to celebrate the changing seasons. Although, changing the location of the ceremony will have little effect on the weather experienced, which is almost as cold and wet at Blackthorn castle as at Location Z.  However, getting out of the weather afterward will just be a matter of going back inside the castle. From recent research in the Barony archives by a scholar who works in the Bodleian Library and is an expert on early Welsh texts, prose stories (The Mabinogion, the White Book of Rhydderch, the Red Book of Hergest and others) I’m finding that one of the oldest parts of Blackthorn Castle an east facing tower is said to have been built over a sacred Celtic site which may properly serve the needs of Aphrodite.

It’s amazing the ancient texts setting down the legends surrounding the castles location that my Bodleian researcher has discovered. She found them shelved in an alcove previously blocked by a medieval bookcase in the castle muniment room. The tower is a part of the castle that (so legend has it) hasn’t been entered in more than three hundred years since the 12 y/o son of the 18^th Baroness fell to his death from its roof while hiding from a playmate and is said to haunt it. Well, hasn’t been entered other than gain access to repair the roof during which strange things happened with some of the materials being used. No one has wanted to go into it especially the cellars where the Celtic ruins form part of the foundation fearing both the ghost and spirits from the old ways. It would seem that being built over the sacred Celtic site the tower, which is on the eastern side so has a marvelous view of the sunrise, should be ideal. I’ll have to have the roof checked for size and safety and I look forward to inspecting it myself with Charles.

Circe’s Lair at Blackthorn Castle: Several years ago I started a small gathering spot in my club Naughty Pleasures in Las Vegas called Circe’s Lair, which was a private costume encounter club, giving women an opportunity to act out their fantasies with men by giving them so much sex it drains the men of their energy changing them from tigers to kittens. Rather like Delilah cutting off Sampson’s hair, but a club member’s weapon of choice is her vagina not shears. A talented woman with stamina could turn a man who thought himself a tiger in bed into an exhausted tabby during a single encounter.

This past February I approved plans to upgrade part of one of the newer wings of Blackthorn Castle to make a small getaway destination for aristocratic vanilla women who want to improve their sexual skills and I’m calling it Circe’s Lair. The modifications are complete and it’s quite lovely! The Lair when it’s opened for clients won’t be specifically to train them to exhaust men sexually, but should that happen more power to the women. It is an achievement devoutly to be wished! From what I’ve seen of young aristocratic British women many of them are vanilla and sexually naive so there should be quite a market for a course that teaches my seductive techniques and pelvic skills. It will be a combination of the Contemporary Sexual Health and Advanced Sexual Techniques courses I taught at St. Lucy’s in Las Vegas.

The Lair is lovely, very feminine without being the least twee. It has three suites each consisting of a bedroom, sitting room, large full bathroom and an encounter salle. On the ground floor is a very nice residential size enclosed and heated swimming pool. Not that their was a large amount of traffic at Blackthorn House in Belgravia when I trained women there, but having a student away from the delights of London should help focus her mind on her training. Tanaquil has agreed to send one of her French Dommes over to run the Lair and manage the male trainers and their female students.  

 

 

Rubber ballet-sex

An entertainer encasing herself in a plum latex catsuit

The photo: An Entertainer dressing for success. In Switzerland, Austria and Germany Dommes in latex and ballet-boots wielding riding crops are an extremely popular form of male entertainment, where she entices the man to have sex with her. Now how hard is that? 

Orgasm-worthy performances: Almost all men who are on His Grace’s guest list have exquisite female companions some of whom are their wives, but they almost never accompany their men to the hotel for business meetings. A 45 minute conference with a young woman encased in a latex catsuit, ballet-boots or pointe shoes and wielding a riding crop can purge a great deal of stress from a harried titan of industry if he can survive it.

During the most popular scenario there is a fantasy rape which she initiates (during which she is forcibly penetrated from behind while standing on her toes) and then she finds she enjoys rough sex and takes him again while astride him where she can control the depth and angle of penetration and caused his penis to repeatedly ram the rim of her diaphragm. That can be a very unpleasant experience for him especially if he is uncut or unless he is a masochist and enjoys painful sex. Then after she orgasms the man atones for defiling her by being beaten with the crop as she stands over him, her relief zipper open while she Kegels out his ejaculate which she has him lick off the floor.  Can you say ‘submissive’ boys and girls?

In Switzerland prostitution is defined as sex for money and to be legal a sex-worker must be 18 or over. Here in Davos we are classified as ‘entertainers,’ and perform for the sole pleasure of His Grace’s guests. No money changes hands and we are all 18 or over and only perform within the hotel owned by His Grace. If we go out we dress and behave conservatively so we don’t call attention to ourselves. So we pretty much blend in with the other beautiful women visitors to Davos, while in the hotel we are free to go about performing and dispensing various forms of adult entertainment and punishment in our inimitable style w/o fear of being bothered by the authorities,

Screening guests: We are given a list of guests that we should expect based on our patron’s interests in their specialties or how likely they are to be indiscreet about the details of their work or friends. A small group of computer specialists access the persons (almost always men) on-line med records for indications of STIs and heart problems that might make him a poor candidate for the level of excitement a sexual encounter with one of us will cause. Usually periodic checkups for insurance purposes will in these days address the policy holder’s sexual, physical and often mental health.  Also checked are gossip columns and rumors about what women the guest has been seen in public with (and their sexual health is checked as well) are sufficient to clear most guests for unprotected sex. 

In the dressing room: A guest is not allowed into the entertainers dressing room, however he is allowed to watch what he is told is the feed from a hidden HD security cam in her dressing room, which heightens his arousal because he is watching clandestine video of the girl dressing who has no idea she is being videoed, or so he thinks.

The sounds, the creak and snap of latex as she is getting in to the .25mm chlorinated latex catsuits (about the thickness of a green Thera-Band, for those not familiar with catsuit thicknesses) and then she inserts Reflexions latex diaphragms, a 10 ml prefilled disposable applicator of DiveGel+ and sports plug to train for rubber ballet-sex. With their partners watching the clandestine video the guys all developed woodies quickly. The girls have a choice of ballet-boots or pointe shoes and – if the guest has no known preference - most prefer to train in Gaynor Minden pointes as it takes more strength and stamina to have sex en pointe in pointe shoes than in ballet boots which allow taking the weight on the dancers heels and the tightly laced boot shafts provide a great deal of ankle stability. Not that being taken from behind while standing in ballet-boots isn’t awesomely kinky fun, but it’s a lot easier than balancing en pointe for 20 minutes or so while being filled with semen. However, as I mentioned Aryans seem to prefer sex with a girl in leather ballet boots so we wear Gepettos for most encounters with Aryans.

The sports plug as a pacifier: I’ve written recently about sports plugs, a version of the Penetrator with a lightly textured latex head that grips the fabric of tight lingerie, leotards or swimsuits to keep the thong from slipping to one side minimizes being casually groped and prevents displaying camel toe. But in a D/s relationship there is another amazing use, as a pacifier for a submissive male. If the plug is removed while the wearer is standing, as it usually is when preparing for ballet-sex, en pointe in Ballet boots or pointe shoes, the 1 inch deep secretions cup beneath the anti-expulsion ridge (which can be used as a menstrual cup) collects the woman’s vaginal and cervical secretions: her clear slippery natural lubricant produced during arousal and her thick stretchy fertile cervical mucus.

