Sunday, March 10, 2013

Kinky Brian and a reader’s question


Dead pointes repurposed as bed shoes for Brian


Brian and menstrual sex: He is visiting this weekend because we are both fond of menstrual sex and I’m CD2 today and will be bleeding heavily today and tomorrow. Only now that he’s penetrating me outside a studio setting I’m finding that he loves having sex with women who are wearing purple pointes while they are menstruating. That’s not nearly as kinky as some of my other lovers so for me he’s almost a vanilla. Well, at least so far. He says that for him a partner wearing purple pointes symbolizes a dancer’s grace, poise and regal bearing. He also prefers taking his women to bed with them in pointes as bed shoes made of traditional materials rather than primarily polymer as Gaynors are, so he can enjoy the scent of her shoes while they are mated.

Sex in traditional materials Vs Polymer block and shank shoes: I can understand his love for strongly scented pointes of traditional materials since when he’s here we do a twenty minute barre to warm up before bedroom athletics so we are both limber for the positions he wants. The sweat from the barre activates the scent of damp fabric, leather and paste which is a bouquet I enjoy too especially when on my back with my ankles crossed under my head while he’s pounding my cervix or thrusting into my anterior fornix.

Of course for studio or encounter salle ballet-sex Gaynors are a must-have because with hard pre-arched shanks a woman can relax and put her weight on her heels and enjoy the encounter while balanced on her toes, rather than having to try holding her weight over the blocks to prevent crushing her shanks. That’s especially true for women with high arches like me who can easily destroy even some polymer shanks. Struggling to remain centered over the blocks detracts considerably from the pleasure of having ones G-spot caressed while en pointe. In Gaynors we can fully enjoy being penetrated from the rear while our pelvic muscles are clenched their tightest by being en pointe, but there is no damp leather and paste bouquet as with traditionally made shoes.

Latex diaphragms and menstruation: During my heavy days he likes me (and I assume his other conquests with whom he has menstrual sex) to wear a latex diaphragm because the flow reacts with the latex to develop a distinctive odor much quicker than with silicone and of course the dome is far softer, stretchier and transmits heat far better than silicone. The Reflexions flat spring also provides far better under-thrust protection when he is caressing his partner’s G-spot. Of course the down-side of Reflexions is that it can’t be used by couples with a latex allergy and the dome is shallower than a Milex which can hold a bit more flow before needing to be emptied. Flow volume isn’t usually a problem because with studio, encounter salle or bedroom sex the diaphragm is emptied immediately before and again after the encounter, except in the case of the very few women who have cycles so short that they become fertile while menstrual. In that case it’s best to wear a diaphragm that won’t need emptying for at least six hours after the last act of intercourse.

Brian and Bea: He hasn’t asked about her yet this weekend so perhaps he knows she is on a chaperoned spring break trip with some other St Lucy’s ballet students. They are spending a few days in NYC to see the museums and have tickets to see Phantom of the Opera and go back stage to talk with some of the ballet girls in the play. Her period came on schedule so she survived her encounters with Brian and she is now in her luteal phase so her libido shouldn’t be as strong and perhaps masturbation will satisfy her until she returns and can be with escort trainees again.

A frequent reader asks: “I have found that pregnancy risk sex is a huge turn on for a lot of submissives … I have found that a lot of those who are Dominant also have a bit of submissiveness in their makeup (I think that actually helps to better get into the head of one's sub partner). Is this the case with you?”

My reply: It depends on my mood. I do at times love to let myself be taken by a man who doesn’t know who I am. I can be very feminine and submissive when I want to lead him on, knowing at any time I can take control of our encounter. My experience with pick-ups at the Meat Market at Naughty’s is that men, especially the married ones, are both scared and thrilled by the thought that they might leave me pregnant. And those who ask about my method of contraception are fascinated that I’m protected by just a thin stretchy membrane of latex or clear silicone and a spermicidal gel. Some proudly tell me how fertile they are and the number of times their partners have tested positive for hCG. The married ones often try to contact me several weeks afterward to see if I’ve gotten my period.

Racial/ethnic market forces and elite escorts: We staff to meet our customer’s requirements. I train an ever changing multi-racial group of male and female escort candidates and they are professional enough to suppress any pregnancy risk turn-on that they might have, unless it’s part of a client’s encounter. Though if they have such a turn-on I’m sure they use it to enhance their performance and prowess. Our escorts are almost exclusively employed by the very wealthy from Asia, Europe and the Americas. Of our customers European men usually prefer Caucasian or Asian girls while European and Asian women prefer Caucasian men.

We also have a niche specialty, providing a few massively hung black males who generally, but not always, are favored to service tiny Asian women while their husbands or their Doms watch. Sometimes the women use contraception and sometimes they don’t. We are rarely asked to terminate a pregnancy conceived here as the clients don’t usually stay that long.

Risks with massive males: Sometimes there are spectacular couplings with women and amazingly hung men, other times tragedy when the woman tears, her uterus ruptures or she spontaneously aborts or dies from hemorrhage or a heart attack during a willing encounter with an immense penis. We once had client who loved watching his petite submissive Asian partner being taken by massively hung men. She was at 6 months gestation and had a miscarriage during an encounter while being penetrated from behind by her massive commercial partner.

