Pussy hooks - the pros and cons

A new St Lucy’s instructor being fitted for a pussy hook

The Photo: You know she’s an instructor because her pubes aren’t waxed. 4^th year ballet students and some new professors (If they teach sexuality) at St Lucy’s get fitted for pussy hooks and Labia leashes at our casino’s bondage boutique, Fasteners, before taking my class ‘Submissive Behavior in a D/s Relationships’.

 

 

 



Pictured above is a 1.0 inch diameter stainless steel vaginal hook similar to the one being worn in the top photo so the reader can get an idea of its size. It’s a standard training aid - because of the danger of wearing it it’s used primarily as an example of male misogyny - in my class: Submissive Behavior in D/s Relationships. Even so Students love to pose for selfies with this size hook inserted.

 

This particular size and design is not really a toy though many women like having one amongst their toys and posing for selfies with it inserted to stimulate the interest of the Dom they are interested in serving or are collared to. It was made to hold the woman while she is suspended from her pelvic bone. Of course being hung like that results in the hook tearing through the vaginal wall and bladder or uterus. The pelvis almost always separates at the symphysis – except for a few of the smallest lightest women - which results in the hook tearing out dropping her fatally injured on the dungeon floor.

Small stainless steel pussy hook with 1.5 inch terminal ball

For D/s play a much smaller and lighter stainless steel hook (see photo #3 above) is used and the leash is looped through the ring on the Subs collar so she can be lead around w/o much likelihood of physical damage to the delicate tissue of her reproductive tract.

Pussy hooks; the good and bad: There is very little upside for the wearer of a pussy hook and the possibility of a lot of downside damage. Of course only the psychotic ever willingly attempt being hung by it. Being hung from an industrial vaginal hook often ends in death. If found in time her reproductive tract might be repaired, but the psychological damage to her Chi and libido is usually permanent in the few cases I’m aware of where the woman was left hanging from a pussy hook and survived.

The only good thing might be the eroticism of wearing a light weight vaginal hook to a dress-up vanilla party for the shock value or wearing it under street clothes fastened securely to a sanitary pad belt or a decorative waist chain. But for that sort of turn-on I think loose stainless steel or Pyrex Ben Wa balls would be better and more comfy. Of course for some masochists the hooks shape, size and discomfort are part of its attraction. A nice thing about this light weight surgical stainless steel hook is that the ball terminal allows it to be worn with a diaphragm w/o fear of the end puncturing the dome.

Readers who look this item up on the Internet will find it often offered as an anal hook. My escorts and St Lucy’s girls like training with it as a vaginal hook. However, a wearer of even a light weight ball terminal hook needs to be careful the hook leash looped through her collar ring isn’t jerked too hard as that can crush delicate vestibular tissue and pinch or crush her clitoris when pulled by a mischievous or misogynistic male.

NFL Super Bowl XLVIII: In case someone just landed from outer space, the Seattle Seahawks play the Denver Broncos on Sunday February 2, 2014 in the open air MetLife Stadium at the Meadowlands Sports Complex in East Rutherford, New Jersey, with kickoff scheduled for 6:30pm EST. I don’t really have a favorite. I’ve lived in the San Francisco area and it’s beautiful and I danced in Oakland. Even so, I’m sort of leaning toward Denver. Readers who have been with me since my days posting on Yahoo may remember why.

Since I’ve been busy and out of the country for most of the last few weeks Adolph is hosting our Super Bowl party this year during which his deep dive training facility, ‘The Well’ will be available for SCUBA play and the multi-bed hyperbaric chamber will be available if needed. I’m pleased that I can kick back and let go at one of these parties and not have to play hostess. I’m taking my SCUBA gear as I’m expecting to be asked for dive-sex.

Our return home from Davos: Our return was uneventful. We stopped briefly at Stansted airport (STN) north of London to drop off Fiona and Maj. Tree so they can report to Whitehall in person and to top off our tanks. I’m still using the loaned G650 as Limnaea II while my new one is being custom fitted out. I should be able to take delivery in a few weeks.