When carefully removed while standing the contents of the secretions cup can be easily transferred into the submissive's mouth and almost immediately coat his tongue with the musky, salty taste of her vagina and perhaps the taste of a previous lover if she is still draining the last of his liquefied semen. Removing a Domme’s Sports plug then having it shoved into his mouth as a pacifier and gag of sorts is often a huge turn on for the sub. When it is used as a pacifier/gag we usually give it to the sub as a souvenir after the encounter.    

Carnal pleasure, The sounds and scents of rubber ballet-sex: In an encounter salle all you hear at first is the creak of her latex suit stretching and soft thump of padded GM pointe platforms as the escort moves to the barre and warms up with pliés, relevés, tendus, dégagés, échappés and développés then rolls on to pointe and bourrées and jetés in center before bourréeing over and offering herself for his pleasure in being dominated by a beautiful rubber clad woman balanced confidently on the tips of her toes.

Once in his arms she places his hand between her latex sheathed thighs. There is the hiss of her relief zipper as its gently tugged open and the slight chill of the dry salle air against the sweaty flesh of her pelvis. He feels for the removal loop lying against her perineum. The loop being pulled down and forward, the soft sucking sound of her sports plug’s seal being broken, the plug is pulled out and she carefully takes it from his hand and slips it into his mouth for safekeeping while she unzips his pants and gently slips his package out of his slingshot as she prepares to fuck his brains out.

She turns, rises en pointe a la seconde bends over grips the barre with both hands and orders, “Take me!” The wet sound and gasp on initial thrust of well a lubricated tight penetration while en pointe and her gasps, grunts and mewing when taking his thrusts and moans when her cervix is hit. He grunts as he thrusts; “Uhn! Uhn! Uhn! Uhn! Uhn! Uhn!” He mumbles; trying to talk with her plug in his mouth and tasting of her vaginal secretions; then her urgent instructions “Deeper! deeper! Oh, oh, oh yes! Oh yes! Right there! Oh God yes, right there! There! Oh God, oh God, oh God! Yes!”

The outside of her rubber suit is quickly slick with his testosterone laden sweat on the outside and her estrogenic sweat on the inside. The sweaty latex combining their musk with the scent of latex, silicone rubber polish, her shampoo and vaginal musk when her vaginal plug was pulled out and a short time later the scent of his semen joins the sweaty bouquet generated by her carnal pleasure with an unprotected man as her contractions during orgasm pull him into ecstasy with her and the fluid transfer is completed, A few ml of ejaculate and several hundred million sperm have been released under pressure to splatter harmlessly against the latex membrane of the escorts diaphragm.

 

World Economic Forum 2014

Davos, Switzerland Site of the 2014 World Economic Forum

An offer I couldn’t refuse: When we were At Crag Abbey for Christmas His Grace asking if I would like to help with entertaining at this years World Economic Forum in Davos and I said sure, as though it was really going to happen. Well, be careful what you agree to. Of course I didn’t really have to go through with it, but having my performers dancing as entertainment at private parties and having my wards able to mingle with many of the world’s movers and shakers was an opportunity not to be missed. It was a huge rush when I found the Duke really wanted my group as we provide a level of secure personalized entertainment that few other groups offer.  Fortunately we were again ahead of the storm landing at Dulles to pick up Fiona and Colin.                                                                                                            

The theme for the four day World Economic Forum 2014 January 22 -25 in Davos, Switzerland will be: “The reshaping of the world: consequences for society, politics and business”. The time in Davos is GMT+1 which is 6 hrs. ahead of eastern standard and 9 hours ahead of Pacific Standard Time so we are working with a bit of jet lag.

Arrival: We arrived on Monday (Jan 20^th) when I was CD9 and fertile again as were my wards whose cycles have all synchronized to mine as we sweat in the studios and gyms so much together. I should ovulate the last day of the forum, Saturday the 25^th.Since His Graces patron, for whom he is arranging our attendance, has deep pockets my dancers, 4 girls and 2 boys, flew Business class to Zurich International (ZRH) and a car picked them up and took them to the hotel in Davos some 78 miles from Zurich. Anya, Fiona and Major Tree, my wards and I flew in to ZRH on Limnaea II my G650. No, I didn’t pay full price for it!  I’ll write about it when I have time, because the Government still gives really amazing tax breaks on small businesses buying private aircraft. The first thing we did after landing at Zurich and passing through customs was get our Forum credentials packs and clip-on badges with our photos on them. Otherwise we couldn’t have gotten into the town itself much less the hotel. Fiona was responsible for getting us cleared… the major work had already been done months ago or we wouldn’t have been allowed near His Grace w/o all my girls and I being found harmless.

Accommodations: His Grace already has a small hotel in the best part of town that he had completely renovated over the summer with only twenty-five suites and a set of five soundproof meeting rooms as well as three fully equipped encounter sallies. It is just the sort of place I would have designed and it fit perfectly the design I proposed when Jack (his Graces son) asked me how I would design an intimate hotel perfect for very private business meetings, assignations, rendezvous and trysts.

Anya, Fiona and Maj. Tree are involved with hotel and guest security while Tanaquil is overseeing the scheduling of most of the girls with meeting attendees who have interests in common with those of His Grace while my wards are available for those attendees who are of especial interest and are kinked toward rubber, ballet (boots and shoes) and very tight pussy.  The week off from school was explained as a research project for a whitepaper required for an economics course. For Bea it was an opportunity to dance in an international setting for ballet extra credit. I’m available for men who are interested in a woman in her early 40s who looks like she is in her early 30s and who can fuck their brains out. Surprisingly, since my dance card is full, not every man in Davos is after 19 y/o pussy and there are a great many submissive men in the field of economics so my riding crop has been getting a workout, though I do have to be careful not to mark a partner where it can be seen during a presentation.  

Fortunately Bea, Willow, Odette and Odile have been working with their male escort candidate partners so they have amazingly tight vaginal muscle tone and stamina. They won’t have much rest during the four day conference, but will get to meet intimately some very famous businessmen and academics.

White latex catsuits and the ability to cloud men’s minds

Looking lovely in white latex catsuit and corset set

The photo: Model trying to stay warm during a lull in a desert latex photo shoot.

White latex and the ability to mind-fuck men: Though white latex is easy to look gloriously attractive in it is hard to keep pristine while wearing it since it shows stains, smudges and fingerprints so easily, things that are often masked by the default catsuit color, black. The six hundred plus men who have completed my casinos latex survey over the past several years say the same woman in a white rubber catsuit looks younger, prettier and more alluring than when clad in an identical design in black rubber.

The color white also seems to denote the woman as sexually inexperienced, perhaps even virginal and a highly desirable sexual partner since sexual inexperience suggests being free of STIs and a worthy subject for sexual intimacy. I know rationally that’s hard to believe, but a pretty woman clad in white rubber is far more likely to have men buy her meals and drinks, lend her a car or money and pay exorbitant prices for routine sexual encounters than if she was working the room clad in black rubber.  In our survey women in red latex are seen as a danger, or the woman being very sexually experienced, by a lot of men. Some are cautious and stay away while others are intrigued by the suggestion of a dangerous woman and are strongly attracted many possibly to their sorrow.

