Ball-Girls and cock rings

Metal cock & ball rings on a cut and shaved man

This photo: A cut and shaved man fitted and aroused in a metal cock and ball ring set. It’s important that the man be shaved and experienced in wearing rings before graduating to this sort of C&B harness. He needs to understand and practice removal before attempting to use it in an encounter because ease and speed of removal can be crucial to his reproductive health when trying to wear the device for as long as possible. Wearing cock rings for too long an interval can cut off circulation causing irreversible tissue and nerve damage.

A double Magnum support Stainless steel/TPR cock ring as used by Brian

This Photo: Is from the Eden Fantasy on-line catalog. While it looks like something from the dark ages Brian has used it with me in missionary as a thrust-buffer and even as gentle as he is I found the soft TPR against my recently waxed mons pubis much more comfortable than our two pelvic bones slamming together when he’s planting his seed in me

Bea and cock rings: Since I recently fit Bea with her first 65mm Reflexions latex flat spring diaphragm she hasn’t had another private coaching session with Brian. During her next session (if there is one) she wants to try and take his full length w/o using a cock ring like the one pictured above which he wore - just around his penis – as a thrust-buffer to protect her cervix and pelvis from the power and length of his thrusts. His pubes are waxed so with a little lube and stretching the ring a bit he can easily slip it on and off.

She has been training with a suction mounted 2.5 inch diameter 9 inch long silicone dildo trying to stretch herself a few more mm. Perhaps if she takes him when fertile, while her cervix is ripe, soft, high and open, and if she is fully aroused and penetrated from the rear I might let her try. She would be at her deepest then and she is surprisingly deep for a woman her age and size. I remember my mentor in ballet school saying the same thing about me when I was her age. Then the difference was that all the diaphragms were latex and none of the large men who penetrated me used anything to buffer their thrusts even when I asked them to. Sometimes I had to psych myself to arousal so as not to have my cervix battered unmercifully and I got to be really good at it.

Ball-Girls: I mentioned in an earlier post that Bea is working part time at Fasteners, our BDSM boutique. She is a shop-assistant specializing in cock and ball hardware, a job known locally as a ‘Ball-Girl’. Unlike in baseball and tennis rather than chasing after stray balls a Ball-Girl at Fasteners fits men with cock and ball hardware, both for medical reasons, as ED appliances, as well as performance enhancing sex toys. She learned to fit men by working with me for the last seven months as I fit our male escort trainees with C&B hardware as part of their training in the proper use and safety of the devices. She is really good at it and even gets on well with the two full time Ball-Girls who have been overworked to the point they were unable to provide the level of service that Fasteners is known for. The full time girls can’t really complain as they work on salary not commission.

Client rapport: Right now because of her age Bea’s client base is limited to our male escorts and trainees a limitation which also provides her with significant STI protection because the men are routinely screened and while in training only have sex with female trainees or selected St Lucy’s ballet students. The personal dynamic with her as an expert fitter dealing with the same men who are otherwise fucking her brains out as part of their training is amazing to see. On the first visit the men are initially apprehensive about trusting the safety of their manhood to a gorgeous training partner, but in dealing with them she is professional and the men quickly see her as a knowledgeable, non-threatening, non-judgmental fitter. Not only that but she seems to hypnotize them like a mongoose does a cobra as the brain in the little head between their legs takes over and the guy is sitting there glassy eyed with her gently manipulating his genitals. Once she puts her gloved hands on him the client is completely pussy whipped and dreaming of a chance to shoot his wad in her belly during the test drive of his new C&B set after she finishes fitting him.

The fact is that Bea’s uniform as a Ball-Girl; a white lab coat the hem of which comes only to mid thigh, a thong panty, bare legs and white Gaynor Mindens with suede platforms and a white headband that holds her long glossy hair off her face while letting it cascade beautifully down her back, is intentionally provocative. Since she now works primarily with escort candidates and a few professional escorts her costume is intended as a test to see how well a trainee/client can control his ardor. Once a Ball-Girl puts her client at ease she discusses his needs and makes suggestions then helps him get into and out of some of the more elaborate harnesses as he tries them out. She is careful to explain that 20 minutes of continuous wearing is about as long as a fully erect man should try to wear a correctly fitting C&B set.

Bed-time: Another part of her job, with escort trainees and licensed escorts, is to partner with a client if he wants to try out the device he just bought and almost all of them want to try them out bareback with Bea. Of course contraceptive protection is mandatory, for a Ball-Girl, so her continuous wearing regimen for the Reflexions diaphragm with a 4% O9 DiveGel+ spermicide in the dome is serving her well. She’s having a lot more intimate encounters, which are recorded as ‘bed-time’ regardless of how or where she is taken, with the trainees than other St Lucy’s girls which is building up her stamina. I’m so pleased that I was able to place her as a Ball-Girl she’s perfect for the position! She loves helping her clients select equipment that makes them look and perform their best!