 

Fellatio, gags, gas masks and vaginal hooks

Model with a spider gag inserted

The Photo: This is such a great image with the saliva drooling out of the models mouth! And the ‘legs’ make the gag look a lot more dangerous than it really is. Adolph and his PR shop decided that this wasn’t the look that would attract sophisticated European women to The Lorelei. There is too much fear in the woman’s eyes to project languor and eroticism which is what he is selling. I think it is an image that appeals to the male slave-master and Adolph may use it if he advertises for Splash.

Gigi and other Towel Girls at splash already wear spider gags (which are premium items) and men will die for the opportunity to ejaculate down the throat of a young TG while she has a spider gag inserted. Actually one out-of-town client nearly did that several weeks ago when a local member sponsored him at Splash as a guest. He hadn’t been taking his heart pills while he had been playing the tables. He had been winning and was at splash with his sponsor to relax and spend some money on young girls so Gigi took him behind the Red Door and he had a heart attack while he was squirting semen down her throat. He is ok since the EMT techs on duty stabilized him and got him to the hospital very quickly. His wife was told that he was excited about winning at the tables. Gigi gave him the spider gag she was wearing as a souvenir.

Jack on ring gags and fellatio: “The ring gag shown will hardly accommodate most cocks (too small) and likely not feel especially good to those cocks passing through it. The concept is cute though... forcing the mouth open so that it must accept a cock. If the jaw cannot move and the lips can't suck, and play with the cock the experience is more a psychological one of using a mouth for a receptacle. Oral sex is often preferred because (wo)men have more skill and options of providing sensations with their mouths than their vaginas or anuses. Not all receptacles are created equally! Of course there is the tongue - vaginas, anuses and receptacles don't have articulating tongues. I doubt whether ring gag oral sex is actually practiced much. I think not. It makes for sexy photos. Like so much of fetish... sex is driven by fantasies which hardly match reality”.

My reply: Actually, there are different size gags. The size of the gag in the photo [For my entry of April 7, 2011 entitled The Spa at The Lorelei and Hoods] – like baby bear’s porridge - is just right for the couple using it. It’s wrapped with silicone tape and is used with a flavored water soluble lube so while it may appear snug for a well endowed stallion there are larger ones available. The model could have been posed with a much larger gag inserted, but keep in mind that pool of potential guests Adolph is targeting expect relative comfort at The Lorelei so an advert showing a model posed with a very large BDSM Ring Gag inserted just isn’t good PR. The idea is to sell prospective guests on kinkily erotic sex w/o too much discomfort involved. Of course guests may bring their own or specify a particular device if they wish.

Guests who are first time gag users are taught to caress their partner’s frenulum with their tongues so that their partners don’t have to do much, or any, thrusting and they can get him to ejaculate very quickly or make an individual encounter last as long as they want. This is particularly effective when a guest who adores the taste and the feel of semen sliding down her throat orders half a dozen or a dozen fellatio partners to be taken consecutively. She can specify the men’s diets so their semen tastes of alcohol or red meat or sweet by having a fellatio stallion eat pineapple, or, on a perverse note, some women even like a fellatio partner to eat asparagus before their fluid exchange.

Gas Masks and pussy hooks: I suppose it’s the ease of obtaining gasmasks and pussy hooks (with those a fetishist can make his own) as well as rubber and BDSM fetishists wanting to learn how my circle use them that make the terms ‘gas mask’ and ‘vaginal hook’ or ‘pussy hook’ fave searches of my blog. Both Gas masks and vaginal hooks are relatively inexpensive and almost entirely male fetishes though their submissives or girlfriends are the ones who are frequently injured while wearing them. Gas masks at least have a protective function if used as intended for breathing in a hostile atmospheric environment.

Gas mask fatalities (at least around here) seem to occur primarily among a few bi-polar male fetishists who off themselves when manic during a solo breathplay encounter while wearing a gasmask fitted with a rebreather bag. Then, it’s probably while trying to set a personal best for length of time with the rebreather bag valve closed. The guy will have been drinking and pass out and vomit in his mask and drown in his own vomit or become unable to open the valve from lack of oxygen and suffocate from carbon dioxide poisoning. More instances of lack of attention to detail in not planning an effective escape strategy in case something goes wrong.