I’ve found when working as duty casino manager in a white latex catsuit and ballet boots I can often distract men who are fighting by just approaching them while popping my riding crop against the shaft of my leather ballet boot. They both stare at my rubber sheathed breasts or the zipper pull of my relief zipper stretched over the head of my Penetrator plug and forget what they are fighting about. If I wear black latex I have to use my riding crop far more often to break up the fight. I have a dresser who helps me into my rubber costumes and then polishes out the fingerprints and cosmetic smears with a silicone rubber polish before I go on duty and after each break. Wearing a corset you can’t bend over so any catsuit corset sex is missionary position against a wall and it’s a good idea to empty the bowels and bladder before getting into latex as even without the corset it’s difficult to go to the bathroom in a rubber catsuit.

Dressing to be groped: I think one of the glories of wearing a properly fitting latex catsuit is looking so alluring that men can’t prevent themselves from touching you and then walking into a bar to intentionally be groped. Most straight men and some Dykes squeeze the buttocks, breasts and groin, but for some their impulses are so far out of control that they will attempt to pull the plug out of a woman wearing one. More about that in, The male Gaze.

A technical problem with being groped while wearing latex is that skin oils from fingers, oils from bar foods and rough hands that snag soft latex as well as sunlight can all shorten the life of a latex garment and white latex will be yellowed by sunlight. To combat the problems of oils and sunlight weakening and discoloring latex Jeff at Labia Labs is trying different additives to sheet latex formulations in addition to chlorinating it.  However no additives tried so far have made the latex last longer w/o changing it’s feel and flexibility for the worse. The only thing that will extend the life of latex garments is using a good silicone lubricant as a latex polish. It coats the surface and repels the oils from groping fingers coated with the oils from bar foods which will prevent the latex softening from most oils, for a while. The labs have found nothing to prevent white rubber yellowing from sunlight. So the $350 white .4mm latex catsuits I wear while duty casino manager are paid for by the casino and  depending on the amount of groping I get, which I control depending on how needy I am to have my ego stroked, may last a week or even two if I’m not particularly assertive during that time in my cycle.

The Male Gaze: When I’m in a latex catsuit and especially a white one, I love to watch men’s eyes as they talk to me. Almost all straight ones stare at my breasts and crotch, which I’ll admit look lovely sheathed in shiny rubber. The seams of the rubber around and across my breasts seem to mesmerize them as do the relief zipper details (seams, teeth and pull) stretched over my plug head and mons pubis. I never knew so many men were fascinated by how a rubber catsuit was put together… or could they be staring for another reason?

I love having men in Naughty Pleasures bars who only know me by reputation try to pick me up. Their eyes seem pulled to my breasts and groin which at such close quarters standing in a bar crowd has them looking down at me while becoming obviously aroused and losing their train of thought as their little brain begins to wonder if I’m really as tight as they have heard and how can they find out for themselves. Given the business I’m in I’m pleased to attract that sort of attention as it gives me a splendid opportunity to develop much closer relationships with some of the men associated with some of the niche markets in the entertainment business to which we cater.

The psychological down side of wearing a white latex catsuit is that the wearer can develop a feeling of invulnerability because while looking her most alluring she is encased in impermeable rubber looking seductive while seemingly unattainable, a fantasy that can be suddenly and shockingly destroyed by a tug on her relief zipper and the quick insertion of two fingers if she isn’t wearing a plug. Even when plugged, being aggressively groped can bring a girl with a latex Wonder Woman complex back to gasping, moaning, struggling reality. A rubber-girl backed against a wall, can have her plug pulled out, shoved in her mouth and find herself suddenly taken bareback; plunged into repeatedly by an ardent lover treating her as though she was the last woman he would ever get. After he shoots his load into her, pulls out, zips up and walks off she discovers he was only looking for a tight, warm, deep vessel to ejaculate in. It’s an experience a ingénue will never forget.

I have a business client who likes rough sex with rubber-girls in ballet boots so I always have a fantasy afternoon with him when he’s in town to bid for my porn videos copied off HD security cams in the pool bungalows and concierge floor suites. Giving a man a piece from a lovely rubber-girl in Vegas is a common business courtesy, but when the piece on offer is from a casino owner like I am the bidder knows he is on the short list and white rubber catsuits are really in demand when servicing the men who control the porn film industry.

Latex catsuits and pelvic grooming: A woman shouldn’t try wearing lingerie or a swimsuit under a catsuit as you can see the bra and panty lines which disrupt the smooth rubber surface that enhance the curves of the female body. She also shouldn’t try wearing an untrimmed bush under a properly fitting latex catsuit as even a closely trimmed pelvic pelt can sometimes get caught in the zipper teeth and that usually happens at a most inopportune time. What I recommend and my Wards and female escort trainees and I do is have totally waxed pubes so we are hairless and look like ten year olds down there, well, sort of. Suits with zipper tongues are highly recommended as getting the delicate tissue of a labia edge caught in the zipper when you are in a hurry can absolutely ruin at least a few hours of even the most promising day with a hunky man.  

Blemish concealment: Catsuits are ideal for concealing bruises, rope burns and cuff abrasions as well as tats and some piercings though piercings under tight latex can be painfully pulled. So a woman who looks untouched in white latex could be a mess underneath a .4mm latex membrane!

Corsets: Matching corsets can be bought with latex catsuits and corsets while they can help more sharply define ones waistline can contribute to serious accidents or death when rubberiest are asphyxia enthusiasts as well. A problem occurs when the corset is laced too tight causing the rubber clad woman to take shallow breaths since she is unable to fully inflate her lungs. If she is wearing a gasmask as well which also hinders her breathing she quickly starts to hyperventilate and the CO2 she can’t get rid of or re-breathes from the gasmask causes her to go into repertory distress and if there is no one around to pull off her gasmask and unfasten her corset she can easily unintentionally asphyxiate.

Corsets are also used by pregnant escorts to get another few weeks of work by keeping her figures with a corset, assuming her nausea is under control. This is used primarily by girls planning to carry to term otherwise the pregnancy would have been terminated in the first few weeks.

Willow

A Fouganza brown schooling riding crop

The Photo: A brown Fouganza schooling riding crop of the sort used by some of our training associates for motivation stimulation during encounters with male escort candidates during sadist training.

Visitors: Fiona, who is Cyndi’s mom and Jack’s sister, is in town (w/o her partner, Maj. Tree) and is staying at The Lorelei. But that’s not the real news. The big news is that Her Grace, the Duchess, Fiona and Jack’s mom, who never travels has come from her home on Virgin Gorda and is at the Lorelei as well.

An important favor: I knew the Duchess was coming as she traveled on Limnaea, my G550, and to complete the family group Jack flew in last night. So the whole family is here, except Himself who is in the Highlands deer stalking. Jack brought along a ballet dancer a stunning beauty in her late 30s,and a Principal dancing for the Royal Ballet who I’ll call ‘Ondine’, along with her 19 y/o daughter, a member of the Royal Ballet’s corps, who I’ll call ‘Willow’. Fortunately Her Grace, Jacks mother, had called earlier to let me know why she and the family were coming and who the dancers are. Otherwise their purpose in being with Jack wouldn’t have been clear.

Even so seeing Ondine and Jack together gave me a frissson of jealousy. Could he be trying to hurt me by flaunting another woman on his arm rather than me? I was mad at myself for entertaining the possibility when I knew perfectly well that wasn’t so as it showed I wasn’t as confident as I’d like to be about my status with Jack. Ondine and Willow are at The Lorelei with his mom and sister and Jack is staying with me an arrangement which helps to decrease my feeling of vulnerability where he is concerned.

