Foreplay: the lipstick as his penis fantasy
I’ve changed psychiatrists, again: With this one I’m not only in therapy, but am helping him with a study he is conducting about hypersexuality in couples. I’m helping in that study as a supplier of services to a couple in the study who are voyeurs. One watches their partner having sex and usually masturbates while watching.
The man is heterosexual while she is Bi so I can service both in the same session if needed, but I’ve never been asked to do that yet. There is competitiveness between them as to which one had the most intense orgasm, one with a partner and the other masturbating, but just replaying the videos it’s hard for me to tell. They wear an 8-track telemetry units that record blood pressure, heart rate, respiration rate etc. so the therapist will know if there is an attempt to dramatize their orgasmic responses.
As I understand the patient couple’s stated reason for therapy it’s to develop better at technique and have more intense orgasms while gaining insight from the therapist as to what is driving them to bring a stranger into their sex lives. Supposedly they have an open marriage and there is no jealousy between them over performance with a sexual services provider, but I’ve seen looks from one when the other is in the throes of an orgasm that indicate jealousy to me, and I’m a excellent judge of human emotions.
I’m sure my shrink (I’ll call him Bradley or Brad) is studying me as well as the hypersexual couple. However, I think I’m already ahead of him there and know what he wants, a hypersexual mate. He lost his wife, Jenna, and baby son in a car accident eighteen months ago and he says I remind him of his wife. I’m pretty sure he is already in love with me though I have only been seeing him professionally, as his patient, for the past few weeks.
About the definition of Hypersexuality: From: http://psychcentral.com/lib/hypersexuality-symptoms-of-sexual-addiction/00011488
“Sexual addiction can be considered a process addiction (as opposed to substance addictions such as drugs and alcohol), similar to gambling, binge eating or compulsive spending. As such, sexual addicts typically spend a much greater amount of time engaged in the pursuit of sex and romance (the process) than in the sexual act itself. They are addicted to the neurochemical and dissociative high produced by their intense sexual fantasy life and ritualistic behavior. This is their addiction.”
“While not yet fully acknowledged as a legitimate mental health disorder in the clinical literature (reportedly due to a lack of research study), sexual addiction and hypersexuality nevertheless is becoming identified in the public consciousness as a legitimate neuropsychobiological disorder”.
False Pretenses: From the above definition you can see that the couple Brad has me working with don’t at first glance fit the strict definition as they are (seemingly) far more interested in watching each other with a third person than to “spend a much greater amount of time engaged in the pursuit of sex and romance (the process) than in the sexual act itself.” Unless or course their participation in the study is a ruse, part of their “pursuit of sex and romance” to gain access to a therapist and sexual services provider (the process) w/o having to pay a lot for the experience because the study is funded by a grant.
Both Brad and I think that’s exactly what they are doing having the university and its resources involved in paying for their sex with medical and sexual services professionals as active partners. That aspect of their (Romantic Process) because of its unconventional nature was what got them a place in the study. Brad feels there is knowledge to be gained from the couple both physically and from the elaborate hoax they think they have successfully pulled off.
Of course Brad’s hypersexual patient couple I’m working with have been screened for STIs so there is no problem there and the wife has been fitted with hormonal (Marina) IUDs so she should be relatively safe from pregnancy, not a problem for her with girl-girl sex, but if they decide to have sex with one another she’s protected while we watch. But as I mentioned I’ve already seen indications of jealousy as she is watching me fuck her husband, though I suppose she imagines he is fucking me. I’m pretty sure I’m going to have a problem with her