Vaginal hooks on the other hand, have no redeeming social value whatever! They are diabolically misogynistic and masochistic devices used only to terrify or torture women with the thought of damage to their reproductive tracts and other organs in their pelvic area. However, for some few masochistic submissives being led around by a leash attached to a pussy hook can be thrilling. The hook is equipped with an anti-expulsion ridge that fits behind her pubic bone so the woman can’t remove the hook and needs no harness or belt to hold it in place. The anti-expulsion ridge is expanded with a key to lock the hook behind the woman’s pubic bone and it will require the key to remove it. For a woman in the right mental state that sort of situation and possible danger can be a huge turn-on. I think it’s more the fantasy of what could happen if her Dom yanked brutally on the hook than the fact of it actually ever happening. And that is the most benign use of a pussy hook! Another use is in a bondage situation where the woman is tied up with rope running through the attachment ring at the end of the shaft so that any movement on her part forces the hook deeper into her vagina.

Diabolique: I think the most diabolical use of the pussy hook is when the hook is fully inserted and the woman is hung from it. For a sociopathic sadist - returning readers know who I mean - tying a woman up, inserting a hook in her vagina and attaching it to a motorized winch on a rolling frame like auto mechanics use to lift engines out of cars is great fun. When she is lifted off the floor suspended by the hook behind her pelvis the weight of her body causes her to hang horizontally so the hook tears through her anterior vaginal wall, puncturing her bladder and often her uterus. Her entire weight is placed on her pubic symphysis which for a woman weighing 100 pounds or more is enough to pull her pelvis apart. If she doesn’t faint immediately the time it takes for her pelvis to tear apart is accelerated by her writhing in pain. When the pubic symphysis is pulled apart the surrounding soft tissue tears and she drops to the floor gravely injured and sometimes leaving parts of her bladder and uterus on the hook. She will bleed to death in minutes if one of the arteries supplying her uterus is torn.

Taking inventory

A vintage Louis Vuitton Trunk similar to the ones Shelly’s husband used.

Shelly’s husbands belongings: Returning readers will remember that in my October 29, 2009 entry ‘Disappearances at sea’ Shelly’s husband’s lawyer told us that her husband and a woman originally thought to be his wife had disappeared from a luxury cruise ship while at sea in the Caribbean. Her husband’s and his most recent bedmate’s belongings arrived this morning. The cruise line sent them FedEx! I would have thought that their things would have been kept by whoever is responsible for investigating their disappearances until it has been decide what happened. Anyway, their stuff is here, dirty laundry and all.

His fetishwear came packed haphazardly in the two vintage Louis Vuitton trunks it was typically packed in when he traveled, along with modern Vuitton suitcases for his regular clothes. His girlfriend’s things were in a large theatrical wardrobe trunk. No wonder they needed a suite, they needed a separate stateroom for luggage storage!

The inventory: Shelly and I inventoried their things to see if we could determine what they were wearing when they disappeared. One thing is certain; his paramour wasn’t all that fastidious about her personal hygiene. It wasn’t her lingerie that was stained with semen, vaginal secretions and some blood as though she might have been spotting, that could have been sent to the shipboard laundry. There were no open packages of tampons or menstrual pads so it must have been recent or something she thought she could contain by wearing a diaphragm while penetrated. There was a package of vaginal yeast cream, a topical estrogen cream, a partial pack of birth control pills (Yaz) with 2 active pills remaining and a new pack of Yaz that was unopened. The thing that caused me to question her personal hygiene was that her butt plug still had Vaseline and feces on it, of her set of three vagina/anal hooks the two smaller ones were crusted with secretions and the largest one was missing. And the beavertail of her white 3 mm neoprene wetsuit jacket was crusty with bloody coitial discharge. Perhaps she was interrupted and didn’t have a chance to clean her equipment after playing with Rubberstud. The largest of her Pyrex dildos was missing as well. Also missing from its bag was a black heavy rubber Polymorphe encasement suit that would provide no buoyancy in the water along with a pair of weighted pool-pointes – silicone pointe shoes with weighted platforms - that keep the diver on the bottom of a pool for dive-sex when there is nothing to tether an ankle leash to. Also missing is her fellatio guard that is used to keep the airway open during very intense sex. So it appears that she was wearing her Polymorphe encasement suit, had the large Pyrex dildo, a large anal hook and a fellatio guard inserted and had her feet tied into weighted pool pointes.

