Monday, June 15, 2009

Grief counseling


Alan’s first fetish counseling exam

Grief counseling: In mid May I agreed to help my spiritual advisor (now a bishop in a western state) by training a select few of his priests in more effective methods of grief counseling for women in their parishes He felt they needed training in techniques that more efficiently bridge the chasm of a woman’s loss while she transitions, after a divorce or the death of a male partner. Techniques like; how to gently and effectively insert a parishioner’s contraceptive barrier for her, how to find a woman’s G-spot, how to give her a clitoral orgasm and how to effectively protect himself if the parishioner has an STI. Assisting with cervical barrier insertion is extremely effective as a confidence building technique during initial grief therapy because it helps establish an intimate bond between the woman and her spiritual advisor and demonstrates that he has her reproductive health and safety in mind while caring for her physical as well as spiritual needs. Once these basics have been mastered the grief counseling student can move on to the more advanced aspects where fetishes, dive-sex and asphyxia are covered.

Anya and I have been working with the first of these students a young man just out of seminary and newly ordained. Actually, Alan is the third staff member sent to us for training. The first two were rejected as being totally unsuited for the course as they were so sexually repressed that neither was able to remove Anya’s thong much less finger her vulva. But Alan is a different story entirely and under Anya’s tutelage for the last several weeks he has blossomed! He is now proficient enough in the basics that she has passed him on to me for an introduction to encasement fetishes. Encasement counseling as I teach it includes masochism, sadism and some aspects bondage and Domme/Sub relationships. It encompasses, but is not limited to: tight shoes and boots (pointe-shoes and ballet-boots), dive –sex (encased in neoprene and SCUBA gear), latex, leather, gas masks and other encasement/life-support equipment as well as asphyxia training while wearing heavy rubber encasement suits. The student is trained to wear each of these so he knows what his female parishioner is feeling as her fetishwear compresses her body and he learns how to get in and out of the equipment himself as well as becoming proficient in quickly and safely getting the woman out of her fetishwear, or at least to unfasten their equipment to the extent that they are able to experience the bonding of mutual sexual activity.

His first test: Alan’s first test in this advanced portion of the course will be to undress and sexually counsel a woman presented to him as a fetish patient encased in latex. [See the image of a rubber-chick clad in a similar suit accompanying this entry.] He will be judged by the style and elegance with which he unfastens the laces, buckles and zippers of her suit, his ability to calm the fears which caused her to become so anxious that she needed to encase herself in rubber and to check for and ensure that she is using a cervical barrier during intimate counseling up to and including her orgasm. The diocese has agreed to allow – well look the other way during - the use of cervical barriers and spermicide but refused to even consider the use of hormonal contraceptives for women needing enhanced counseling. The refusal to consider hormonal contraceptives proved providential because it put the woman’s reproductive safety directly in her therapists hands, there by removing the likelihood that she will be misusing her pills (either accidentally or on purpose) and so won’t be protected by the hormones.

Taryn as a Rubber-Chick: Taryn, who Alan has never met, will be the rubber-chick as his first counseling patient in a heavy latex encasement suit and she has been preparing for the last three days. Her preparation – keep in mind she is CD11 and fertile – consisted of inserting a latex diaphragm three days ago so that it has collected her cervical fluids which have soaked into the somewhat porous rubber of the thin stretchy dome and have begun to decompose. The scent is amazingly pungent with elements of Roquefort, rotting fish and rubber. She has had to wear a short Penetrator to prevent her friends from shunning her during workup for Alan. Of course she won’t be plugged during their encounter so the scent will leak out through her encasement suit. Liking that scent really will be an acquired taste but Anya thinks that may be a realistic possibility for Alan because she caught him several times smelling some of her disgustingly smelly pointes in which the rubber padding was beginning to rot. He loved it! He won’t be told ahead of time what if anything she has inserted, so her decomposing cervical fluid and latex will be taking his fetish to the next level. Not that he is likely to see much of that sort of thing in his home parish, unless he can develop a relationship with a woman willing to supply that sort of special need. But, Taryn is using her spicy diaphragm as a diversion to see if she can distract him from showing her the proper respect while he unties, unbuckles, unzips and peels off her rubber suit to get to that dreadful or divine scent, depending on your point of view.

1 comment:

  1. That is Bianca Beauchamp on the picture and not Jean Bardot !

    Your Friend,
    Sir Marc

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