An Escort during discipline training in a vertical penetration chair
Fall and BDSM trining: With fall approaching (it will arrive with the autumnal equinox on September 23rd) there is an increased interest in BDSM gear and Submissive training classes are filling up. The one my service is offering, ‘The Assertive Submissive’, has filled up already. There seems to be a need for a bit of spice in this years new Submissives, although some Doms with older girls are sending them through assertiveness training again. The girls in the heavy rubber fetish community are anxious for cooler weather to arrive so they can go shopping in their encasement suits w/o being concerned about heat stroke.
Ballet boots and confidence: We are offering a course, for women, interested in wearing their ballet boots correctly and confidently. A lot of that has to do with buying quality boots of the correct size. Otherwise the boots don’t provide the proper support and can be really uncomfortable. Buying ballet boots is rather like buying bras in that way. The men in the fetish community seem to feel that ballet boots are punitive footwear to be used primarily in the domination of female submissives, and if they aren’t fitted properly they are punitive regardless of how skilled the wearer is. That male mindset is on display on a great many BDSM sites where women are very often shown in chains and ballet boots, in ballet boots strapped to a fucking machine, in encasement suits and ballet boots, hogtied and nude except for a pair of ballet boots… you get the idea.
I understand why a man can feel that way up to a point, especially if he has never worn ballet boots himself so he has no idea how empowering they are if the skill to wear them can be mastered. It seems to me that the males controlling the BDSM communities have unintentionally given women a tool that can be used as an affirmation of our femininity, just as is wearing pointe shoes skillfully. I don’t mean to equate the two, because I think comparing ballet boots to pointe shoes is like comparing child’s bicycle with training wheels to a Tour-de-France racing bike, but a girl has to use the tools she is given and if her master wants her in ballet boots then if she is skillful that can be a major plus for her.
A woman with ability who really puts her mind to it can turn ballet boots from punitive footwear into her signature as a dominatrix. I’ll grant that it takes a lot of time and effort; the proper diet to reduce leg cramps, strengthening calves, feet and ankles and counter-maintenance by proper stretching exercises to prevent crippling ones-self by shortening hamstrings from being en pointe in ballet boots for too long. But if the woman has the determination to persevere she can learn to stride confidently and erotically in her ballet boots to the consternation of her Dom who thought he was punishing her.
Male escort training and ballet boots: Isn’t it always the way with new men coming on to a girl in ballet boots, they will often come in the laces of her ballet boots! That’s why one of the first things a girl is taught after getting her first pair of ballet boots is how to clean the laces because she can count on a man spewing semen into them. You have to wonder why premature ejaculation is such a common problem with new men in the trade, even when they think they have great control over their urges. I know our instructors are lovely, but still… I think it’s such a common problem because many men think of women in ballet-boots as an ultimate sexual fantasy. When a man sees a girl in ballet boots he is conditioned to think they are in punitive footwear and that she is being punished or is submissive, and therefore she is vulnerable. Thinking a woman vulnerable, in my experience, makes him aroused and careless with his urges which translates to him soaking my boot laces with semen while he is on his knees stimulating my clit with his nose, his tongue between my labia lapping up my vaginal discharge. Having him give me oral seems to be an invitation to have the man cream my laces if I stand with my feet in second position with him kneeling straddling one of my boots. I can feel him thrusting into the laces boot-fucking me while his tongue is probing my vagina sucking out my vaginal secretions.
I think the more men are conditioned to think women find wearing ballet boots painful, which they can be, the easier they are to mind-fuck. It gives a woman a huge mental advantage when she becomes an expert in wearing her boots in relative comfort for long intervals while being skilled in walking, dancing and even running in ballet boots. I think it’s such fun watching a man who thinks he’s a predator get mind-fucked by a girl less than half his size.
Contemporary Sexual Health (CSH) at St Lucy’s: At St Lucy’s Contemporary Sexual Health is a required course. It encompasses the usual subjects one would expect at an elite girls school: feminine hygiene, protection from STIs, contraception, emergency-contraception, selection of sexual partners of both sexes and handling oneself at college parties and your options after an unintended pregnancy.
During CSH class the students are given several lecture-demonstrations of the discipline training equipment used by Doms in the D/S subculture, so the more adventuresome of the girls can see for themselves, if (once they reach the age of consent) they would like to take my Advanced Sexual Techniques course. If they do they can earn extra credit by becoming part of the student auxiliary in local Fetish community and take discipline training on a wide range of marvelously ingenious pelvic training hardware, otherwise known as fucking machines.
The image accompanying this entry: The image is of an escort in discipline training strapped into a vertical penetration chair. You can see that she is wearing leather ballet boots, as called for in the standard iconography of domination, (See above) to add another layer of worry to her mental stress as the hydraulic ram – under control of her Dom - thrusts deeper and deeper into her at an ever faster rate until it is battering her unprotected cervix. A single session of vertical penetration training and almost any woman will agree to anything her Dom asks.