His fetishwear trunks were missing a black heavy rubber Polymorphe encasement suit, a pair of Gepetto’s Pleasure boots (which you will remember that he was expert in wearing) and a very large stainless steel butt-plug, two pairs of steel hand-cuffs and a fellatio guard. Also missing were two 20-foot sections of ¼ inch stainless steel chain and two padlocks. If they went over the side wearing what seems to be missing from their trunks there was no hope that they would have floated for even a minute or two. With the weight of all that metal they would have sunk immediately and with the fellatio guards holding their mouths open neither had a chance to even hold their breaths.

The girl with the platinum pussy hook

Wolford Fatal 15 tights coordinate with pussy hook and chatelaine

The girl with the platinum pussy hook: In very up-market circles in Vegas pussy hooks (vaginal hooks) are becoming a must-have accessory. At first it was the one or two fashion leaders who wore them to parties for their shock value. Now most of the trust-fund set are wearing them. Of course there is no intention for the wearer to ever be suspended by her pubic bone with the one she is wearing. The hook is just to suggest she is a lot kinkier than most of the Junior League women really are. Actually, hanging a girl with her pussy hook accessories would probably be impossible because as jewelry they are made from 18 caret gold or solid platinum which are too soft to take the weight of a 100 to 110 pound girl w/o bending and dropping her in a heap. Platinum seems to be the metal of choice at the moment as it is the most expensive and will go with most Winter colors.

As this is being written (on Friday 10-16-09) the price of a troy ounce of gold is about $1050 USD and platinum is around $1335 USD. At two ounces – or more depending on the size the wearer wants - the hook is surprisingly heavy and the external end is fastened to a matching chatelaine that is worn low, just above the swell of the hips, with the pendent chain attached by a claw latch to the hook lying against her flat hard belly. The adjustable chatelaine contains another oz of metal so as fine jewelry the hook and associated chain cost about $8,500 USD for a basic set.

Grooming etiquette: For proper display of a vaginal hook the wearer must have totally waxed pubes so that the glint of the hooks shaft is easily visible rather than being hidden in a luxuriant bush or even partially masked by a Brazilian landing strip. As vaginal jewelry a pussy hook is usually worn under a sheer seamless pair of tights like Wolford Fatal 15s. Black is usually worn with platinum and flesh and earth tones with gold. A Hook is worn under sheer seamless tights to minimize the likelihood of it getting caught on something or men fingering and trying to pull on it. Also the glint of gold or platinum protruding between the wearer’s labia beneath the gauzy veil of the wearer’s tights makes a hook look that much more mysterious and erotic. My esthetician at Body Buffers says that the requirement for sheer seamless tights and totally hairless pubes has caused a shift in the trust-fund sets grooming needs and landing strips are being ripped out as women’s interest in pussy hooks increases.

Wolford Fatal 15 Tights: Perfect for showing off a pussy hook – appearing almost nude - while still being totally covered. Fatal 15 tights are completely seamless in matt transparency with unrivalled softness, a broad waistband for a perfect fit a flat toe seam and slightly reinforced toe. An incredibly smooth appearance is derived from the high elasticity and a good fit by the use of double covered Lycra in every row. Easy to wear particularly under close-fitting garments as nothing shows through. The yarn is 17 dtex / 15 den appearance. 90% Nylon and 10% Elastane. For any one wondering what ‘dtex’ stands for it is Decitex, in textiles; measuring unit for yarn; 1 gram per 10000 meters) For a comparison Wolford Aura 5 tights are made of 6 dtex / 5 den appearance yarn.