It’s complicated: I had Jack’s family and guests at my place in the hills for a catered dinner as the Duchess said they had an important favor to ask of me and I wanted them in my home when they asked. After dinner we all gathered in the library and sat in a conversation circle.  Sherry was served and Jack began with background. It seems that nineteen years ago when he was in his late teens Ondine who was twenty at the time was a guest of the Duke and Duchess during which time the Duke had intended to sleep with her as was his custom with other young ballerinas who took his fancy. However, he became ill, Her Grace believes his heart acted up from over excitement thinking of a new conquest, and was in no condition to service a woman leaving Ondine alone on the very first night to amuse herself in whatever manner she could.

Although Jack put it more diplomatically what occurred was that being highly sexed and needing male companionship Ondine turned her attention to Jack who had been steered her way by his mother who was trying to disrupt her husband’s planned assignation he intended to conduct in her home while she was in residence. Ondine nodded, smiled and said it was one of the shortest seductions she’d ever conducted. She had noticed Jack giving her longing glances and also noticed the woodies he seemed to develop whenever he was around her. He was low hanging fruit so she helped herself. She let him know that he would be welcome in her bed and that she was on the pill and so for the week that she was there he took her salmon fishing or bird watching during the day during which they had sex as well as spending his nights in her bed and their affair was still blisteringly hot when she returned to London and the RB went on a tour of Asia and Jack went to Oxford.

Three months later Her Grace received a letter from Ondine saying she was 12 weeks pregnant by Jack and asking for advice, should she terminate or carry to term. Her Grace told Jack and they both wanted her to give birth if it was his child so a paternity test was arranged and Jack indeed was the father. Ondine’s position with the ballet was secured by His Grace’s patronage and the fact that she was recognized as a rising star and she took a leave of absence and delivered a healthy daughter.  The Duchess has been paying for raising and educating Jack’s 19 y/o natural daughter, because she felt that she was responsible for Willow’s birth by making sure Jack kept Ondine satisfied and away from her husband who had insisted she stay the week thinking he would recover and have his way with her.

Back channel conversations: With Her Grace alerting call before she came to give me the news about Jacks relationship with Ondine and Willow and that they were going to ask me to take her under my wing I has several days to absorb the news beforehand otherwise I wouldn’t have been nearly as calm as I appeared to be during my meeting with Jack’s family. I also had time to talk with a friend on the coaching staff of the RB to get her opinion of Willow and found that while she is highly regarded technically her ‘strong attraction’ to men while not affecting her work has caused friction with other female dancers. She said that Ondine was also highly sexed, but was far more discreet and career oriented so a permanent arrangement like marriage is of no interest to her, So “the apple didn’t fall far from the tree”. I thought to myself that Willow would have to be highly sexed to fit in with my girls so perhaps everything would work out.

The request: Jack and Ondine, supported by Fiona and Her Grace asked that I accept Willow as another of my Wards and allow her to live with Odette, Odile, Cyndi and Bea in my home and under my supervision and dance with my company. Of course with the exception of Bea they are all 18 or older so technically they are adults. However, living with me and because of the access to sensual delights of all kinds to which I can grant access not to mention the difficulty I can cause if I’m not obeyed, my Wards are obedient. Willow agreed she would too.

The reason: But there had to be something more. Why would Willow want to dance with my company and train with me to expand and improve her skills? I was incredulous, give up dancing with the RB! Given her extensive professional ballet experience and my training specialties that could only mean one thing, she wants to attend ‘coital college’, escort training. Now why should she want that? Is it to be able to best her competition for one of the handsome, titled and rich men who pursue young RB dancers? Willow blushed fetchingly as her mom explained that while confident around women Willow needs to work with more men who aren’t ballet dancers. So she and Jack had thought having her take escort training would be a confidence course for her while being as safe as it’s possible to be with a young woman’s health and security.

Then in an excess of candor, the truth emerged. Willow let it slip that she had become a discipline problem to the RB because of the number of men she was with and the risks she was taking, not to mention her marking some of the male dancers buttocks and backs with her Fouganza schooling riding crop during encounters. Ahhh, sadistic tendencies.  So it became immediately apparent that Willow was being sent into exile in the Colonies, at least temporarily, and I was being asked to supervise another hypersexual young woman while she fucks her way through the ranks of male escort candidates as she hones her skills. Go figure!  Perhaps she will get over her extreme need for unprotected sex or perhaps not. Either way I’m good with that. Willow reminds me of my need for men when I was her age. The difference for me now is that I can have as many and whenever I want.

When I talked with her later privately she said Jack had talked to her about me and that she wanted “to meet and study with the woman who has captured my father’s heart” which I thought was sweet and if it proves to be genuine will gave her some points with me. When I heard Willow say that I blushed as no one in the family had ever discussed Jacks interest in me in my presence, except Himself who told me he was opposed to Jack marrying me, though Jack hasn’t asked me. 

So the plan is that Willow, after an audition where my dancers can see the talent she will bring to our troupe will join my company as a Guest Artist just in time for the Holidays. She can also audit courses at UNLV time permitting as she works her way through the male escort candidates to slake her sexual appetite and broaden her physical skills as Cyndi has done. The assurance of the other women present that that they were all supportive of what Willow wants, given that they were exiling her for her own good,  was amazing, not to mention droll, but I tried to keep a straight face as I accepted another girl who if what I’ve heard is true should fit right in. Or should until she gets over her hypersexuality, or we can channel that into making her a performer with her own act.

Cyndi changes her mind: Actually, with the addition of Willow the number of my wards will remain the same, four; Bea, Odette, Odile and Willow. That’s because Cyndi had already decided that she will be leaving in December and will attend Trinity College Cambridge where Taryn is studying rather than Oxford as she had thought she wanted earlier. The paperwork for Cambridge has been completed and her late entry for the Spring 2014 semester has been approved. As I’ve mentioned before there are advantages of having a grandfather who is a Duke. So when Fiona mentioned Cyndi’s cutting short her gap year it didn’t catch me unaware.

Afterward: After the discussion was over and I’d accepted Willow into my circle I had my girls, Bea, Cyndi, Odette and Odile come in and sit with the adults while I told them that we would have a new girl entering our circle and introduced Willow and told them a bit about her background. Cyndi, Odette and Odile all looked at each other and said in unison, “Ohhh, so that’s who you are! Is that cool or what! Welcome!” and giggled which left me puzzled until Cyndi said Willow had been a new student in Yardley’s Ballet class that afternoon, a 19 y/o Brit-chick who was such a marvelous dancer and who quickly made friends and fit right in in a notoriously clannish group.  What a great start!

Fifty Shades trilogy, unanticipated side effect

Jacket covers of the Fifty Shades Trilogy



The New York Times

Published: March 9, 2012
By JULIE BOSMAN

“Discreetly Digital, Erotic Novel Sets American Women Abuzz

“Fifty Shades of Grey,” an erotic novel by an obscure author that has been described as “Mommy porn” and “Twilight” for grown-ups, has electrified women across the country, who have spread the word like gospel on Facebook pages, at school functions and in spin classes. Or as the handwritten tag on a paperback copy in a Montclair, N.J., bookstore helpfully noted, “Yes, this is THE book everyone is talking about.”