Her cervix dilated from both her prostaglandin surge from the orgasms he had given her and the prostaglandin surge from his ejaculate. Her cervix dilated enough that after several powerful thrusts his penis penetrated her Os. She was tied down on her hands and knees on a king bed and his continued thrusting punctured the placenta. His penis tangled in the umbilical which ripped away from the wall of her uterus and she had a massive hemorrhage. He was wearing a cock ring that prevented him from immediately going flaccid so he continued to thrust into her uterus as she bled to death while she begged him not to stop! Unfortunately they were in her Dom’s hotel room at the time. Had the client followed our advice and had her tryst in one of our encounter sallies where we have an EMT team on duty she and the baby might have been saved.

An autopsy showed she had a very short and incompetent cervix that with the surges in prostaglandins along with premature cervical effacement (thinning) and dilation caused premature labor that ended in tragedy.

5 comments:

  1. For men who groove on menstrual sex, even I would wear purple points! God how I love it! There are times when a diaphragm is handy to reduce the mess. Or the modern, disposable menstrual cups (their brochure even recommends this use!) but I prefer nothing other than a set of luxuriant burgundy towels. There is really no other reason to sell burgundy coloured towels and I have two sets in all sizes for under me to wiping the lips, his or mine, and penis. Dump them all in a tub of cold water to deal with later.

    My first menstrual encounter was with another young, very young we were, woman. I loved that instance and I have loved every encounter since. It was a "first" for each of us and she merely placed three fingers down my knickers and worked right above the top of the pad. That was the first orgasm with another manipulating me. By the end of the month, we had progressed to full oral sex and both found it wonderful. She always preferred to wear a tampon to reduce the mess; I preferred bare to use the mess. We found happy compromises.

    Perhaps my attitude toward Brian could be changed! Especially if he stays away from Bea.

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    1. Menstrual sex the first time with a new partner is so special with either sex! Extra large thick Burgundy bath sheets are so useful that way!

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  2. Brenda:

    You may not know it but those " modern, disposable menstrual cups" have a secondary use for TTC (Trying To Conceive) couples as explained here:
    http://www.early-pregnancy-tests.com/softcup.html

    I thought this may be of use to some of the hot women (well sluts, but slut unfortunately has a negative connotation, though I think terms such as prude, puritan, virgin etc. are the real sick and negative terms for a woman as they indicate she is in denial of her God given sexuality) who are interested in conception, be it either for a baby or for the thrill of pregnancy risk sex.

    I mentioned this to Jill in a PM and she responded:
    "I'm familiar with Instead/Softcup. Thanks for the link about using it as a conception aid. Some have tried to use it as a diaphragm, but the rim is large and a distraction to men. I have a friend who had her BF masturbate into the cup then inserted it while fertile and it worked for them. She was just curious and didn't want a baby so terminated it."

    I talked a cyber slut into having breeding parties while using the Softcup and she caught in the first month, so it seems to be effective for TTC couples. One should know how to conceive as well as how not to.

    Brenda, I totally agree with you about how delightsome menstrual sex can be. The feeling for a guy is very different than standard sex, no matter how much My slut may be lubricated. The feeling is different, somewhat silkier. It makes for real hot if messy sex, but if one is concerned about "the mess" why even have sex? I also love to give head as it turns on My slut so much! Also it is nice in that so many puritan perverts would find the thought so offensive, and whatever can shock them is a good thing as they deserve it for brainwashing so many young American girls with their anti-sex filth.

    Lustfully yours,

    Master Paul

    PS Jill, thanks for your reply regarding submissiveness. You are a wonderful slut! Slut good, prude bad.

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    1. Hi Paul... When I was more into the rubber scene here than I am now I rose to the level of 'Rubber Slut' which is quite high in the levels of local latex fetish accomplishment. So being called a Slut doesn't bother me a bit.

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  3. Paul,

    Several years ago a patient who wanted to conceive and her husband were into the second year of trying but still did not want to go the route of the fertility consultant (specialist in U.S.). What we devised based on her menstrual history and basal temperature records was a scheme to keep her cervix immersed in fresh semen for six days. During the middle part of her cycle and on every other day, she jacked him off catching the ejaculate in the Instead/SoftCup and then immediately inserted it over her cervix. Given the life of sperm in her neutralized, by douche, vagina and the typical recovery time for full strength semen, by sperm count, this kept her cervix in a pool of live, highly motile sperm for six straight days. Success! Our next step would have involved timing the placement of the sperm filled cup with her mucosa production but we did not get there.

    At the other end of uses, I have known women who filled the Instead with vaginal jelly and used same as a cervical cap. For a woman who is the proper measurements, this is a good idea; for most, I do not recommend it.

    I did try those things when they came onto the market but had leakage problems every time. My then girlfriend used them with no problem. They are a fixed size and must fit well to function properly as a menstrual device or contraceptive device. I do believe that doctors all over the world have discovered them as conception aids. It is interesting to see the company's recommendation to simply put it in after getting laid. I prefer the scheme that fills the cup and gets in there without drainage.

    I have had men comment on how much warmer it is "in there" during my period. Anecdotal report, there is no scientific research to support that. For those into olfactory funkiness, you would love removing a menstrual cup (I used a Diva) the day after menstrual sex. That is worse than letting in for twenty hours. Best done in the shower.

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