Kinky Brian and a reader’s question

Dead pointes repurposed as bed shoes for Brian

Brian and menstrual sex: He is visiting this weekend because we are both fond of menstrual sex and I’m CD2 today and will be bleeding heavily today and tomorrow. Only now that he’s penetrating me outside a studio setting I’m finding that he loves having sex with women who are wearing purple pointes while they are menstruating. That’s not nearly as kinky as some of my other lovers so for me he’s almost a vanilla. Well, at least so far. He says that for him a partner wearing purple pointes symbolizes a dancer’s grace, poise and regal bearing. He also prefers taking his women to bed with them in pointes as bed shoes made of traditional materials rather than primarily polymer as Gaynors are, so he can enjoy the scent of her shoes while they are mated.

Sex in traditional materials Vs Polymer block and shank shoes: I can understand his love for strongly scented pointes of traditional materials since when he’s here we do a twenty minute barre to warm up before bedroom athletics so we are both limber for the positions he wants. The sweat from the barre activates the scent of damp fabric, leather and paste which is a bouquet I enjoy too especially when on my back with my ankles crossed under my head while he’s pounding my cervix or thrusting into my anterior fornix.

Of course for studio or encounter salle ballet-sex Gaynors are a must-have because with hard pre-arched shanks a woman can relax and put her weight on her heels and enjoy the encounter while balanced on her toes, rather than having to try holding her weight over the blocks to prevent crushing her shanks. That’s especially true for women with high arches like me who can easily destroy even some polymer shanks. Struggling to remain centered over the blocks detracts considerably from the pleasure of having ones G-spot caressed while en pointe. In Gaynors we can fully enjoy being penetrated from the rear while our pelvic muscles are clenched their tightest by being en pointe, but there is no damp leather and paste bouquet as with traditionally made shoes.

Latex diaphragms and menstruation: During my heavy days he likes me (and I assume his other conquests with whom he has menstrual sex) to wear a latex diaphragm because the flow reacts with the latex to develop a distinctive odor much quicker than with silicone and of course the dome is far softer, stretchier and transmits heat far better than silicone. The Reflexions flat spring also provides far better under-thrust protection when he is caressing his partner’s G-spot. Of course the down-side of Reflexions is that it can’t be used by couples with a latex allergy and the dome is shallower than a Milex which can hold a bit more flow before needing to be emptied. Flow volume isn’t usually a problem because with studio, encounter salle or bedroom sex the diaphragm is emptied immediately before and again after the encounter, except in the case of the very few women who have cycles so short that they become fertile while menstrual. In that case it’s best to wear a diaphragm that won’t need emptying for at least six hours after the last act of intercourse.

Brian and Bea: He hasn’t asked about her yet this weekend so perhaps he knows she is on a chaperoned spring break trip with some other St Lucy’s ballet students. They are spending a few days in NYC to see the museums and have tickets to see Phantom of the Opera and go back stage to talk with some of the ballet girls in the play. Her period came on schedule so she survived her encounters with Brian and she is now in her luteal phase so her libido shouldn’t be as strong and perhaps masturbation will satisfy her until she returns and can be with escort trainees again.

A frequent reader asks: “I have found that pregnancy risk sex is a huge turn on for a lot of submissives … I have found that a lot of those who are Dominant also have a bit of submissiveness in their makeup (I think that actually helps to better get into the head of one's sub partner). Is this the case with you?”

My reply: It depends on my mood. I do at times love to let myself be taken by a man who doesn’t know who I am. I can be very feminine and submissive when I want to lead him on, knowing at any time I can take control of our encounter. My experience with pick-ups at the Meat Market at Naughty’s is that men, especially the married ones, are both scared and thrilled by the thought that they might leave me pregnant. And those who ask about my method of contraception are fascinated that I’m protected by just a thin stretchy membrane of latex or clear silicone and a spermicidal gel. Some proudly tell me how fertile they are and the number of times their partners have tested positive for hCG. The married ones often try to contact me several weeks afterward to see if I’ve gotten my period.

Racial/ethnic market forces and elite escorts: We staff to meet our customer’s requirements. I train an ever changing multi-racial group of male and female escort candidates and they are professional enough to suppress any pregnancy risk turn-on that they might have, unless it’s part of a client’s encounter. Though if they have such a turn-on I’m sure they use it to enhance their performance and prowess. Our escorts are almost exclusively employed by the very wealthy from Asia, Europe and the Americas. Of our customers European men usually prefer Caucasian or Asian girls while European and Asian women prefer Caucasian men.

We also have a niche specialty, providing a few massively hung black males who generally, but not always, are favored to service tiny Asian women while their husbands or their Doms watch. Sometimes the women use contraception and sometimes they don’t. We are rarely asked to terminate a pregnancy conceived here as the clients don’t usually stay that long.

Risks with massive males: Sometimes there are spectacular couplings with women and amazingly hung men, other times tragedy when the woman tears, her uterus ruptures or she spontaneously aborts or dies from hemorrhage or a heart attack during a willing encounter with an immense penis. We once had client who loved watching his petite submissive Asian partner being taken by massively hung men. She was at 6 months gestation and had a miscarriage during an encounter while being penetrated from behind by her massive commercial partner.

Her cervix dilated from both her prostaglandin surge from the orgasms he had given her and the prostaglandin surge from his ejaculate. Her cervix dilated enough that after several powerful thrusts his penis penetrated her Os. She was tied down on her hands and knees on a king bed and his continued thrusting punctured the placenta. His penis tangled in the umbilical which ripped away from the wall of her uterus and she had a massive hemorrhage. He was wearing a cock ring that prevented him from immediately going flaccid so he continued to thrust into her uterus as she bled to death while she begged him not to stop! Unfortunately they were in her Dom’s hotel room at the time. Had the client followed our advice and had her tryst in one of our encounter sallies where we have an EMT team on duty she and the baby might have been saved.

An autopsy showed she had a very short and incompetent cervix that with the surges in prostaglandins along with premature cervical effacement (thinning) and dilation caused premature labor that ended in tragedy.