The problem has been finding it. The first book of a trilogy, it was published by a tiny independent press in Australia, and distribution in print has been limited and sluggish, leaving bookstores deprived of copies. The lion’s share of total sales (more than 250,000 copies for all three books) has come from ever-discreet e-book downloads, which have propelled “Fifty Shades of Grey” to No. 1 on the New York Times e-book fiction best-seller list for sales in the week ending March 3 and No. 3 position on Amazon’s best-seller list.”

The entire article can be found HERE

As an update to this article the Fifty Shades trilogy was 1, 2 and 3 on the NYT (combined hardback and e-books) bestseller list published on April 22, 2012. I think hardback sales may still be limited by shortage of HB copies, though the discreet nature of e-book sales may depress sale of HB copies. All my friends and I are reading the Fifty Shades books on our Nook or Kindle ereaders, which we carry in our dancebags. The books are AWESOME!

Unanticipated side effects: An unanticipated side effect of Fifty Shades popularity is that apparatus sales - to women - have tripled in Fasteners, our BDSM boutique in the past three weeks as women read the books and come in to be outfitted with what they need to pretend they are Ana Steele (at least in the bedroom) being fucked by Christian Grey while experiencing the pleasure/pain and fear of being gently caressed with a plaited leather riding crop or cuffed ankles and wrists to a spreader bar during rough sex. Even the sale of metal training balls has increased dramatically triggered by the scene in the book where Ana is taken to a party commando while wearing a pair of them. Fasteners manager has had to reorder the high end French plaited leather riding crops twice in the last week and right now there is a waiting list for them!

Actually the Fifty Shades novels while erotic are BDSM Lite, so as they become more widely read the vanilla American public is being introduced to the concept in an enjoyable way that allows them to be drawn ever closer to recognizing BDSM as an acceptable lifestyle between consenting adults. It will be interesting to see when the increase in sales at Fasteners plateaus or drops off as the novels reach saturation in the reading public and more women decide to experiment with letting their wild side enjoy D/s roleplay. The success of Fifty Shades will surely attract novels in the same genre by other writers. One can only hope that they are as well written.

The Doorman

Adolph in costume working the door at Hex or Sex

The Doorman: The sorority Hex or Sex Halloween party that has gone on for the last four days has been a huge success; not only because of the body-condom clad rubber-chicks, but because of the venue. Adolph loaned the sorority one of the estates he has purchased during the local real estate crash and it is gorgeous. Fully furnished with six bedrooms and a guest house with four more so ten girls can be working in bed at a time. It also has an indoor pool – dive sex is not on offer – and Adolph has sprung for a free wine bar. As scary as Adolph is in real life he is even scarier in costume so he makes an excellent doorman for the house as no males dare act out while he is there. He also provides overall protection since the Dons who run the call-girls and streetwalkers in town don’t dare cross him and Adolph made it clear to them that this was a one-off as a Halloween charity event so they all swallowed hard and backed off.

Rotation: With only thirteen girls there really weren’t enough as their time was over subscribed and most of them are now on 800 mg of Ibuprofen three times a day to reduce the pelvic pain, but none wanted to drop off rotation. Cyndi (now 17) Anya and I have been going out to the estate to help spread the load because one girl was hospitalized when she took a man far too large for her and she may end up having a hysterectomy. With the three of us there are fifteen of us in rotation and Anya and I take the guys with oversized equipment or ones who ask for rough sex. So dividing up the work that way has worked well and several of the girls are actually enjoying themselves having found they like dominating men. As the house Dominatrix I showed the ones that were interested how to use a riding crop to spank men so they enjoy the experience, but not mark them since most have girlfriends or wives they will go home to. Another useful trick I taught is how to grip a man’s balls and twist so that he will do nearly anything he’s asked to do. And the usual male submissive things like how to let a guy suck their toes or lick their ballet-boots. It’s all great fun and I may be developing some girls hidden talents because two of them are gorgeous and showing promise as nascent Dommes. For these college girls it will be a Halloween to remember!

Punitive pointe training explained

A teacher preparing to teach a punitive pointe training class

A reader asks: After reading about punitive pointe training from my December 27, 2009 entry ‘Jill pads and punitive pointe training’ Risa asked “Can you explain deeper what kind of pointe training used as punitive pointe training? I really interested to this topic”

The section of the entry she is enquiring about is: “Anya and punitive pointe training: Because Anya is a masochist and enjoys brutal pointe sex along with other specialties she accepted a commission from a unit of Taryn’s Adult Media Empire to advise the Swiss head mistress on what additions should be made to the classical syllabus for pointe training to heighten its punitive aspect and exactly what the disciplinary regimen should consist of to achieve various levels of pain for training purposes. She will also examine the physical plant to see if any changes need to be made to introduce ‘solitary barre’ punishment and if there is need for any additional machines and devices creative punitive pointe training can require. The trip will also give her an opportunity to see Castle Deiter for the first time since its renovation with Tanaquil and one of her lieutenants, who used to be one of Deiter’s girls, giving the tour.”

Punitive pointe training, the details: PPT can and will vary from school to school and from teacher to teacher. I see it needed when a student with potential doesn’t take her pointe classes seriously enough and isn’t performing at the level she is capable of. I think that is showing disrespect for the art and the tradition of the skills being handed down from one generation of dancers to the next. Therefore, every teacher who administers punitive point training under my supervision wears a short (classical) tutu and pointes and is on pointe with the student being disciplined during her entire disciplinary session.

There is nothing elaborate or particularly special about the punitive pointe training regimen I use. Well, not to begin with, although the punitive regimen calls for the woman undergoing PPT to take class with a special vaginal plug inserted. The plug is inserted to give the student something to block out of her mind – a lesson in partitioning - while concentrating on the steps she required to perform. It also has a more sinister purpose if it turns out that she is very stubborn and refused to be compliant.

We find using classical steps and poses at the barre and then center work are usually enough to bring a student with a recalcitrant attitude in line. Using steps from the classical idiom provides justification for the very intense training needed to make certain the student in question has that step, combination or pose committed to memory and the stamina to perform a long series of an exercise correctly.

We first have a dancer undergoing a punitive training regimen do a twenty minute barre – in pointe shoes – to make certain she is well warmed up. Then we take her through a series of steps depending how naughty she has been. Basic steps like:

Relevé from straight-knee positions, fully rolling through the foot while both rising and descending is very important.

Relevé from demi-plié, springing strongly from the heels and drawing the toes slightly under the insteps so the feet are in first position on pointe with the toes directly under the heels. It’s important to work through demi-pointe when returning the heels to the floor.

Échappé on pointe, in second or fourth position. Standing in fifth position, demi-plié, then spring out to second position on pointe, pushing off strongly with the heels. The feet can be exchanged, front, back after an 8, or 16 count or changed each time you close.

Relevé en Arabesque, with the left leg extended back in arabesque à terre well turned out from the hip, demi-plié. Spring up into Relevé on the right foot extending the leg back parallel to the floor. Lower through demi-pointe to demi-plié maintaining strength in back not permitting the left leg to drop and keeping a strong point in the left foot. Repeat 8 or 16 times on the same foot then repeat the series on the other leg.

Administering PPT: The class is taught by a very experienced instructor. I teach PPT with a 30 inch riding crop with a thin leather tress on the end. To make corrections I flick the tress against the sole or toe-box of the dancer’s pointe. The steps are basic, but the number of repetitions is not. We start with fifty 16-count reps on each foot and go through the series of steps while I judge the mental attitude of the student. If I don’t think she is cooperative and giving me her best effort we go through the process again with one hundred 16-count reps on each foot. This will generally separate the determined from the serious bloody toes masochists. Very few students can do one hundred 16-count reps w/o going rubber-legged and falling off pointe at which time the girl is grounded until she can perform the required amount of discipline successfully.