US FDA OKs GlaxoSmithKline’s Cervarix: “LONDON -(Dow Jones)- GlaxoSmithKline said Friday that the U.S. Food and Drug Administration has approved CERVARIX [Human papillomavirus bivalent (types 16 and 18) vaccine, recombinant] for the prevention of cervical pre-cancers and cervical cancer associated with oncogenic human papillomavirus (HPV) types 16 and 18 for use in girls and young women (aged 10-25). MAIN FACTS: -CERVARIX was shown to be 93 percent efficacious in the prevention of cervical pre-cancers (cervical intraepithelial neoplasia 2+/ CIN 2+ or adenocarcinoma in situ) associated with HPV 16 or 18, in women without evidence of current infection with, or prior exposure to, the same HPV type at the time of vaccination. -The majority (approximately 75 percent) of cervical cancers in North America are caused by HPV types 16 and 18. -CERVARIX does not protect against disease caused by all HPV types. -Approximately 100 types of HPV have been identified to date and, of these, approximately 15 virus types are known to cause cervical cancer. -The FDA's approval of CERVARIX was based on data from clinical trials in more than 30 countries involving a diverse population of nearly 30,000 girls and young women receiving CERVARIX. -CERVARIX is expected to be commercially available in the U.S. in late 2009.”

Personal comment: When Cervarix becomes generally available in the U.S. the competition should drive down the price of Gardasil.

Vaginal hooks for Halloween

Stainless steel vaginal hook & 1.5 in. diameter ball

Fasteners and vaginal hooks: Fasteners, my casino’s bondage boutique, is now carrying a line of vaginal hooks in stainless steel and titanium. Until recently customers have been mostly Dungeon Dommes and Masters who want to display them on the walls of their dungeons to demonstrate their ability to hang a woman by her pubic bone. Of course the problem with actually using a vaginal hook for that is that there is no way to suspend a girl by her pelvis with one w/o doing a great deal of damage and afterward she is useless for vaginal sex as the vagina always tears and there is considerable blood loss not to mention that even the most willing women before they are suspended by a vaginal hook is a true believer in their barbarity after her experience. The vaginal hook having such a bad reputation it wasn’t surprising that there were only one or two adventuresome girls buying for their own use. I thought they would only model the hook and harness for their boyfriends just as most women model ballet-boots, only posing in them while on their backs or sitting down.

The psychology of being submissive: But it seems since Fasteners began a quiet advertising campaign the hooks have, err, caught on as a new look for Halloween parties this year. Adventuresome girls were getting tired of dressing as Wonder woman, Cat Woman, Storm, Elektra and Laura Croft. Being able to insert a vaginal hook and go partying in ballet boots as a Slave girl is a total switch giving even the most assertive of us a chance to show her submissive side and it can provide a surprising insight about what men would like to do with (or to) us when they think we can’t defend ourselves. The defenseless girl in a harness with a hook fully inserted into her most feminine spot while standing in ballet boots is a huge turn on for some men who have a cruel streak and some who are simply amazed at what some of us will wear or do for attention or sexual gratification. The amazement seems to come especially from college men who come to Vegas from small towns where they haven’t been directly exposed to that sort of obsessive-destructive behavior by submissive women and their Masters in the D/S sub-culture. Of course there is BDSM on the Web but so much of that is fantasy that UNLV college men have been streaming through the mall to look at the vaginal hooks displayed on (or is it in) mannequins in Fasteners window. From the cams focused on the window-shoppers looking at the hooked mannequins the number of men with obvious erections was more than 40% which the advertising director thought was marvelous as erections drive sales. And having sales associates in ballet boots modeling the hooks in the intimate devices section of the boutique has gotten a lot of attention. Since Fasteners began advertising vaginal hooks as an innovative look for Halloween sales to college age men and women have soared so the campaign seems to be at the very least a seasonal success.