Got a couple questions on this article that came to mind while reading this:
ReplyDelete1) You talk about how men think of ballet boots as punative yet some women think of them as empowering. Where do you think the line is between the two extremes? I do think that some women might think of them as punitive, but probably because of what you said of some being poor-fitting.
2) The new male escorts having "control" issues: About what percentage of the new guys have the premature/early ejaculation that you've seen at the start, and how many of those get the control necessary to please their clients and female escorts? Usually, how long does it take? I know of methods that are taught in Tantric sex and other places, are they similar?
1) You talk about how men think of ballet boots as punitive yet some women think of them as empowering. Where do you think the line is between the two extremes? I do think that some women might think of them as punitive, but probably because of what you said of some being poor-fitting.
ReplyDeleteWell, I think there are vastly more men who think ballet boots are punitive, virtually 100%, than there are women who think they are empowering. Women who don’t wear BBs all think they are punitive and I’d guess that less than 5% of women who wear them are skilled enough to feel they are empowering. That’s because so few submissive women have had any ballet, much less pointe, training and as a result have no clue how to manage when they find themselves forced to wear ballet boots.
2) The new male escorts having "control" issues: About what percentage of the new guys have the premature/early ejaculation that you've seen at the start, and how many of those get the control necessary to please their clients and female escorts? Usually, how long does it take? I know of methods that are taught in Tantric sex and other places, are they similar?
I don’t think so. We go more for shock therapy to target a specific problem. Almost all our guys who have PE issues only encounter the problem when the woman they are with is in ballet boots. I think it has more to do with the man’s mental image of the woman wearing boots as being submissive, in pain and vulnerable. We try to break them of this stereotypical view of women in BBs as quickly as possible. As soon as premature ejaculators find that the woman – their trainer – is expert in wearing ballet boots and is a predator it changes the dynamic between them. Several extremely intense sessions with a predator in ballet boots is something no man can forget. Not to say some of it isn’t pleasurable, but occasionally a hard case can’t get over being bested sexually by a woman and becomes furious. That automatically washes him out of the program. No one wants to employ a man as an escort who might become violent with a client. Once a trainee is broken of mentally Dissing every woman he sees wearing ballet boots the guy seem to regain control. It’s really curious how the male mind works.
Dear Jill,
ReplyDeletedo you train the ladies in your class only in a physical way by stretching, training etc or also in a psychological way? The way into (or up to?) balletheels inculding all the diets etc is long, hard and sometimes full of tears. What kind of support do you offer besides training the body-skills?
Are the participants of your class rookies or did they train in their (wrong?) way before? The perfect shoe is essential for a good training but is there a perfect shoe available at the market without the access to Ghepettos boutique?
Cheers, Joe
Hi Joe, We offer women in ballet boot training both physical and psychologically support. Students are divided into classes by experience-skill levels so rookies won’t hold other more advanced students back. The rookies are usually wealthy older women who want to add a kinky skill in a competitive market for men. That allows us to provide encouragement and support at the level the students need. We have psychologists who work with students who are having difficult time handling the emotionally strain of intense training. And for those who need it there are topical anesthetics such as Dibucaine (Nupercainal ointment) that can be used in toe-pads to numb students toes. Students get used to standing in their boots so long that their toes naturally go numb any way just as if a woman was standing en pointe in toe-shoes.
ReplyDeleteOur ballet boot training is not for the faint of heart. It can be a long and often painful process and for beginners – defined as no previous pointe training - there is a dropout rate of between 20 to 30% - primarily because of leg cramps - over the life of an intensive six month course even though we screen candidates closely. Tuition is non-refundable. Most of our students are young entertainers with ballet training living in the area, or wealthy young women with ballet training from around the country wanting to be real boot-chicks in their social circle as the cost of living accommodations here for 6 months plus the cost of school equipment, primarily two pairs of pleasure boots, can be prohibitive.
I’m sure there are other bespoke (custom fitted) ballet boot makers in the US, UK and Europe who use ballet lasts and make their boots to actually be walked in rather than just posed in. So far I don’t think there is such a thing as a perfect ballet boot, but Gepettos Pleasure Boots are the next best thing. Our students are fitted with black leather pairs of his Pleasure Boots which are the most comfortable, supportive and wearer-friendly of his styles since they were designed to cushion a woman’s feet and toes when she’s dropped on her platforms during rear penetration sex.
Cool training, I have ballet and pointe fetish. I wish I can be one of your pointe girls. Strolling around a room with pointe shoes and harem pants is so sexy.
ReplyDeleteYou should really invest in some more research into preventing premature ejaculation, it would be best for everybody. Brute force is simply a cop out.
ReplyDeleteOhhh... struck a nerve did it? Tell me how you would do it, ok? No brute force is used on the men who PE on my boots... With Escort trainees we just keep going through the exercise until it becomes routine for them and they are able to regain control...
ReplyDeleteWhere can we get that chair? It seems that we cant just google it.
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