Occasionally a teacher’s authority will be directly challenged by a new student who has been to a more liberal school as far as pointe training is concerned. Or, one who has burnt out and no longer cares, but doesn’t want to quit. It those cases as a last resort to bend the naughty dancer to the teacher’s will she can operate a small remote transmitter that sends a charge of electricity through electrodes in the trainee’s plug. One electrode is in contact with the ring of nerves just inside her vagina while the other electrode is along the anterior wall of her vagina against her G-spot and bladder.

The teachers administering PPT have all worn ‘spark-plugs’ as they are known and had the plug activated while we are trying to hold a pose or perform a step. You are thinking about getting the step done correctly when the shock hits in total surprise. You feel this tremendous jolt and every muscle seems to contract at the same time. Some gasp and fall off pointe, some double over with severe cramps, most start to cry. We all empty our bladders spontaneously and it’s a scary and humiliating experience.

In the three years I’ve been administering PPT at St Lucy’s I’ve never had to activate a girl’s spark plug. I consider it a failure on my part if I can’t get a student to perform to the best of her ability w/o shocking her. Driving her into exhaustion takes a bit longer, but when I’m administering punitive training I’m doing what I ask her to do along with her step for step and they know after the first hour or two that they aren’t going to be able to get away with anything less than their best effort. I usually bond with those students during their PPT session and we end up being best friends.

The 2010-11 season ballets

Poster for the ballet Ondine by The Royal Ballet in 2000

Ballets for the 2010 – 11 season: I was asked how I chose dancers for my small company and how I pick dancers for roles so I’ll write briefly about the process as well as the ballets we will be dancing this season. Dancers join my troupe knowing that we provide erotic ballet using the classical idiom. We screen for willingness to push the creative envelope so we don’t have a problem with squeamishness about having sexual encounters in front of an audience. This is Vegas and the competition for job openings is intense. We have never had a problem finding dancers with marvelous bodies and exquisite technique and in the current recession competition for a single opening is enormous. We have great health care benefits – We have to with unprotected sexual activity on stage. We are all screened with a full STI panel every two weeks so we are sometimes referred to as the Vampire Ballet because of the frequency of blood being drawn.

Every dancer is responsible for her own birth control and there are very few jobs for pregnant ballerinas (we are all tested weekly for hCG) so the girls are very careful to use their birth control correctly. Though the Ballet Mistress has Plan B One-step available for the asking if a girl thinks she may have had a birth control failure. The only contraceptive device we insist a female dancer wear during some performances is a diaphragm which is used as a gas guard (during underwater sex) to prevent water and air bubbles being forced into her uterus by the hydraulics of her partner’s thrusts while underwater. We have submerged sex in our version of the ballet Undine, the story of a water sprite that falls in love with a human.

I rotate dancers in roles to give new ones a chance to shine and get different interpretations of the same role since some high-rollers come to the show every night during their stay. Looks and technique are important, but ultimately it’s a about onstage chemistry so if couples work well together I’ll go with casting them, especially opposites in a ballet like Miss Julie where the guy is a sadist and the woman a masochist so there is really rough sex with the audience splattered with body fluids. They love it!

The ballets for this season are:

Undine: The set for our version of the ballet is a tidal pool by the sea. We are fortunate that in the five venues we dance in the buildings were reinforced either to take the weight of filled swimming pools on the upper floors or because the building had been designed to add more floors so that allows us to have a glass walled water filled pool to perform in.

The story comes from Friedrich de la Motte Fouqué’s novella Undine, popular in the 19th C. It is the tale of a water-nymph who marries a mortal. Similar to other 19th century fairy tales, the plot is based on man (Palemon) encountering the supernatural (the water nymph Ondine), but the outcome is rather different than many of the 19th century classics: here, it is the man that dies, and the female character survives. Ondine makes her first appearance from a fountain, shivering in the cold air. She meets the hero, Palemon, and is astonished when she feels his heartbeat as she doesn't possess a heart. Palemon deserts Berta, whom he has been courting, and decides to marry Ondine. During a particularly strong storm while at sea, Ondine is lost overboard. Palemon survives the shipwreck created by the angry Ondines and believing Ondine is lost ends up marrying Berta. Ondine returns and is heartbroken when she discovers Palemon's unfaithfulness. When she kisses him he dies and she goes back to the sea losing all memory of him forever.

In our version we have revised Sir Frederick Ashton’s 1958 ballet Ondine which he choreographed for the Royal Ballet. We have kept the original novella name, Undine, and changed the ending. So that after discovering his unfaithfulness, in place of the fatal kiss Undine has sex with him and her desire for him is so great that she sucks the life out of him as he orgasms inside her. She swims off holding hands with another female water sprite having found another partner before her male lover’s body is cold. The dancer/divers breathe from inconspicuous air hoses descending from a surface supply unit. The female lead’s long hair is worn loose and she wears only a Reflexions latex diaphragm and weighted pool-pointes to keep her slightly negatively buoyant with her weighted feet on the bottom of the pool. The ending has been hugely popular with audiences, especially straight Dommes and butch lesbians because Undine is one of the few ballets where a woman survives and triumphs.

The Image used at the top of this entry is of a poster for a production of the ballet Ondine by The Royal Ballet at the Royal Opera House, London in 2000. This poster features former Royal Ballet principal dancer Sarah Wildor, who danced the title role.

Swan Lake: We have a very popular ending to a shortened version of Swan Lake where Odette (the white swan) gives herself to Prince Siegfried who penetrates her from the rear while she is en pointe. The male dancer uses Cialis as a performance enhancer and she wears a thong bottom tutu and crotchless tights. The high-roller clubs all have intimate venues so the audience gets to watch up close and personal as the Prince shoot his wad inside her. There is an onstage costume change for Odette as his making love to her turns her back into an almost nude (she is still wearing pointe shoes) beautiful princess. Is it real? Yeah, it is, this is Vegas. The female usually doesn’t have time to orgasm, unless she has been masturbating backstage, but the male does and as he pulls out there are usually still strands of semen dripping from his fading erection as the couple takes their bows. It’s all great fun and the guys who lose heavily at the tables have their minds diverted for a while.

Miss Julie: A ballet in one act with choreography and libretto by Birgit Cullberg. Based on Johan August Strindberg’s famous stage play (first produced in 1889) about sex and class, the ballet tells the story of the aristocratic Miss Julie who seduces the family butler and has to pay for her indiscretion with her life. The main characters:

Miss Julie: Twenty-five-year old daughter of a count. She hates men, thanks to her mother’s influence on her, and believes her high social station makes her superior to her servants. Nevertheless, her instinctual female sexual urges drive her into the arms of a valet, Jean, who is all that she despises–a man and a lowly menial.

Jean: Thirty-year-old valet of the count. Though of the servant class, he is articulate and even can pepper his speech with French phrases he learned while working as a wine steward in Switzerland. He seems to represent the lower classes of the late 19th Century in a world that was casting off class distinctions and allowing the lowly to become equals of the high and the mighty. When Miss Julie entices him with her charms, he invites her to his room—and the boundaries separating social classes, and Miss Julie’s clothes, droop to the floor.

The servants talk about the incident that caused Miss Julie’s fiancé to breakup with her. Miss Julie was “training” her fiancé as a master would train his dog, forced him to jump over her horsewhip. Twice he did it and twice the whip cut him. When he was supposed to jump again, he took the whip from her, broke it into pieces, and walked off.

Miss Julie, on the rebound, seduces Jean and after they have been sexually intimate he tells her that the other servants know about their affair and they need to get away. Their plans fall through when Jean finds that she can’t finance their escape. They argue and Jean gets the better of her. Miss Julie becomes despondent and kills herself with the razor that Jean just finished shaving with.

We have revised the story line to include Miss Julie being brutally taken and having her cervix repeatedly rammed while she screams and squirms as the couple enjoys rough sex. There are also several wonderful S&M scenes with Miss Julie whipping Jean with her riding crop and them both enjoying it before he inseminates her on stage. Then after he refuses for a second time to go away with her she beats him with her riding crop again and then slits her wrists. The long sleeved riding habit she is wearing hides the bladders of fake blood that pour onto the stage as she runs the razor over her sleeves. S & M fetishists as well as misogynists love our version of Miss Julie for the beatings and the heroine’s suicide at the end.

Ballet boots and hairless pussy

Arm-candy trapped in ballet boots

Pointe Boots - A returning reader, Joe, asks:

>“Being there [at Naughty’s] I hope to see a girl wearing bladed ballet boots. KP fighting boots is not allowed to any person but you? So it will be easy to spot you.

Readers will remember that I said that when on duty in the casino I wear a pair of Gepettos lightly armored Pleasure Boots. The thing about Pleasure Boots is that they have interchangeable specially keyed heels so a wearer can change the shape of the heels to suit her mood. The heel locking stud fits into the heel of the titanium shank and toe box stamping that makes up the foundation of Gepetto’s pleasure boots. The boots are keyed so that genuine quad micro-edged heel blades can not be worn with pleasure boots. Except for the custom pairs he makes for me. My micro bladed pleasure boots look nearly identical to the commercial versions worn by our fetish escorts and wealthy customers. And since with the heel guards on the bladed heels look identical to standard non-lethal heels it is very difficult to tell I’m wearing KP boots. They aren’t true fighting boots because they are only lightly armored. True KP Fighting boots are much more heavily armored the shafts and blocks are thicker, the titanium shank is keyed for bladed heels and they weigh at least twice as much as pleasure boots.

So I don’t think it’s likely that I can be easily spotted by my boots because there are a lot of women wearing Gepettos boots in Vegas. However, if you come across a small, left handed, green eyed, auburn haired woman in leather pleasure boots, sheer black tights, leather mini and riding crop mediating an argument on the casino floor or in one of the entertainment venues then you have almost certainly found me. I think I’m the only female owner who does her turn at floor duty, which I like to think is one reason my casino is relatively peaceful and very profitable..

The down-side of Pointe boots: Pointe boots of all kinds have a common set of problems. Pleasure Boots were designed with sex en pointe in mind so the boxes are heavily padded to protect the toes and ankles. The problem in wearing them (as with all pointe boots) comes from leg cramps from wearing them continuously for too long and that also causes the Achilles tendons to shorten so a wearer of any sort of pointe boot has to do Achilles tendon stretching exercises when not wearing them to be able to walk comfortably barefoot or in flats. Calf cramps can be minimized by getting used to wearing her boots for hours at a time and ensuring her diet is rich in all the vitamins and minerals needed and she should stay well hydrated.

>”Maybe you can show me the craft of Gepetto and all the little details that make them that unique.”

I’m sorry, but that’s not possible. The proprietary nature of the techniques used in making his boots does not permit tours of Gepetto’s boot shop.

>“Dancing shoes have a limited life so I expect the Gepettos ballet boots also to have a limited life? How many different pairs do you have? You don’t wear the same pair of boots every day, ey?”

Traditionally made pointe shoes (of cloth, cardboard, leather and paste) can have very short useful lives, sometimes as little as 15 minutes, depending on the role and the maker of the shoes. Even high tech Gaynor Minden pointes wear out; usually the outer platform padding breaks down, eventually even with sueded platforms or the cloth seams of the uppers split or the outsides just look too ratty to be used in performance so they are used to rehearse until they fall apart.

Gepettos boots do have useful lifetimes, but they can be refurbished. The unitized shank and toe box assembly of stamped titanium is unbreakable, but the leather uppers, padded lining and heels will need refurbishing. I’ve found mine last about 18 months before having to be remade. I do have fave pairs and save them for when I’ll be in my boots for extended intervals, so they don’t last as long. Gepetto will recondition pairs of his premium boots with new inner linings and fittings. His clients value the look of well worn outer leather which gives the wearer a look of being an experienced pointe boot wearer. It’s rather like bleaching jeans to get that lived in look that feels so good. I have a dozen pairs of KP Fighting boots some of which are always undergoing modifications as my feet change as I age. I have another six pairs of thigh-high dress boots for formal occasions and I have eighteen pairs of Pleasure Boots which are my everyday boots when I feel a boot is appropriate. I try to wear a pair no more than 4 hours w/o changing to a dry pair and stretching my calves, ankles and toes. I let a pair dry for at least 2 days between wearings.

I prefer wearing pointe shoes rather than pointe boots because it takes more skill to wear them confidently, they aren’t as heavy and I can flex my ankles so there is less chance of leg cramps and tendon shortening, though dietary needs and stretching exercises are the same. But a small woman in pointe shoes, even black leathers, isn’t really taken seriously except as tight pussy. So as a psychological edge I wear black leather pleasure boots – which as I’ve discussed before don’t take the training and skill that pointes do – that women and most men think are kinky and dangerous. Which means they will take me seriously and are more likely to obey me w/o my having to use my crop or slit a boot-chicks laces.

A friend and longtime reader, Eric, comments: “Frederick sounds like plenty of the other guys in your stable. It seems you get nothing but guys with large packages and high sperm counts.”

I’m not sure exactly how that was meant, but I’ll accept it as a compliment. However, I have to tell you it’s not by accident that we have reproductively well endowed, virile, potent, testosterone soaked guys on the payroll. We screen for them as a type because that’s the sort of guy who is a chick-magnet when women come to Vegas looking for excitement. And in the case of Freddy, that holds true for professional dancers as well. Dancing with a virile partner who took you to orgasm and filled you with sperm just before the performance multiplies the chemical attraction of the couple and leads to some amazingly erotic pas de deux w/o their clothes coming off. And that’s certainly the case with Natasha and Freddy. Freddy can be troublesome, but it’s just in the context of his need for tight hairless pussy not bar fights and we have a very high tolerance – not to say fondness - for promiscuous males out here. So a few unplanned pregnancies are a small price for having him available to partner and service Natasha.

Also from Eric: “You know, I think you might want to include a post about what many women think about men's "sizes." I ask because Yvette told me I'm big, but I think I'm more average at six inches length and about an inch width.”

A man’s size can be a mixed blessing for a woman. There is the female fantasy of being able to take all of an extremely well endowed man and have glorious sex with him. The quote from Mae West that: “too much of a good thing can be wonderful” is true, but only up to a point where the woman can’t stand the pain of her cervix being rammed by a partner who is too long for her or she tears because he is too thick. Both of those situations can be nightmares for women and can turn them off sex entirely. That is why we offer to match our male escort’s reproductive anatomies to the anatomies of their clients so they can take the largest man they can comfortably manage. That can be tricky because it requires measuring the depth of a client’s vagina while she is fully aroused and tented. Even then, if there isn’t enough foreplay to get her aroused before she is fully penetrated she can still be severely injured.

Thickness is a bit different in that the vagina can usually adjust more easily to thickness than length. And well toned vaginal muscles can clamp down on a penis of any diameter. There are cases where very young women and a few adult women’s vaginas are too tight for penetration even to use tampons, but if the condition isn’t an emotional disorder it can be overcome by using a set of vaginal dilatators and a topical estrogen cream to make the vulvar tissue more flexible and stretchy. I think that’s why men prefer teens who have had their pubes waxed, so guys can fantasize about penetrating a very young girl with an extremely tight ‘hairless pussy’. There is a huge market for hairless pussy which is why nearly all the escorts out here get their pubes waxed. From the man’s perspective his partner being hairless means he gets a better view and feel of the soft tissue of her vulva and doesn’t get hair in his mouth during cunilingus and he can pretend he is fucking a very young girl if that’s what he needs. From the woman’s perspective she gets a much more erotic sensation from his tongue work on her vulva and around her clitoral shaft if she has been recently waxed.

While there is a sellers market for amazingly hung men and deep tight women in the sex trade a good firm six inch shaft can reach any woman’s G-spot and send her into ecstasy and is certainly more than enough to impregnate her if precautions aren’t taken. As far as seeking a life mate is concerned I think women are looking more for a man with a kind, supportive and loving disposition who is gentle and fun in bed rather than whether he can kiss the tip of her cervix every time he penetrates her.

Camel toe, heels and cervical encasement

Britney Spears displaying her camel toe

Camel toe: The camel toe song celebrates the more common figurative definition of camel toe. In human anatomy, the mons veneris (Latin, mound of Venus), is the soft mound of flesh just over the vulva in females. After puberty it is normally covered with pubic hair to a greater or lesser extent. The labia majora or large lips extend on either side of the vulva, and may also be covered with pubic hair. If the costume of a woman is so tight that you can see the shape of her mons pubis and labia, as in the picture of Britney Spears above, you can call that a CAMEL TOE because of its similarity to the toes of a real camel. In Vegas female entertainer’s pubes are usually totally waxed so that in provocative costumes their vulvas are prominently displayed w/o being masked behind a luxuriant growth of pubic hair.

My AST class at St Lucy’s gets camel toe training because while displaying camel toe can be provocative it can cause urological and genital problems for the woman if she doesn’t take the proper precautions. The safest and most comfortable way to display camel toe is to wear a plug with a cleavage head. That way it looks provocative while protecting the soft tissues of the labia and the entrance to the urethra from chafing and bacteria which can cause a UTI. Raw spots on the labia are unbelievably painful so that vaginal penetration while your labia are raw can put a girl off sex for months. Once you are wet enough from flirting with a hunky guy you can let him remove your plug and play with your real toys.

Jackets and riding crops: I was taken to task the other day [See: comments about my entry of October 16, 2009] for my lack of formality – no jacket - while on duty as a casino owner-manager. And I thought I’d get points for being plugged so I wouldn’t be displaying my camel toe. Sigh! Actually, black Boots, tights and bra accessorized with a riding crop is amazingly imposing when the person is pretty and 6’ tall. I’m 5’4” standing flat, but in Pleasure boots I’m a bit over 6 feet. Seeing a 6 foot auburn haired woman striding toward you slapping a riding crop against the shaft of her boot is (I’ve been told) fairly impressive even when I’m smiling which I always do when approaching customers. And that’s the judgment of several of my enemies who on their best days call me “one tough cunt!” I carry a few business cards in a hidden pocket of my bra so I don’t need a jacket. Usually when I hand a card from my bra to a customer they will sniff it first. It seems automatic for both men and women, they just do. And it usually changes the dynamic of the situation from confrontational to flirtatious or at the very least casual. If I’m in conventional business attire; a skirt suit, blouse and pointes and I hand a customer a card from my clutch they will look at it and start complaining. Go figure! I’ve found changing the social dynamic will almost always ease the situation, even with aggressive verbally abusive drunks. I just listen and think how glad I am I’m not going to bed with that person. Once they understand they are talking with an owner I take them into a conference room to try to resolve the situation. It’s close by and I try to get them out of the public rooms before they collapse in a drunken stupor or have a medical crisis of some sort from being upset which we try to avoid by calming them and discussing their problem regardless of how unreasonable. I can almost always handle the most belligerent man. Women are somewhat more difficult since so few of them want to bed me. The Casino occasionally slips up so I don’t win them all, but I’m pleased to say that the outcomes of the situations I handle are usually more favorable to the casino than those handled by the other Owner-managers.

Executive heels: Without my asking Gepetto’s boot heel designer made me micro-bladed heels for my pleasure boots. The heels feel smooth to a gentle touch but they have tiny bladed teeth like fine saw blades. When gripped firmly or jammed into tight spaces they cut like razors. He made them to enable me to quickly slash the laces on an opponent’s ballet boots if I force my heel into and down her laces, which will leave her with almost no support and unable to walk in her boots. They also prevent an opponent from grasping the heels of my boots (even with gloves) to throw me off balance. I thought that was so sweet of him, but then I think he likes me. I have seen him through some bad times when his wife was being treated for cancer and he needed conjugal services she couldn’t provide. He is very happily married, but a man has needs and I am glad I was able to have him in my bed for a while. He is as good a lover as he is a weapons designer so they are very happy together.

Diaphragms and cervical encasement: I mentioned in an earlier post [see October 13, 2009] about rubber encasement Masters who enjoy looking at a Prentif cap sucking on a submissives cervix. The same effect can be gotten with a diaphragm and it is especially effective when using a Semina because its transparent dome shows the encased cervix clearly through the .25 mm thick pink silicone rubber membrane. In my Advanced Sexual Techniques (AST) course at St Lucy’s I show the girls how to increase the vacuum in the dome of a diaphragm to cause the soft thin dome to mold exactly to the shape of the wearer’s cervix. For the wearer this has two beneficial effects. First, by increasing the suction it decreases the likelihood that a large man can break the seal and cause the diaphragm to leak or dislodge. Second the vacuum stretching the thin rubber of the dome around the cervix puts a slight pressure on the cervix which the user can feel as a sign that her D is correctly positioned and sucking tightly on her cervix so she knows she is protected. And, as I mentioned it is a huge turn on for Rubber Encasement Masters since cervical encasement is a new field in the fetish.

Vacuum packed: To increase the vacuum in the dome all the wearer has to do is, after correctly inserting her barrier while she is not aroused, push down several times as though she is having a bowel movement. When the wearer is not aroused the anterior rim of her diaphragm is anchored securely in her pubic notch so pushing down will force the anterior wall of the vagina and cervix further into the dome pushing out any air that might still be trapped when the diaphragm sealed. So inserting while not aroused is crucial to increasing the vacuum in the dome. Pushing down three or four times will pump the vacuum down to the point that it becomes very difficult to break the seal when it needs to be removed for cleaning. Another reason for increasing the vacuum in the dome - when worn for flow control during her period - is so that the vacuum will cause the endometrium to flow out faster shortening a wearer’s period, sometimes by as much as a day or two. Of course that means that it fills faster and has to be emptied more often. For me, after my ME, I can pump down the vacuum in the dome of my Milex and reduce my residual flow from two days to less than a day.